FabGuys.com forum: Erectile Dysfunction

By *ndie1983 OP Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

Looking at forming a community of guys with ED. Not just to talk about meditation. But about sex, intimacy and romance WITHOUT the stress of worrying about if it gets hard or not!

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By *ildwestheroMan
over a year ago

Llandrindod Wells

Great idea. ED should not spell the end of your sex life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea

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By *mandaWhenDressedMan
over a year ago

around

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm up for it. No pun intended.

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By *hyteriderMan
over a year ago

Colwyn Bay area

Yes, me too.

Post prostatectomy it makes one a eunuch, but my sex drive, and sex needs are exactly the same as they were.

Romance and sensuality are essential

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By *otonFellaMan
over a year ago

Eastleigh

"I'm up for it. No pun intended. "

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By *edsguy71Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I'm up for that, have had ED issues since prostate cancer, treatment and various pills.

Great idea.

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By *ibliogMan
over a year ago

"Looking at forming a community of guys with ED. Not just to talk about meditation. But about sex, intimacy and romance WITHOUT the stress of worrying about if it gets hard or not!"

👍🏻

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a radical prostate reduction (not cancerous),I rarely get hard thank goodness. And only retrograde soft orgasms.

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By *rystalcdTV/TS
over a year ago

Grimsby

Had a full prostatectomy six years ago. Not been able to get hard or cum ever since. Puts some off meeting which I can understand but I still have a lot of fun as a total btm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea thats why I'm a bottom but don't seem to find many tops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very good idea. I suffer from ED and pills don't always work, whether that's down to nerves I'm not sure. Always make sure the other person has a happy ending though.

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By *bone75Man
over a year ago

Bensham

I'd be interested too

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By *obbertMan
over a year ago

In a world of my own

That is a very laudable project, it affects us all at some stage and must be discussed!

Hugs

Robby

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By *mandaWhenDressedMan
over a year ago

around

I don't know why mine doesn't work. Discussed it with my wife but as she isn't really interested anymore it's frustrating

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By *aul-itMan
over a year ago

saltdean

"I'm up for it. No pun intended. "
funny x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been going through this due to taking anti depressants.

Had some fab meets in that time though. As I'm verse I can do bottom mode.

I'm on a course of Tadalafil now and getting some encouraging erections, so hopefully I'm on the mend😊

Having sex with the wife after months of no intimacy was awesome

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By *atexsub2002Man
over a year ago

suffolk coastal area near Woodbridge

A good idea,

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By *bonybucksMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

That’s a good idea as we should feel comfortable talking about sexual stuff, without the pressure to perform.

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By *ubblebootyTV/TS
over a year ago

Parkgate

Sounds good, I've had trouble staying hard since early 20s and use viagra but loved it when I realized I was a sub cock taker around the same time and could just be limp around dom daddies xx

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By *ittleguy61Man
over a year ago

Andover

Sounds good

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By *arneyBoyMan
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

A brilliant idea and perhaps people may gain answers and it could help those that feel outside of the ring. Well done OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All for it, mind you my meds and diabetes doesn't help.

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By *inkyexileMan
over a year ago

Near Scarborough

I have adhd and I’m on tadalafil daily.

I can get hard enough to wank on my own but if there is someone else there i struggle. Mixture of adhd, nerves and past trauma.

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By *ld 68yo experimentingMan
over a year ago

hete

I've tried Invocorp (injection) and that be came less effective

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By *orks SteveMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

I’ve had problems due to diabetes and being on Prozac for a long time. I recently change my gp surgery and have no got a great doctor. I plucked up the courage and discussed it with him. I’m now getting my monthly supply of blue pills and things have improved. I fell better in myself and am gaining self confidence. So there is hope

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By *ike 57Man
over a year ago

clonmel

Diabetes as well..i inject myself every morning..but i still cant get hard

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By *q oralistMan
over a year ago

Torquay

Not being certain that I can get a hard on for a guy has driven my profile as a cock sucker, I enjoy that and the guys I have serviced seem well pleased. Not completely ideal but better than nothing.

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By *erfieMan
over a year ago

mansfield woodhouse

Always have a problem with Ed it okay if got lots of time and no one is in a hurry.

The urge to indulge seems to get stronger although the cock isn’t

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By *ndrew47Man
over a year ago

Southampton

I have suffered from this, it doesn’t help if your rushing on a meet and I find intimacy helps with kissing.

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By *asturbate youMan
over a year ago

WEYBRIDGE

Love the idea of a group of guys all playing with their soft cocks.

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By *osportSoftCockMan
over a year ago

Gosport

I have alot of diabetic complications. Now cant get hard or cum, but can reach a climax. No medication or pump works, too much damage done.

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By *ibeariusMan
over a year ago

Greenock

Sex is fun but being naked, holding each other a kissing is more important.

Once the intimacy is there it may help ED,

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By *exy_bottomTV/TS
over a year ago

Flitwick

Yes, would be definitely interested in this.

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By *ideruler58Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Defo interested in this

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By *3versMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"Looking at forming a community of guys with ED. Not just to talk about meditation. But about sex, intimacy and romance WITHOUT the stress of worrying about if it gets hard or not!"

You could call the community Soft Lads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've tried Invocorp (injection) and that be came less effective "
do you have any for me to try pm me please

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By *onkfish10Man
over a year ago

Shropshire

I'm in

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By *500Man
over a year ago

London

Fantastic idea

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By *ildwestheroMan
over a year ago

Llandrindod Wells

A hard cock is nice but not everything. I'm quite happy with kissing and naked cuddling with another man. Can be equally satisfying and rewarding.

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By *500Man
over a year ago

London

"I’ve had problems due to diabetes and being on Prozac for a long time. I recently change my gp surgery and have no got a great doctor. I plucked up the courage and discussed it with him. I’m now getting my monthly supply of blue pills and things have improved. I fell better in myself and am gaining self confidence. So there is hope"

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By *ornyKent48Man
over a year ago

kentTown

Definitely interested, noticed although I can still get an erection (maybe semi) I’m nowhere near as hard as I used to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have diabetes and have to use the blue pills but sometimes still don’t work

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By *idemanMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Great idea

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By *olneyslutMan
over a year ago

London Colney

Yeah I have a problem because of meds and although I'm a total bottom it foes seem to bother dome guys

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By *3243Man
over a year ago

EDINBURGH

I'm very much interested. Please include me.

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By *etra30Man
over a year ago

RAYLEIGH

So am I. Please keep me posted.

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By *asturbate youMan
over a year ago

WEYBRIDGE

I'm interested although I might be the only one with a hard on

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By *amie1402Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Looking at forming a community of guys with ED. Not just to talk about meditation. But about sex, intimacy and romance WITHOUT the stress of worrying about if it gets hard or not!"

I’m sure you meant medication.

Not sure meditation will help much !

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By *ickwayverMan
13 weeks ago

sw London

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By *ickwayverMan
13 weeks ago

sw London

I'm in

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By *3243Man
13 weeks ago

EDINBURGH

I'd be very happy to join in.

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By *exy_bottomTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Flitwick

"Looking at forming a community of guys with ED. Not just to talk about meditation. But about sex, intimacy and romance WITHOUT the stress of worrying about if it gets hard or not!"

Excellent idea!!

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By *upertedMan
13 weeks ago

Nelson,, Caerphilly

This is fab.

I've a regular donkey cock FwB who struggles to get hard. I've asked if it's me...and he's assured me it isn't. We've had many meets too. I always say to him tho to not stress and I suck him and cuddle.

I've also a young guy with PE. First meet I only breathed on his bellend 🍄 and he came. We still messaged tho and he opened up about it happening. Got him to visit again and told him to tap me on shoulder twice and I'd just stop sucking.

I can now give him a proper blowie and we've fucked a few times and he takes ages to cum.

It's fellas realising fellas problems.

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By *ishchaserMan
13 weeks ago

creswell

What a great topic

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By *omabdnMan
5 weeks ago

Hastings

it’s challenging when ED can rob you of your ability to perform, especially when there is so much expectation out there. A support group would be useful when one feels like a useless eunuch.

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By *eChatNoirMan
5 weeks ago

Newcastle

I’ve always had this problem. Nothing medical, just over-thinking and performance anxiety. It would be lovely to enjoy a relaxed group meet-up with no pressure.

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By *cwgenMan
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

Great idea

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By *estwillMan
4 weeks ago

Bracknell

Invicorp injections have been a game changer for many men after a prostatectomy and for whom tablets don't work.

Then there is the AMS 700 inflatable penile implant.

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By *erfieMan
4 weeks ago

mansfield woodhouse

Good idea very interested

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By *abs400Man
4 weeks ago

ipswich

Good idea

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By *alker1965Man
4 weeks ago

Wimborne

Interesting group idea.

Currently suffering this problem due to prostate issues, still enjoy getting naked with guys and exploring bodies

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By *edsguy71Man
4 weeks ago

Bedford

Great idea.

Had prostate cancer in 2020, had radiotherapy at Addenbrookes and now have ED, but alive. I had a vacuum pump issued by my urology consultant, i also get cock rings on prescription. Think there is some pump pics in my profile

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By *immySplashMan
4 weeks ago

Coventry

I have suffered with Ed for a few years now and would to get involved

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By *arrheadguyMan
4 weeks ago

barrhead

I've had E.D. for at least 4 years. I stopped meeting guys because of it. Fairly recently decided to meet guys again. Put it all in my profile, now I seem to be getting lots of messages from guys that want me to top them. I give up.

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By *ub DadMan
4 weeks ago

Jersey

I’m 79 - so mainly bottom these days, but just love servicing horny tops, although I don’t get the hard ons of my younger years, usually a boner at 6 in the morning when there’s no one to play with. Then when a guy is around I’m more focused on pleasing him, rimming ass, sucking cock, enjoying a nice mouthful of his spunk etc. Some natural supplements help restore function too.

Viagra can help in the short term and I find Kamagra chewable sweets or liquid sachets work with 15 mins

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By *ordladMan
4 weeks ago

Wrexham

Hence why im a btm ..started when cock decided not to work .realised Im made just to please men

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By *ilfilterMan
4 weeks ago

coventry

Another diabetes softy here, would love to be a top but ED scuppers that idea. Naked body contact kissing sucking and lots of touching makes me pretty hsppy tho but sadly guys dont seem interested unless youre well hung or a total bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I have sucked plenty of guys who could not get hard. They all ended up shooting their spunk in my mouth though

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By *needsfunMan
4 weeks ago

Felixstowe

I love to suck a soft cock, I'm happy to spend ages till they cum x

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By *in tin 25Man
4 weeks ago

west

Getting older getting harder to be hard yes it's an issue

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By *ideruler58Man
4 weeks ago

Southampton

"Getting older getting harder to be hard yes it's an issue"

Great idea for a group

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By *oubleDavidMan
4 weeks ago

Lockerbie

"Sounds good, I've had trouble staying hard since early 20s and use viagra but loved it when I realized I was a sub cock taker around the same time and could just be limp around dom daddies xx"

I’m in a similar position. I struggle to get or maintain an erection but am always horny. Really exploring bottoming. Do tops get put off if you don’t get hard or if you want to okay with your cock while flaccid?

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By *eff101Man
4 weeks ago

Reading

Its an excellent idea!!

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By *arneyBoyMan
4 weeks ago

PETERBOROUGH

Always wanted to be in a small group where nobody judges you with a softy or an extra long/short cock. Would love a meet like this to happen

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By *uck my bumMan
4 weeks ago

walsall

I’m bottom makes no difference if I get hard or not lol

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By *ungandMan
4 weeks ago

daveyhulme

I’m a bottom but would be interested

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By *KBottom25Man
4 weeks ago

London

It's a growing list this!

Trying to eat well and keep fit to keep those loads cumming in mean time. Great to support

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By *allysMan
4 weeks ago

High Wycombe

"I don't know why mine doesn't work. Discussed it with my wife but as she isn't really interested anymore it's frustrating "

I can not understand women.. a trans lady appreciates my hard dark cock more than my wife... well, I must say so does my lady friend

Check out my thread 'Double Dildo Anal'

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I’m diabetic and don’t always get erect , but still enjoy sex . I do still cum when sucked wanked etc but really enjoy giving. .

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By *immySplashMan
4 weeks ago

Coventry

I do suffer from ED and i think a ED group/forum would be a great idea.

Me personally i think i would open up more rather than to a doctor

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By *amjam10Man
4 weeks ago

essex

Brilliant idea

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By *arneyBoyMan
4 weeks ago

PETERBOROUGH

That is a great idea.... Seems there are far more on here than we realise

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By *55uk4yngrMan
4 weeks ago

Chester

Yes, sadly it happens to so many many just like prostate problems.

Both seem to stop any sexual enjoyment in later life.

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By *55uk4yngrMan
4 weeks ago

Chester

So many men, I hate predicting text!!!!!

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By *ralBiguy63Man
4 weeks ago

manchester

A great idea

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By *ordladMan
4 weeks ago

Wrexham

Mine rarely gets. Love to chat to others in same position

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By *rownriverMan
4 weeks ago

horley

Its an excellent idea!!

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By *bonybucksMan
4 weeks ago

High Wycombe

I suffer from this and I believe the stress and expectations make my problem worse

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By *ideruler58Man
4 weeks ago

Southampton

Its a great idea

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By *utton wankerMan
4 weeks ago

Huthwaite

I have slight ED sometimes rock hard but next soft as anything I really like playing and sucking soft cock too so don’t put me off

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By *immySplashMan
4 weeks ago

Coventry

Let's do it

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By *an 49Man
4 weeks ago

faversham

I have it atm after prostate removal on Viagra love to cam with guys hmu no ejaculation now though but dry orgasms

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By *ridayguyMan
4 weeks ago

Near Jodrell Bank

"Looking at forming a community of guys with ED. Not just to talk about meditation. But about sex, intimacy and romance WITHOUT the stress of worrying about if it gets hard or not!

You could call the community Soft Lads"
I'm blocked from sending you a private message but your message isn't very nice

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By *ridayguyMan
4 weeks ago

Near Jodrell Bank

appreciate humour as much as the next bloke but give a bloke a break!

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By *edsguy71Man
3 weeks ago

Bedford

Is this group going to be on another platform? I'm in by the way.

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By *echman.1Man
3 weeks ago

Home

That's my worst fear turning up to a meet and not getting hard

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By *16ptMan
3 weeks ago

central Birmingham

I find it difficult getting a stiffy, even with the blue pills, and it discourages me from following through contacts with guys on this site.

Rather than just saying "me too", it would be good if guys could say what actually helps them.

Take the blue pill half hour to an hour before playing.

Watch some porn that's to your taste (eg I like hairy guys not twinks).

Check whether your prescription drugs are known to be problematic, eg Amlodipine and Escitalopram.

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By *ike-59Man
3 weeks ago

malaga

Up for that as I'm type 2 diabetic, can get semi hard with cock rings

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By *jlincsMan
3 weeks ago

kings Lynn

Good idea.

Been looking for a wank meet anyway Kings Lynn/Peterborough area.

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By *edic 01Man
3 weeks ago

Bedworth

"I find it difficult getting a stiffy, even with the blue pills, and it discourages me from following through contacts with guys on this site.

Rather than just saying "me too", it would be good if guys could say what actually helps them.just need to acept that it's age related with possible medical conditions

Take the blue pill half hour to an hour before playing.

Watch some porn that's to your taste (eg I like hairy guys not twinks).

Check whether your prescription drugs are known to be problematic, eg Amlodipine and Escitalopram.

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By *arneyBoyMan
3 weeks ago

PETERBOROUGH

"That's my worst fear turning up to a meet and not getting hard "

I think there are lots of us that feel the same way TBH

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By *upertedMan
3 weeks ago

Nelson,, Caerphilly

As a bottom guy I always offer reassurance. Had a buddy struggle a bit last week. Past caring if it's cos he's not into me, as he wouldn't be in my bed if he wasn't.

I just say don't panic or rush, and offer to cuddle more. Buddy actually thanked me for being so patient.

We both got we wanted.

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By *moother1Man
3 weeks ago

Port Talbot

Massive turn on for me as I’m very drawn to much older men and particularly have a thing for sucking soft cocks

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By *16ptMan
3 weeks ago

central Birmingham

My FWB says "let's just use the one that works".

So if you meet a guy and he can't perform, just say that. And have a good cuddle too!

Paul

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By *iind69Man
3 weeks ago

Wigston

Meets are about fun I love Ed guys they are so sexy and fun

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By *i-IndianMan
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Due to diabetes suffering too. Makes me wary of meeting. There was a Telegraph article on ED a few weeks back. It mentioned Vertica as a possible remedy but it's very steep.

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