FabGuys.com forum: Would you meet someone you know

By (user no longer on site) OP
14 weeks ago

Would you ever meet with someone you know when arranging meets on here.ie someone you work with or close friend.someone same street. It's happened to me twice now one I turned up at address guy opened door bit of a shock it was a guy I worked with for about 2 years I had just left job .other time got chatting on line guy came straight out and asked if it was me after a while admitted it was .i meet with both guys found it easier and more relaxed and horny than a random guy .

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By *ookingFor...Man
14 weeks ago

West Sussex

Yes, as long as discretion is part of the deal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
14 weeks ago

"Yes, as long as discretion is part of the deal."
I instead on discretion as married and both meets agreed .

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By *_sayMan
14 weeks ago

Cardiff

Yes as it is a both way thing so privacy once both parts .

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
14 weeks ago

Bargoed

Yes of course, all looking for the same thing so why not. And what you get up to behind closed doors is no one else's business.

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By *untimes60Man
14 weeks ago

London

Depends who it was. But generally I would, yeah.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Assuming discretion yes

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By *ungbuddy9Man
14 weeks ago

york

Of course, they’d have no worries about me telling anyone.

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By *entralscotladMan
14 weeks ago

falkirk

Have met a few folk i know. One was a shock (a blank profile on another app). The other few were known

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By *LOVESUCKINGMan
14 weeks ago

clacton

I was messaged by an old school teacher on here, he sent a face pic and I just told him that I actually know who he is so it’s probably best we don’t meet and that I would never say anything. I then blocked him to avoid any further interaction

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By *excessMan
14 weeks ago

Sleaford

No.

One of the reasons I've managed to keep my sexuality private is by separating my friends from guys I have sex with.

My mates are my mates full stop.

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By *it-for-funMan
14 weeks ago

Colchester

This happened to me, but neither knew until he opened the door - it was a customer of mine.

We just joked about it.

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By *ustPeekinMan
14 weeks ago

Alresford

"This happened to me, but neither knew until he opened the door - it was a customer of mine.

We just joked about it. "

But did you then nail him? 😀

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By *ouplem34Couple (MM)
14 weeks ago

Manchester

I met up with my female best friend's husbands brother for fun

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
14 weeks ago

Leics/Warks

I wouldnt, but I do find playing with total strangers a huge turn on

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By *omethingExciting41Man
14 weeks ago

Somewhere

Id love to find someone I know and then can sneak about with even more, that's so hot xx

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By *eefandfurMan
14 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Depends how close. Could be awkward if next door or next desk.

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By *hickenmcnuggetsMan
14 weeks ago

Coxlodge, Newcastle upon Tyne

I’ve done it in the past, sure

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By *d sometimesTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Melton Mowbray

Met someone I knew well in a sauna. Few moments of embarrassing looks but as he'd just watched me being fucked I guessed he wasn't totally shocked. Took his cock in my mouth and the rest is history. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Yes i would

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By *hillWithBenefitsMan
14 weeks ago

withywood

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By *hillWithBenefitsMan
14 weeks ago

withywood

Yes, I would if I had met them before. They know what we like. Hence, that's why people are looking for FWB regularly. And also leaves an opportunity to experiment with learning new things, and do things together. When it's one night, it's just pump and dump.

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By *ohnnyangerMan
14 weeks ago

Dorking

Someone I work/ed with - sure. Close friend - never.

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By *inkyexileMan
14 weeks ago

Near Scarborough

If i am meeting someone from a certain town i always ask if they have had anything to do with a particular sports club i was involved with for many years.

Having said that it wouldn’t be a total blocker.

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By *ookingFor...Man
14 weeks ago

West Sussex

"I met up with my female best friend's husbands brother for fun"

So, someone you barely knew then.

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By *awihMan
14 weeks ago

Aldershot

"Would you ever meet with someone you know when arranging meets on here.ie someone you work with or close friend.someone same street. It's happened to me twice now one I turned up at address guy opened door bit of a shock it was a guy I worked with for about 2 years I had just left job .other time got chatting on line guy came straight out and asked if it was me after a while admitted it was .i meet with both guys found it easier and more relaxed and horny than a random guy ."

Well I once run into a neighbour in the local gay pub (when we had one) and ended up going back to his place. All my friends know I’m Gay and one or three have initiated eg got their cock out and said suck on this - so i did 😉

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By *onnieBMan
14 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Yes I have done, turned out he was a manager in the company I worked for in Aberdeen. He stated early on in our chats that he knew it was me but he was ok with it - turned out a great meet.

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By *endleGuy_01Man
14 weeks ago

Nelson

Of course I would meet someone I knew. There are quite a few I'd love to find out were on this site looking for cock.

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By *lackbootzMan
14 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

If you’re completely out about yourself and your sexuality, you can meet whomever you want and in any context. You just don’t think about Should I?s and But What If He?s.

I don’t say that to critique anyone as I fully understand many people are not in situations where they can be open about meeting men for sex or they struggle with the confidence to open up about their sexuality.

But this thread and its comments feel a bit otherworldly to me as it just seems weird people not doing what they like.

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By *reenbinMan
14 weeks ago

Portishead

Yes, my old boss if I could ever find him. Never knew he was gay until a bit back, and neither did he apparently. Wish he'd known sooner. I'd let him use me all day

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By *tripmepleaseMan
14 weeks ago

out and about

Yes i would love too

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By *jh59Man
14 weeks ago

Hinckley

Recently, I met an old friend who I hadn’t seen for almost 20 years, I always assumed he was happily married. One of the first things he told me he was divorced and now come out as gay.

I did not mention to him that I have come out as gay although he’s not my type I would let him fuck me

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By *andy biMan
14 weeks ago

Greenford

I have met guys I know and didn’t have a problem with it

I’d love to have a regular friend which would be a great opportunity to meet under the cover of being friends

Mrs would think we were going to watch football but we could watch the match in bed together 🥰

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Not sure if I'd meet a work colleague but if I got chatting to old friends or people I knew out of work on here then yes I'd meet them. Makes getting away that much easier if you have a viable reason lol xx

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By *ipaul71Man
14 weeks ago

Talke

Met daughter boyfriend on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Met a man I went to school with. Sucked him off

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By *obbie55Man
14 weeks ago

ramsgate

Been there , done that with a friend. Prefer someone I could get to know.

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By *ucksitupMan
14 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

I sucked a guy at a cruising site who I had known at junior school (60 years ago) and after he came in my mouth I said something like “mmm that was tasty” and said his name. He looked terrified, zipped up and ran off like a scared cat. Such a shame as his big cock and spunk had tasted good and I hadn’t intended to embarrass him. I would have loved to do it again but sadly haven’t seen him anywhere since.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Yea ,all forgotten as I put his cock in my mouth ,just grinned as I gave him head and he muttered " I never knew you liked cock " as he came over my face !

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By *edMan
14 weeks ago

South Wales

“Someone” you know?

Well I met my wife at work, so I guess I would lol…

But in all seriousness I’d meet another ‘not out’ bi man I know but not an openly gay guy I know because he wouldn’t necessarily need to be discreet about it unless he was attached as well obviously..

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By *oodtimebiboyMan
14 weeks ago

Bristol

I would, obviously discretion a must.

Would be easier in a way

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By *ustPeekinMan
14 weeks ago

Alresford

Sadly not, although I’ve seen an old boss’s husband on here.

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By *isarosetvTV/TS
14 weeks ago

hayes

Yes I would

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By *hiteSportsSocksMan
14 weeks ago

Portmarnock

I'd love to develop a running friendship with local guy (there is a local straight guy I fantasize about). We could tell our partners were going for a run when in fact we're having fun!! I'd have no problem with him being a local and a friend, in fact it would be really handy (and might encourage me to go for a run more often).

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Yes, accidentally met my colleague in a gay sauna.

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Motherwell

I once sucked off my old boss from 20 years ago in the Cleish hills in Fife one sunny morning, he was always a handsome guy but he had lost tons of weight and was well hung,but he didn't recognize me hee hee. His parting comment to me after he came in my throat was " Thanks that was just what I needed,the things we do for a blow job, bye " . If he only knew 😂😂😂. Mx 👿

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By *DC2000Man
14 weeks ago

Coningsby

"Yes, as long as discretion is part of the deal."

Agreed. Someone I met a few times coincidentally moved to a house very near mine. We have met since the move and we frequently bump into each other due close proximity. There's an understanding for absolute discretion, there has to be. It's now very easy.

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By *arkinSuffolkMan
14 weeks ago

Lowestoft

Yes of course I would and have. Much easier if they live nearby. Have met people I have worked with also

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By *hiteSportsSocksMan
14 weeks ago

Portmarnock

This is my fantasy. Every time a house near me goes up for sale I hope a hot guy moves in!!

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By *illbillycoolMan
14 weeks ago

durham

I met one half of a gay couple over the road one night when his husband was at work on Nightshift and my wife was away at her sister's what a night I had gorgeous big cock fucked me and rimmed me and sucked his cock

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By *ustOneBearMan
14 weeks ago

Neath

Never someone I worked with.

But a neighbour, yeah. I would. I’ve had sex with friends in the past but it was always just sex once or twice.

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By *123123Man
14 weeks ago

near

Always hoped I’d come across an old neighbour on here from somewhere I lived growing up in my teen years. Had so many fantasy’s of going round his for fun, playing in his garage whilst he worked out, surprised I was never caught by him as I wanked whilst he was in his garden either sunbathing or gardening in his shorts.

John if your on here call me 😉

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By *orthernmanMan
14 weeks ago

egremont

I do

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By *treyu500Man
14 weeks ago

Australia

I turned down a meet with a guy about 6 months ago because I realised his male partner is not only an X work colleague but also the cousin of an old X girlfriend.

It was a bit too close to home for me. But, in just 6 months I've grown a lot and I really don't give a fuck now. I would totally meet him. I'll fuck his partner too if the chance arises

. A fun threesome.

I was with that girl was I was 21. I don't know why I gave a shit about what other people might think in the extremely low chance they even find out.

And I feel like an idiot now. That X colleague is hot. I remember when I was 21 and with that X gf he was a really hot twink. He was really popular with the girls but they were all barking up the wrong tree lol.

Maybe the chance will arise again when I go home at Xmas

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By *irralGuy20Man
14 weeks ago

Wirral

I've not met anyone i know online (yet) but have had a lot of play over the years with one of my best mates.

If i was to meet somebody I knew then provided all boundaries were agreed upon then why the hell not.

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By *hil96Man
14 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Definitely. Discretion assured of course. X

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By *orthfieldsnickMan
14 weeks ago

West London

Depends on the person and their situation but in theory yes. It would be ideal to have a regular mate with a believable cover story who I could enjoy regular discreet fun with.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

I've said yes to people I know socially and through work. I've also said no to people I know socially.

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By *b20Man
14 weeks ago

Glasgow

I met a guy once that I used to work with, a bit awkward at first but it turned out OK

It wasn't a total surprise as we swapped face pics before meeting

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By *ondonOralChubMan
14 weeks ago

London

Probably not. Life is complicated enough. Let’s keep sex fun!

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By *ipaul71Man
14 weeks ago

Talke

Met daus boyfriend on here

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By *shleigh1964TV/TS
14 weeks ago

penzance

Yes, my best mate, years ago. We were tight but neither knew about the other til years later when he needed to tell someone, and knowing I don't judge, he came out to me, or should I say she. Turned out we both had been frequenting same hot spot but never came across each other as, weirdly, we were having our fun in different parts, him on the beach, me up in the car park!

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Yes, met my partner's friends and have sex fun.

Met my gay brother's friends and have sex fun.

Met a colleague who happened to visit a gay sauna and we had sex fun.

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Bedford

Most if not all my nieghbours and friends are straight, but even if the weren't I don't play that close to home it just not worth the hassle if it gets a bit awkward. X

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By *odge66Man
14 weeks ago

rotherham

If I liked the person in question, yes

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By *uriousguy18Man
14 weeks ago

Goole

I have done. Was chatting on here and messaging a mate on whatsapp. We were sorting a meet on here and he sent a face pic.

Long story short I messaged him on whatsapp explaining he was messaging me on here, we had a laugh about it and got together and had some discreet fun.

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By *eeman70Man
14 weeks ago

Kilbirnie

Yes most definitely as long as discretion is in play.

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By *ubmanpaulMan
14 weeks ago

near ripon

Yes if discrete would be easier I think both wanting same thing

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By *ick62Man
14 weeks ago

North Notts

I met a guy off here, I used to work with him a year or so before, if I had known he had a cock like that in his pants I would have been all over him lol

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By *ockey stickMan
14 weeks ago

Hounslow

I don't see why not. A friend of mine and got in to a conversation about bjs and stuff. And out of the blue he said "I bet you've got a nice cock?" and I replied " you'll have to come and see for yourself" we've still yet to meet up though

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By *orcsmatMan
14 weeks ago

Kidderminster

"No.

One of the reasons I've managed to keep my sexuality private is by separating my friends from guys I have sex with.

My mates are my mates full stop."

That does not guarantee discretion.

One guy I met with put a message through our door addressed to my wife telling her what I was up to.

Fortunately I intercepted it.

If you know the other party, know their wife, then discretion becomes mutual. Also, it could give more meet opportunities.

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By *arriedsub84Man
14 weeks ago

Knaresborough

Depends on who it is really. I work with a lot of people, colleagues would be fine... Clients is a big no.

I reckon friends of friends should be ok

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By *airFetishMan
14 weeks ago

Maldon

I have in the past and have f I fancied them definitely would again.

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By *oundmyarse1970Man
14 weeks ago

South norwood

Theres a few people i know id love to met on here my boss for starter he can fuck me for my whole 10hour shift mmmm

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By *ouplem34Couple (MM)
13 weeks ago

Manchester

"I met up with my female best friend's husbands brother for fun

So, someone you barely knew then."

Yes I knew him well

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By *iguykfordMan
13 weeks ago

cradley heath

Depends how it came about

I had a guy message me on the other fab who was in the same building I work in but wouldn't send a pic or say who he was but kept sending messages and I was like there's 0 chance I'm going to meet you if you don't say who you are

It's risky how do I know it wasn't someone trying to catch me out or whatever so I just point blank refused

On the other hand someone who's a good friend who I have known for years and is openly gay I let slip I was bi when d*unk since then I have been on my knees for him several times

It's all about circumstances and the vibe for me

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By *ockey stickMan
13 weeks ago

Hounslow

"I don't see why not. A friend of mine and got in to a conversation about bjs and stuff. And out of the blue he said "I bet you've got a nice cock?" and I replied " you'll have to come and see for yourself" we've still yet to meet up though "
since this post I've sucked him off.

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By *ear67Man
13 weeks ago

Stoke on Trent

I used to suck a colleague off quite regularly.

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By *rimalbearMan
13 weeks ago

Near Ashburton

Absolutely yes

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By *afekMan
13 weeks ago

Bo’ness

I keep hoping I will find one of my hot neighbours online. There would be endless reasons to borrow a cup of sugar

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By *oundmyarse1970Man
13 weeks ago

South norwood

I wish

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By *elecrikMan
4 weeks ago

brize

I have on a couple of occasions

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By *os001Man
4 weeks ago

Oxford

I think it depends on the situation and whether it was someone I'd want to have sex with.

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By *K herts mMan
4 weeks ago

Fleetwood

This can make things easier in some ways and harder on other ways. Yes I would do this.

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By *ilky1961Man
4 weeks ago

Worksop

I meet a guy regularly , we all knew him as gay at work but nobody knows that he was fucking me

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By *dm1Man
4 weeks ago

Manchester

If I fancied him then definitely

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By *ipaul71Man
4 weeks ago

Talke

Yes recently started meeting ex school friend

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By *tm4u2takeMan
4 weeks ago

IP19

I have yes, a colleague at the time

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By *afekMan
4 weeks ago

Bo’ness

As long as we both understand what each other needs and there are boundaries I definitely would.

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By *ustaNormalBlokeMan
4 weeks ago

Strood

I arrived at a guy’s house and realised I’d done some work in there a few weeks previously. Neither of us would’ve guessed we each liked cock, but since our messages and shared pics had been pretty explicit about what we were intending to do, it made no difference.

The door closed, and he just started undressing… and so did I.

Met up with him more than once.

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By *uriousExplorer1991Man
4 weeks ago

Scottish Borders

Id meet somone i know as long as I can trust them to be discreet

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By *eogeo123Man
4 weeks ago

central scotland

Hate meeting people I know..or they know or know of me in some way.

However once the cats out the bag then all you can do is brave face it.

I dabble and to all friends I am straight so wouldn't want that changed.

So when I do meet people I know accidentally I have had fun but I don't like to repeat it.

Friends and sex partners are different things I think

But I have accidentally met a family member which was awkward but very good

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By *ideruler58Man
4 weeks ago

Southampton

"Id meet somone i know as long as I can trust them to be discreet "

Exactly the same here

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

It depends who the person is. Not everybody. That's not realistic.

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By *erasusMan
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

I've often wondered if I would.

Always exchange face pics before meeting so I'd be making a decision at that point.

Having never experienced it it's a bit of a turn on tbh

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By *oss432Man
4 weeks ago

Kilcock

all depends on there being an attraction,

i met 2 men i know well

ex girlfriends dad and it was great

the other was the local undertaker but no spark so didnt do anything

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By *ig3Man
4 weeks ago

Maldon

If the other guy was married then yes

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By *illmanimp1972Man
4 weeks ago

pitsea

Most certainly whilst working away I was on grindr in hotel and to my shock one of my colleagues responded although I didn't know at time as was blank profile.we went on to have a great little session.we never talked about it again lol

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Depends on so many things. If you know them and like them then why not

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By *omoredenialMan
4 weeks ago

Swaffham

I’ve backed out of meeting someone I know on here. I was thinking at first it would make things easy but had potential to go massively wrong

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By *itherMan
4 weeks ago

Leeds

There are a couple of my mates where I think 'yes I think I would' but they are painfully straight and it will never happen.

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By *ulge1Man
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Have done a few times

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By *os001Man
4 weeks ago

Oxford

I have had slightly the reverse happen, this guy messaged me a fair few years ago and said he was working in the area and could he fuck me.

He came round, had me against the wall and fucked me, shot his load and left, a week later while I was in my office, the same guy walked into the meeting room next to mine! I don't think he recognised me, but I remembered him. He was based at my location, so only visited a couple other times.

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By *ockstrapjoMan
4 weeks ago

Westcliff

Hell yeah! Unless they are humpbacked, hideously ugly or riddled with disease sex is a sex! (If you are reading this and are the guy up my road who panicked and blocked me before I could respond... bring it on!)

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By *ldergent321Man
4 weeks ago

Littlehampton

Have several local guys from a social club we belong to I meet with for sharing wifes knickers for sniff and wank sessions.

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By *eeman70Man
4 weeks ago

Kilbirnie

Yes I would x

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By *cott69123Man
4 weeks ago

dudley

Met my sons best friends dad

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By *inkymale41Man
4 weeks ago

mullingar

I have

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By *erehambiMan
4 weeks ago

Dereham

Turned out my boss (while I worked in Saudi) was on here. Fuck, could he suck cock!!!! And another work colleague who lived 20 yards away (again in Saudi) met me many many times over the next 4 years. We swallowed loads of each others cum

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By *wimmingbadgerMan
4 weeks ago

Leicester

yes, I wouldn't mind

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By *uriouslyColMan
4 weeks ago

colchester

I’ve recognised two people I know. One was a friend, I met him know, we arranged to meet but the day of him coming over he cancelled then ghosted me. Since then I’ve recognised someone I work with but after my experience with my friend I’m not going to say anything.

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By *heff24Man
4 weeks ago

Sheffield

Once met one of the teachers from my old school on here. He didn't recognise/know me but I knew who he was.

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By *tmguylookingMan
4 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Depends who it was, but yeah if I fancied them.

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By *rookeTVTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Linwood

yes of course lol at least I would know where they lived if they ghosted me x

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By *oundmyarse1970Man
4 weeks ago

South norwood

Yes i would id love my manager at work to use me every night

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By *ckermanMan
4 weeks ago

newport

I have once, went ok...

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Arranged to meet a guy once via the old Cottaging site. We'd seen each other's body pictures but before the planned meet he asked for a face picture and said he'd send his in return. I duly did and got a reply something on the lines of 'OMG I know you. Nothing wrong with you and I think you are a nice guy, but best we don't meet' He didn't block me but it was the end of the conversation. To this day I don't know who he is although I have a fair idea.

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By *anee77TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Brentwood

Definitely any of my mates wife or sister

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By *Aguy2022Man
4 weeks ago

Littlehampton

Absolutely. Why not, you are both on here for the same reason, and as long as you know that individual in a good way, why not. Surely has to be more excitable than a random stranger...

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By *lder bigentlemanMan
4 weeks ago

Weybridge

Why not ??

They are on hear for the same reason as yourself

Would be fun

Have done it before

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By *atthew500Man
4 weeks ago

east yorks/hull

I have met my next door but two neighbour on here a few times now, both married so very discreet, not in any social circles so if we see each other out its just a polite nod-but a great spur to message and try to meet! it was very unnerving chatting at first, both giving slight hints as to who we were- once commited , great time had by both

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By *Fun123Man
4 weeks ago

Grays

Never used to, but as I got older you realize we’re all on here for the same reason so yes I’m more than happy to meet up with someone I know. He’s hardly likely to blurt out that I like cock without incriminating himself!

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By *ipervbbMan
4 weeks ago

Bristol

I used to be really scared of seeing someone I know on websites or cruising etc. It happened about 10 years ago when I was chatting to a guy and we swapped pics. He was my girlfriend at the times boss. As soon as I realised he was discreet, I found it a big turn on

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By *ichtea284Man
4 weeks ago

Beccles

"Depends who it was, but yeah if I fancied them."

Yes agreed. Could be good fun

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By *itchianMan
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

Depends on who it was but, on principle, yes

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By *amman2Man
4 weeks ago

tamworth

I messaged someone on here. Turned out to be the plumber my then GF used for work stuff, and did some work at our house.

We both realised when swapping details. Went through with it and had some great sex. Did it a couple if more times. All good sex

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By *ewbie01Man
4 weeks ago

Sheffield

I would as I don't usually meet someone without chatting first so tend to get a feeling if we are going to get on

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By *ature-guyMan
4 weeks ago

Derby’s / Notts

There is someone on here who I fancied years ago but thought he was straight, been chatting to him recently but unfortunately we are not looking for the same thing

…….. I didn’t reveal who I was !

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By *pankedsubMan
4 weeks ago

Abertillery

Yes as I guess we are all on the same boat here, However not really anyone I know here or if so they haven’t revealed themselves.

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By *toxyMan
4 weeks ago

Bicester

I maybe would depends on discretion really and attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Yes I would my boss but it depends on him.

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By *ll foxMan
4 weeks ago

WORKSOP

Yes definitely, as long as we were discreet

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By *ipaul71Man
4 weeks ago

Talke

Been meeting ex school friend for last 6 mths

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By *DC2000Man
4 weeks ago

Coningsby

Yes, I would and have.

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By *enidorm welshpMan
4 weeks ago

alfas

Think i would

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By *hubbyman10Man
4 weeks ago

Bloxwich

Did arrange to meet a guy without seeing a picture first, turned out to be someone I knew through work. Went ahead with the meet and it was enjoyable but has made me wary of meeting locally since.

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By *owlaisMan
4 weeks ago

merthyr

I would as long as discretion is paramount

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By *rs Victoria stoneTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Coventry

I’ve met 5 guys I know one being an old school teacher my friends dad and guys from school

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By *lder bigentlemanMan
2 weeks ago

Weybridge

Ow I definitely would as my best friend who was straight fucked me once since then that’s sort of naughty and want more

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By *cunnySucker69Man
2 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I suppose it would depend upon how I know them

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By *ridayguyMan
2 weeks ago

sexy guy land

I'd love to meet someone I know, know a few gay blokes but not met them on here, yet..

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By *aremanMan
2 weeks ago

Wymondham

Sure. I wish. Bypass the getting-toknow-you phase and get right on with it. Ace.

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By *teve21777Man
2 weeks ago

Warrington

Yes definitely 💯 percent

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By *eatherloverukMan
2 weeks ago

near Skegness

yes as long as mutually agreeable and discreet if needed

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By *alfTankMan
2 weeks ago

Boston

Yes I would. There is a gay guy in the village I live in that I have been talking to for over a decade. Sometimes good, often not good chat. So many times we come close but no cigar. I think we are at the point where the cigar would be disappointing.

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By *allingkenMan
2 weeks ago

Blackburn

I absolutely never would. Ever.

I have a colleague at work who is gay. We kind of flirt without flirting.

I never would though. It's work. I try to separate different parts of my life. Less complicated that way.

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By *alfTankMan
2 weeks ago

Boston

"I absolutely never would. Ever.

I have a colleague at work who is gay. We kind of flirt without flirting.

I never would though. It's work. I try to separate different parts of my life. Less complicated that way. "

You can have sex and live separate lives as well.

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By *altyStarfishMan
1 week ago

Biting the pillow

Yeah, sex is sex. Why hide from it? We're not in the sexually repressed Victorian era.

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By *eicfunguyMan
1 week ago

Leicestershire

Old school friend

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By *crsubguyMan
1 week ago

Manchester

Have done, scariest and most embarrassing thing at first. Worked out to be best owner ever. Only willing to discuss verbally, and only if you can actually talk back to me. Message me for number. Believe me, I nearly had a heart attack when realised who it was I’d been messaging on here.

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By *robesMan
1 week ago

mirfield west works

Have fucked an old neighbour a few times

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By *he frankMan
1 week ago

Newcastle

Met th Evri delivery guy who had been delivering on my estate for like a year

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By *lison tvTV/TS
1 week ago

where i live

People have met people they have known for years on here you just don't talk about it

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By *tonsofFunMan
1 week ago

Wrexham

I've fucked my mates dad several times

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By *appycock55Man
1 week ago

the shire

Definitely, we are both on here for the same thing.

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By *lindfold subMan
1 week ago

Reading

I didn’t meet someone I know personally but I did meet a guy from another site that knew who I was after he came to mine and we played and had fun, he text me afterwards to say I didn’t realise you were “my daughters names” stepdad! I went to school with them!!”

Haha…

I didn’t see his face cos I was hooded at the time…

He left the other site not long after that so lost touch with him.

Shame.. he had a nice cock and was a good fuck.

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By *man 1Man
1 week ago

Hertfordshire

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

That’s why I never send face pics, just in case, my cousin sent me her face pic on fabswingers once, good job I never sent one back

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By *arkinSuffolkMan
1 week ago

Lowestoft

Of course. Once you have met someone you know them and then meet again. Have met neighbours and work colleagues on here

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By *ucksitupMan
1 week ago

Shrewsbury

Totally depends on who it is and how you know them.

There is no “one size fits all” answer to this

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

"Totally depends on who it is and how you know them.

There is no “one size fits all” answer to this"

Yes, I would. We are both in same situation. Neither can judge or squeal.

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By *ick a dickMan
1 week ago

county durham

I’ve been fucked by 2 of my neighbors from upstairs and I’ve fucked one of the guys dads all in the same week end

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By *ovefist84Man
1 week ago

Oswestry

Depends who it was. There are some friends and people I work with who I'd be happy to play with, and there are some I wouldn't play with

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By *ayidoMan
1 week ago

acci

I doubt i would

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By *ondomhunterMan
1 week ago

hastings

Tough one. I think no but if I found out someone I know and trust was up for it the yes, 100%

My osteopath for example. I fantasise about him all the timr

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By *noncumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford

If I fancied him and there was a connection I would. I used to have a gay couple next door, friendly guys, often round for drinks and a natter at the garden gate type of thing. One was fucking me regularly, I was fucking the other one just as often. Neither knew. Its just sex and didn't cause problems. Shame they moved away cos the top was bloody good!

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By *ontylad87Man
1 week ago

pontefract

I’ve inadvertently met someone I know, or they know me…. A few times! Joys of meeting anon lol

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By *ilmarnock200Man
1 week ago

kilmarnock

I was chatting to a crossdresser local to me ..finally arranged a meet and my work colleague's dad turned up ..once we got over the shock we just went for it.sucking and wanking and kissing ..then finally fucking ..so horny and we are still meeting regular

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By *zaac CoxMan
1 week ago

FOREST OF DEAN

I can't see a problem as long as discretion is guaranteed.

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By *ibeariusMan
1 week ago

Greenock

Yes

I find it more a turn on to meet someone I know rather than a random hook up

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By *enny_J_JonesTV/TS
1 week ago

sheffield

If they could be discreet and were in the same circs as me, that would be a great situation.

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By *ocktoplaywithMan
1 week ago

Derby

Yes definitely, with discretion assured obviously

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By *inosaur1952Man
1 week ago

pontlottyn

I'd really love to make a genuine friendship but with the added advantage and benefits of also a full on sexual relationship, anyone genuinely interested and within 20 miles of me, please get in touch

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By *airyandbelliedbottomMan
1 week ago

Barrow-in-Furness

Met the guy just across the road from me, don't think I would do that again. We didn't like each other that much and now it's a bit awkward when I see him.

Met an old college friend couple years ago and it was really weird too. Better left in memory.

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By *irtytrukkaTV/TS
1 week ago

barton

Yes of course I would

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By *isa220TV/TS
1 week ago

Greenock

Yes I would be good to know who meeting

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By *suckcocks666Man
1 week ago

Birstall

Ive met a guy on here afew times who works where I work, after the initial embarrassment we both had a great time xx

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