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By *ianca del Monte OP   TV/TS
4 days ago

Somewhere nr Reading

I have become increasingly aware of a tenancy in these forums (fora?) For many many threads to just descend into a slanging match. Often with the slangers having derailed the thread onto topics at odds with the original post.

Very often it's the same offenders. Anyone else noticed this?

.

Or ... anyone want to argue with this and get all passive aggressive in pointing out that I am wrong?

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By *ookingFor...Man
4 days ago

West Sussex

Oh do sod right off, ya daft cow!

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By *ookingFor...Man
4 days ago

West Sussex

Just kidding...

Yes I've noticed this and it often does tend to be topics deliberately chosen to get a reaction...

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By *ph1956Man
4 days ago

COLCHESTER

Er Er Er

Oh fuck, not me!

😳

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By *ianca del Monte OP   TV/TS
4 days ago

Somewhere nr Reading


"Oh do sod right off, ya daft cow! "

Appreciate the directness!

🐄

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By *ianca del Monte OP   TV/TS
4 days ago

Somewhere nr Reading


"Just kidding...

Yes I've noticed this and it often does tend to be topics deliberately chosen to get a reaction... "

No it doesn't

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By *ngelaTaylorTV/TS
4 days ago

Peterbrough

Do you get a nice uniform in the forum Police ?

If so, I might be open to joining

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

It was always thus. Is it a big deal in the scheme of things? It's a bit of escapism.

The problem is when recidivist trolls return and foment their bigotry.

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By *ianca del Monte OP   TV/TS
4 days ago

Somewhere nr Reading


"Do you get a nice uniform in the forum Police ?

If so, I might be open to joining "

Here we go ....

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By *anmannersMan
4 days ago

Uk


"I have become increasingly aware of a tenancy in these forums (fora?) For many many threads to just descend into a slanging match. Often with the slangers having derailed the thread onto topics at odds with the original post.

Very often it's the same offenders. Anyone else noticed this?

.

Or ... anyone want to argue with this and get all passive aggressive in pointing out that I am wrong?"

Sadly, have to agree

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

Or subjects chosen that some will find an inconvenient truth...

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By *ph1956Man
4 days ago

COLCHESTER


"Oh do sod right off, ya daft cow! "

Luv it!

Hehehe, Hehehe!

Lead on McDuff.

I'll just put my crash helmet on and watch the fall out.

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By *andomguy321Man
4 days ago

reading

The trouble is that instead of having a level-headed discussion about 'WHAT is right', things inevitably turn into a slanging match about 'WHO is right'

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By *ianca del Monte OP   TV/TS
4 days ago

Somewhere nr Reading


"It was always thus. Is it a big deal in the scheme of things? It's a bit of escapism.

The problem is when recidivist trolls return and foment their bigotry. "

Yes.

There is often an undercurrent of bigotry .... I guess that is when it starts to matter

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

Stunning self-awareness 👍

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By *ianca del Monte OP   TV/TS
4 days ago

Somewhere nr Reading


"The trouble is that instead of having a level-headed discussion about 'WHAT is right', things inevitably turn into a slanging match about 'WHO is right'

"

Well there is no argument on that score.

It's me.

I am right.

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By *andomguy321Man
4 days ago

reading


"The trouble is that instead of having a level-headed discussion about 'WHAT is right', things inevitably turn into a slanging match about 'WHO is right'

Well there is no argument on that score.

It's me.

I am right."

As Billy Joel might say - "Oh, and she never gives out and she never gives in,

She just changes her mind"

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen


"It was always thus. Is it a big deal in the scheme of things? It's a bit of escapism.

The problem is when recidivist trolls return and foment their bigotry.

Yes.

There is often an undercurrent of bigotry .... I guess that is when it starts to matter "

...

...

The Fab CSC always play the bigots off the park with their legendary humour and intelligence.

🇮🇪👊👹

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 days ago

Llandrindod Wells

We've all got opinions and the right to express them. Very often there is no right or wrong. Just different points of view. Some cannot accept this. I get a bit annoyed when a topic changed mid-thread. Why not start a new thread instead of hijacking an existing one.

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By *owzerMan
4 days ago

Chester.....

You could report any abusive posts and see if they get taken down. That might make a difference

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By *ianca del Monte OP   TV/TS
4 days ago

Somewhere nr Reading


"It was always thus. Is it a big deal in the scheme of things? It's a bit of escapism.

The problem is when recidivist trolls return and foment their bigotry.

Yes.

There is often an undercurrent of bigotry .... I guess that is when it starts to matter

...

...

The Fab CSC always play the bigots off the park with their legendary humour and intelligence.

🇮🇪👊👹"

CSC?

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

It's not necessarily a hijacking. Look at the Tommeh thread that turned into a debate re fascism/theocracy..

It's all good in the hood....

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By *andomguy321Man
4 days ago

reading


"We've all got opinions and the right to express them. Very often there is no right or wrong. Just different points of view. Some cannot accept this. I get a bit annoyed when a topic changed mid-thread. Why not start a new thread instead of hijacking an existing one."

Soapboxes and megaphones

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen


"It was always thus. Is it a big deal in the scheme of things? It's a bit of escapism.

The problem is when recidivist trolls return and foment their bigotry.

Yes.

There is often an undercurrent of bigotry .... I guess that is when it starts to matter

...

...

The Fab CSC always play the bigots off the park with their legendary humour and intelligence.

🇮🇪👊👹

CSC?"

Celtic Supporters Club. 74 threads so far. Gay,bi, TV's talking football and always having a laugh.

Yet it's not a clique.🇮🇪

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By *ornbi321Man
4 days ago

Birmingham


"It was always thus. Is it a big deal in the scheme of things? It's a bit of escapism.

The problem is when recidivist trolls return and foment their bigotry. "

Bloody hell think you ate the dictionary instead of the dick, remember some of us are just thick manual workers

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By *ianca del Monte OP   TV/TS
4 days ago

Somewhere nr Reading


"You could report any abusive posts and see if they get taken down. That might make a difference "

It's not so much abusive per se.

I do and have reported the truly unacceptable stuff ( the "ists" and the "phobics")

It's more the unpleasant, the intolerant and the not-quite-as-clever-as-they-think-they-are posts

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By *ngelaTaylorTV/TS
4 days ago

Peterbrough


"It was always thus. Is it a big deal in the scheme of things? It's a bit of escapism.

The problem is when recidivist trolls return and foment their bigotry.

Yes.

There is often an undercurrent of bigotry .... I guess that is when it starts to matter

...

...

The Fab CSC always play the bigots off the park with their legendary humour and intelligence.

🇮🇪👊👹

CSC?"

Cosecant !

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen


"It was always thus. Is it a big deal in the scheme of things? It's a bit of escapism.

The problem is when recidivist trolls return and foment their bigotry.

Bloody hell think you ate the dictionary instead of the dick, remember some of us are just thick manual workers"

...

...

Working class people like ourselves are entitled to use the same words, read the same books as those who would think they are our superior.

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

Bermuda mair like lol😅

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By *ianca del Monte OP   TV/TS
4 days ago

Somewhere nr Reading


"It was always thus. Is it a big deal in the scheme of things? It's a bit of escapism.

The problem is when recidivist trolls return and foment their bigotry.

Bloody hell think you ate the dictionary instead of the dick, remember some of us are just thick manual workers

...

...

Working class people like ourselves are entitled to use the same words, read the same books as those who would think they are our superior."

I think it's starting.

#Terrain Terrain#

#Pull up, pull up#

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By *ngelaTaylorTV/TS
4 days ago

Peterbrough


"

#Terrain Terrain#

#Pull up, pull up#"

You're doing something wrong with the stick.

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 days ago

Llandrindod Wells


"It's not necessarily a hijacking. Look at the Tommeh thread that turned into a debate re fascism/theocracy..

It's all good in the hood...."

That was a prime example of a 'hijacked thread' and I confess I got involved but only after the hijacking. Sometimes you read a thread and forget what it was originally about.

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By *eather_uktvTV/TS
4 days ago

Manchester


"Oh do sod right off, ya daft cow! "

I must admit I was tempted to reply in a similar vein, just for the fun of it. But you are absolutely right, that's how a lot on here get their kicks. It often puts me off replying to forum posts.

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By *ianca del Monte OP   TV/TS
4 days ago

Somewhere nr Reading


"Oh do sod right off, ya daft cow!

I must admit I was tempted to reply in a similar vein, just for the fun of it. But you are absolutely right, that's how a lot on here get their kicks. It often puts me off replying to forum posts."

Reply if/when you want.

Otherwise it becomes an echo chamber for the usual suspects

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By *ookingFor...Man
4 days ago

West Sussex


"You could report any abusive posts and see if they get taken down. That might make a difference "

Unlikely.

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By *an467Man
4 days ago

Glasgow

For those who remember Monty Python, Is this the right room for an argument?

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By *issy crystalTV/TS
4 days ago

Hook


"For those who remember Monty Python, Is this the right room for an argument?"

I've told you once.

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By *laireKTV/TS
4 days ago

Manchester

I've no idea what argument threads are supposed to achieve.

Nobody taking part will change their outlook.

Maybe it mirrors modern politics.

Given the growing involvement by the police in social media I'm surprised anybody says stuff.

It's really not worth it.

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By *ngelaTaylorTV/TS
4 days ago

Peterbrough


"For those who remember Monty Python, Is this the right room for an argument?"

No, this is the room for abuse

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By *eather_uktvTV/TS
4 days ago

Manchester


"Oh do sod right off, ya daft cow!

I must admit I was tempted to reply in a similar vein, just for the fun of it. But you are absolutely right, that's how a lot on here get their kicks. It often puts me off replying to forum posts.

Reply if/when you want.

Otherwise it becomes an echo chamber for the usual suspects"

Thanks for the advice Bianca. I do still get involved in the forums, on subjects that interest me. But when they turn into a slanging match I tend to back away.

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By *biashMan
4 days ago

Ashford

Anyone that has there cock out or there gaping arse showing in a site meant for sex,expressing there opinion on the world I find difficult to take seriously and yes I have my cock out so work that one out

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By *eefandfurMan
4 days ago

Edinburgh

Should have to pass an online quiz, to establish a reasonable level of knowledge on the topic, before participating.

Employ a large team of skilled moderators to ensure strict adherence to Oxford debate standards.

Metaphors allowed, but tangents, straw-manning and whataboutism and strictly forbidden, and ad hominem too, obvs.

Should be easy to set up, probably only cost about £2,000 per month membership fee.

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

Best argument I ever heard was over what constituted a Glasgow Roll.

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By *tanleybiguyMan
4 days ago

Stanley

I do find it odd why out of all the available social media options people choose to make political posts on the Fab forums, I mean how do you get from cock to politics? Lol

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

The photos add a surreal,often absurd comedy...

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

People might discuss politics elsewhere?

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By *ampshire 555Man
4 days ago

Basingstoke

It's like the old adage of imagining your audience naked; but you don't have to here 🤣

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

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By *ngelaTaylorTV/TS
4 days ago

Peterbrough


"I do find it odd why out of all the available social media options people choose to make political posts on the Fab forums, I mean how do you get from cock to politics? Lol"

Most blokes in politics are complete knobs

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

Greta Thunberg used to get the argumentative juices flowing....

Gareth Southgate's use of substitutes.

Is fennel coleslaw too middle-class?

Halycon days...

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By *luggableMan
4 days ago

Wymondham

"Is fennel coleslaw too middle-class?"

Dill pickle not good enough for you?

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By *oosterladMan
3 days ago

ipswich


"The trouble is that instead of having a level-headed discussion about 'WHAT is right', things inevitably turn into a slanging match about 'WHO is right'

She will keep changing her mind until she gets old and fat and has to settle for what she can get.

Well there is no argument on that score.

It's me.

I am right.

As Billy Joel might say - "Oh, and she never gives out and she never gives in,

She just changes her mind""

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By *lim_sportyMan
3 days ago

stevenage

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By *alfTankMan
3 days ago

Boston

Forums have been held for millennia and the result has always been the same.

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By *lim_sportyMan
3 days ago

stevenage

Couldn't agree more with the OP, 100%.

Noticed they bring their politics to any topic. Gets boring.

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By *hrobber4u2Man
3 days ago

Manchester

Is this the five minute or the full half hour?

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
3 days ago

Motherwell

I think in many ways the forum is the embodiment of this rather strange fab community, but as it turns out all of these threads with there disagreements and disagreeable people are actually a community, who would have thought... Mx 😜

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By *bonybucksMan
3 days ago

High Wycombe

Lots of sexually frustrated people on ere

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By *pmoMan
3 days ago

c


"Just kidding...

Yes I've noticed this and it often does tend to be topics deliberately chosen to get a reaction... "

I've noticed that you are especially good at this.

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By *issy SiMan
3 days ago

Horsham

Same as Facebook. So many keyboard warriors who are happy to argue online yet wouldn't do so face to face

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By *anmannersMan
3 days ago

Uk


"Oh do sod right off, ya daft cow!

I must admit I was tempted to reply in a similar vein, just for the fun of it. But you are absolutely right, that's how a lot on here get their kicks. It often puts me off replying to forum posts.

Reply if/when you want.

Otherwise it becomes an echo chamber for the usual suspects"

Oh so true

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By *tephen_b50Man
3 days ago

Bristol


"

It's more the unpleasant, the intolerant and the not-quite-as-clever-as-they-think-they-are posts

"

A notice that used to be displayed in the office i used to work in:

"Those of you who think you know everything are annoying those of us who do."

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By *ngel50TV/TS
3 days ago

Kinross


"Oh do sod right off, ya daft cow!

I must admit I was tempted to reply in a similar vein, just for the fun of it. But you are absolutely right, that's how a lot on here get their kicks. It often puts me off replying to forum posts."

Some people can't help themselves and post comments even below their previous comments, a continuation of utter drivel.

Even on this thread they simply cannot help themselves

It's actually quite sad, I'm sure they lead a very lonely life with no friends

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By *om1968Man
3 days ago

Southampton

Mistress Bianca is right, as she is with all things.

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By *ianca del Monte OP   TV/TS
3 days ago

Somewhere nr Reading


"Mistress Bianca is right, as she is with all things. "

Most things.

I have been wrong in the past.

Notably ... I once said "I do". That didn't end well!

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By *ichey6Man
3 days ago

aberdeen

Judgement about loneliness/friends is mere speculation that may well be utterly wide of the mark. In my own instance it is.

Must try harder.

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By *tephen_b50Man
3 days ago

Bristol


"Judgement about loneliness/friends is mere speculation...

"

Or, i suspect, an example of projection.

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By *ichey6Man
3 days ago

aberdeen

That's an interesting point 👍

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By *tanleybiguyMan
3 days ago

Stanley


"I do find it odd why out of all the available social media options people choose to make political posts on the Fab forums, I mean how do you get from cock to politics? Lol

Most blokes in politics are complete knobs "

Good point well made, some of the women too

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By *ixxy2Man
19 hours ago

Llandudno

Where does the tenant come in all this? 😙

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By *LAchillesMan
19 hours ago

Archway

It’s because nobody wants to talk about potatoes

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By *ichey6Man
19 hours ago

aberdeen

Collects jacket....😭

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By *annyDanielleMan
19 hours ago

Street, Somerset

So, do you put the jam on first with a cream tea?

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By *anmannersMan
18 hours ago

Uk

Yes, spread the jam then a big blob of pure clotted cream

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By *ildwestheroMan
18 hours ago

Llandrindod Wells


"Yes, spread the jam then a big blob of pure clotted cream"

Of course. They tight-fisted Devon folk put the cream first to avoid using butter.

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By *amie1402Man
18 hours ago

Merseyside


"I have become increasingly aware of a tenancy in these forums (fora?) For many many threads to just descend into a slanging match. Often with the slangers having derailed the thread onto topics at odds with the original post.

Very often it's the same offenders. Anyone else noticed this?

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Or ... anyone want to argue with this and get all passive aggressive in pointing out that I am wrong?"

Absolutely

Too many keyboard warriors on here

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By *dambi00Man
18 hours ago

London

I’ve found that people come on here, looking for arguments rather than actual debates and conversations about topics.

Take it all with a pinch of salt and don’t take the forums too seriously.

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By *astLindsayBiMan
18 hours ago

Travelling

Never take anything in forums seriously.

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By *ngel50TV/TS
18 hours ago

Kinross

The Tufty club are always in agreement whether they agree or not, same 4 or 5 everytime

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By *ichey6Man
18 hours ago

aberdeen

ZZZZZZZZZzzzZzzzz

Geoffrey Howe ate my shower nozzle.

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By *ngel50TV/TS
16 hours ago

Kinross

T.

H.

I.

S.

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By *ames canMan
16 hours ago

monaghan


"Best argument I ever heard was over what constituted a Glasgow Roll.

"

...is that the same as a connemara uppercut?

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By *evanianMan
16 hours ago

Tegeingl, Gogledd Cymru


"I have become increasingly aware of a tenancy in these forums (fora?) For many many threads to just descend into a slanging match. Often with the slangers having derailed the thread onto topics at odds with the original post.

Very often it's the same offenders. Anyone else noticed this?

.

Or ... anyone want to argue with this and get all passive aggressive in pointing out that I am wrong?"

You've raised a valid concern about the tone and direction of some discussions in online forums Bianca.

It's great to see people engaging in healthy debates and sharing their knowledge, but it's frustrating when threads get hijacked by individuals who seem more interested in provoking others than contributing to a meaningful conversation.

Many people have noticed this trend, not only here but on on-line forums in general and it's not uncommon for discussions to devolve into unproductive exchanges.

Identifying the same individuals as repeat offenders can be particularly insightful, as it suggests a pattern of behavior that might be worth the admin addressing.

Rather than letting these interactions derail the conversation, perhaps we can focus on promoting constructive engagement and encouraging others to do the same. By setting a positive tone and sticking to the topic at hand, we can create a more productive and respectful environment for everyone involved.

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By *ichey6Man
16 hours ago

aberdeen


"Best argument I ever heard was over what constituted a Glasgow Roll.

...is that the same as a connemara uppercut?"

...

...

Lol. Big Up The 🦊🇮🇪🇵🇸

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By *ichey6Man
16 hours ago

aberdeen

Posters can only speculate as to whether others seek to provoke. Only the individuals accused of provocation can answer.

As always people are entitled to their opinions. It would be a monochrome world if everyone was a obsequious nodding dog.

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By *evanianMan
16 hours ago

Tegeingl, Gogledd Cymru


"Posters can only speculate as to whether others seek to provoke. Only the individuals accused of provocation can answer.

As always people are entitled to their opinions. It would be a monochrome world if everyone was a obsequious nodding dog."

Fair point Ritchie, you're right, we can't know for certain what motivates others without hearing from them directly. And diversity of opinion is what keeps discussions engaging.

Perhaps the key is to focus on maintaining respectful dialogue, regardless of differing views?

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By *evanianMan
16 hours ago

Tegeingl, Gogledd Cymru

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By *ubguyinbriefsMan
16 hours ago

Dublin


"Posters can only speculate as to whether others seek to provoke. Only the individuals accused of provocation can answer.

As always people are entitled to their opinions. It would be a monochrome world if everyone was a obsequious nodding dog.

Fair point Ritchie, you're right, we can't know for certain what motivates others without hearing from them directly. And diversity of opinion is what keeps discussions engaging.

Perhaps the key is to focus on maintaining respectful dialogue, regardless of differing views?"

Completely agree, we don't need to agree with everyone as we do have different opinions qnd the point the forum is to voice the opinions not convince others your opinion is corrct

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