FabGuys.com forum: Sexual regrets.

By *ongw1960 OP Man
4 days ago

Belvedere

How many of us have regrets about the past and things we wish we'd done or not done when it comes to our sex lives and sexuality.?

I found my bisexuality 10 year's ago when I was in my early/ mid 50s, having been curious about the possibility I was bisexual ever since my early adulthood, after a male family friend masturbated me and sucked me off till l came in his mouth,and I found I liked it being done to me by another man as well as by a woman,but at the time l was too shocked by what he'd done to me & surprised I'd liked it that I didn't tell him when he saw the look on my face and apologised 4 doing it to me.

If I'd said something to him then about liking what he did to me I might have ended up doing more with him sex wise than just him playing with me & found my bisexuality years earlier thsn l did.

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By *eorgesdadMan
4 days ago

Long Eaton Nottingham

I regret not admitting I was gay and not telling the gay barber who gave a raging erection whilst washing my hair, we were alone in the salon so I could have come out to him but didn’t 😩💔😩💔

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By *am4cockMan
4 days ago

Bournemouth

There is one man I totally regret ever meeting. I allowed things to get serious and it turned out he was the most manipulative piece of shit. Left me very bitter. It's my only regret in that respect but it's a huge one.

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By *irralGuy20Man
4 days ago

Wirral

My one regret is not experimenting sooner (with guys). If it hadn't have been for one of my best mates having similar curiosity i may have stayed in denial forever.

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By *nmykneesagainMan
4 days ago

salford

Only regret is not trying cock sooner, I always had bi feeling but didn't try cock until my 30s

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By *obert1950Man
4 days ago

Hockley

Took me until I was 70. So many regrets but too late now

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By *oannacd70TV/TS
4 days ago

worcester

I was 21 seeing a girl sex was great. But her job was very demanding. 6 months later she moved to Singapore wanted me to go. Now she a multi millionaire. And lives the high life. While I'm still in the gutter

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By *rymysrseMan
4 days ago

halifax siddal

Only regret not trying cock sooner

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By *od1969Man
4 days ago

Wolston

Back in the days of VHS me and one of my female friends boyfriends use to swap porn videos,one time he gave me one with some guys kissing wanking and sucking each other,first time I watched it I switched it off I couldn't believe what I'd seen but soon curiosity got the better of me and I soon knew exactly how many minutes in the scene was and watched it over and over again, never mentioned it to him but have always wished I had said how much I'd enjoyed it and hope we can find some more of the same, I still hope now that I come across him on here always regret not telling him

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By *ost and lust fuelledMan
4 days ago

st.helens

I deeply regret not taking the chance for a threesome with my first serious girlfriend and her ex boyfriend after a long evenings drinking

Looking back, more than 35 years now, i wonder how amazing ( or badly wrong lol ) my sex life could have been with a woman who encouraged me to enjoy cock as well as pussy

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By *eefandfurMan
4 days ago

Edinburgh

Not being more experimental at a younger age.

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By *uckbudyMan
4 days ago

somewherenear

Yeah.... Should have been BI long time ago. Love a dildo up my arse and the thought of cock in my mouth.

I was quite good looking. Regret not having MMM fun.

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By *reambunMan
4 days ago

Bristol/Bath

Bisexuality for me was really late on, late 50s to be exact. Had various of cock fun experiences but they were pre-teen (unwanted) teen ( embarrassing but very much wanted) then one or two encounters. Until the coinciding of Sites like this(in fact someone from Chat Avenue directed me) and a decent phone and coverage.

Now I've definitely had more cock than pussy, I can genuinely say I've lost count of the meets I've had. But I've been lucky I've made a couple of regular friends

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By *redyMan
4 days ago

Garstang area

I didn’t realise I was bi till after I’d retired from work and had more opportunity to look at porn, I then realised cock was beginning to excite me. At first I was in denial, “this couldn’t be happening to me, I’ve been straight all my life” but it was happening. Then a while before I plucked up enough courage to meet a guy but when I did it was great, quite natural!

Now regret not trying it sooner and all the missed opportunities!!!

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By *excessMan
4 days ago

Sleaford

My one regret is not having my first anal experience with someone experienced.

It was dreadful and put me off for a long time!

Other than that though sweet as

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
4 days ago

Brighton

My regret is not very sexually polyamorous when I was younger. Now, I just let go, relax and have sex fun with other guys besides my partner. I made more friends and have regular sex buddies besides my partner. Feels liberated being myself, learn to accept myself and becoming more confident as a person - one example is not hiding my face.

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By *raig_KJMan
4 days ago

Southport

I regret not sucking the first hard cock I had the chance to.

Who knows where that could have led.

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By *ave 6565Man
4 days ago

Bradford

Not sucked enough cock or swallowed enough cum xxx

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By *tar33Man
4 days ago

North London (outer)

I have a few, too few to mention.

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By *now my placeTV/TS
4 days ago

Manchester

I’m bi and one Xmas came back home and bumped into my ex girlfriend from school days sister who was now 17. We were both hammered, one thing led to another and woke up at hers the next morning when the front door loudly closed. It was lunchtime, we’d both slept late, had to do the walk of shame apologising to her dad who wasn’t best pleased and chased me down the road - not the best morning I’ve ever had

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By *oonsuckerMan
4 days ago

tynemouth

Was 39 when i 1st tried anything always thought about it thought to myself i need to do it before i hit 40 been sucking ever since and love it

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By *bbillMan
4 days ago

Aberdeen

My only regret was having no cock fun between 18 and 28

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
4 days ago

Bedford

None really done all wanted twice over and something's I shouldn't have lol xx

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By *antasistMan
4 days ago

Nowhere

Like a lot I guess, not starting sooner. There were a few times when I thought I was straight where I was approached by guys and I brushed them off. But no point looking back.

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By *dol1Man
4 days ago

Wexford Dublin

Wish I had of been a bit more courageous in meeting other guys when i was younger. I had quite a few opportunities but didn't take them, that's one regret I have

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By *IPMANMan
4 days ago

LONDON

If all the bisexuals and bicurious were laid end to end, would anyone care ?

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By *IPMANMan
4 days ago

LONDON

If all the bisexuals and bicurious were laid end to end, would anyone care ?

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By *endleGuy_01Man
4 days ago

Nelson

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By *endleGuy_01Man
4 days ago

Nelson

In truth, absolutely nobody except themselves.

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By *onstant.Man
4 days ago

Middlesbrough

I wish I'd explored my sexuality when I was in my teens. I think I'm more gay.

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By *elfordsubMan
4 days ago

Telford

Sexually, I regret almost nothing I have done but there is a lot I regret not doing.

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By *eep in my assMan
4 days ago

coventry

Not exploring now when I was younger, it was very limited. We had 1 pub in the city. So not many options for a shy young man. Plus beatings were common

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By *ottomplymMan
4 days ago

Plymouth

Wish I hadn’t told myself that I was straight when all I have ever wanted and now do is have unbelievable sex with men. Sexually I waited way to long to be able to be myself

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By *am 62Man
4 days ago

Alcudia

Met an old school teacher in town one night ten years after leaving, she made it quite clear she was up for getting fucked, unfortunately to pissed to take her up on the offer, I was 26, she'd been about 60,

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By *ead BioMan
4 days ago

Frinton-on-Sea

Starting quite late, didn't do anything with another guy till I was 21 almost 22. Defo would of started sooner if I knew what I was missing out on.

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By *hickenmcnuggetsMan
4 days ago

Coxlodge, Newcastle upon Tyne

In retrospect, it’s a bit baffling that I dismissed my first real hints of bicuriosity in my early-mid twenties as “just a phase”, but hey… so many other people have done the same, ha.

I used to regret not going to a gay sauna for the first time in my early twenties. But TBH, at least I was much more “streetwise” when I eventually did at 35… and I’ve made up for my lack of previous action since then anyway, lol.

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By *arehamMan
3 days ago

_areham

My only regret was hiding from my true self. Not having the balls to come out and instead conformed to social/family expectations.

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By *jsucksTV/TS
3 days ago

Chesham

I was 18 at the time and a mutual wanking session with a college pal got very hot very quick with him fingerings my bum. And he wanted to kiss me .I turned him down as that would mean I was gay. That ended that it was30 odd years later I kissed my first guy. My whole world exploded turns ou yes I am gay and love to suck cock and be fucked. Allthose wasted years and one failed marriage. But better late the never

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