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By *eedsbearman OP   Man
1 week ago

Leeds

When we die can we ever truly say that we lived?

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By *lackbootzMan
1 week ago

Hayes, Middx


"When we die can we ever truly say that we lived?"

It’s very difficult to say anything when you’re dead.

But as the living know lots about people who are dead and how they lived, then that would seem to answer your question.

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By *3versMan
1 week ago

glasgow


"When we die can we ever truly say that we lived?"

Samaritans

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By *arcusUK2Man
1 week ago

Winchester


"When we die can we ever truly say that we lived?"

If someone dies, then they must have been alive beforehand.

Aristotle.

Ir was it Blackadder? Always mix up the two.

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By *u2usemeMan
1 week ago

hyde

Cheerful Charlie lol

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By *onybluenailsMan
1 week ago

Crawley

It’s a lonely old world

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By *rinity Rose McneilTV/TS
1 week ago

uttlesford, Essex

Perhaps Death is just the start.

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By *akedhunterMan
1 week ago

Edgbaston

What if the Okey Cokey really is what it's all about?

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By *3versMan
1 week ago

glasgow

Lots of tattoo ideas on this thread or one of those artful stencils for the lounge wall

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
1 week ago

London

Before death, have more sex before we are too old or too ill to do it anymore.

Relax. Let go of your inhibitions, free yourself from your self-imprisoned thoughts and emotions and enjoy life and enjoy sex.

Meet more guys. Make more friends.

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
1 week ago

London

Everything is not permanent neither wealth, status, position, beauty, face, power, youth etc. Death is inevitable.

Fools fight for things which never last but the wise live in the present, live each day at a time, no past , no future. The present is the only reality.

Yes, you can say you truly live when you have achieved physical, cosmic and spiritual orgasm or enlightenment where there is no past or future but only the harmonious, peaceful and eternal orgasmic present where there are no tears and sorrow or sufferings but eternal bliss.

Achieving orgasm is the path to immortality and the everything that's divine.

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By *odge66Man
1 week ago

rotherham


"When we die can we ever truly say that we lived?"

Not living, just existing

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By *arridMan
1 week ago

brighton


"When we die can we ever truly say that we lived?"

You have to live before you die, so if your last words are that, then yes.

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By *ippaTTV/TS
1 week ago

Hedge end


"When we die can we ever truly say that we lived?"

Bit late to ask that question, I live for today, tomorrow may never arrive xxx

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By *arridMan
1 week ago

brighton


"When we die can we ever truly say that we lived?

Bit late to ask that question, I live for today, tomorrow may never arrive xxx"

you could ask it to yourself every evening, then you wouldn’t get caught out.

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By *evanianMan
1 week ago

Tegeingl, Gogledd Cymru


"When we die can we ever truly say that we lived?"

We don't need to wait until our live draws to an end to know if we've truly lived.

If we've learned to accept and appreciate what life has brought us, explored the world around us with curiosity and wonder, and made the most of every moment, then we can say we've truly lived, every step of the way.

Perhaps it's only in reflection and accessing our life so far, that we can truly assess whether we feel alive, and whether our experiences, relationships, and choices align with our values and aspirations.

Ultimately, it's a personal evaluation that will vary from person to person.

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By *3versMan
1 week ago

glasgow


"When we die can we ever truly say that we lived?

We don't need to wait until our live draws to an end to know if we've truly lived.

If we've learned to accept and appreciate what life has brought us, explored the world around us with curiosity and wonder, and made the most of every moment, then we can say we've truly lived, every step of the way.

Perhaps it's only in reflection and accessing our life so far, that we can truly assess whether we feel alive, and whether our experiences, relationships, and choices align with our values and aspirations.

Ultimately, it's a personal evaluation that will vary from person to person."

So well said ❤️

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
1 week ago

London

Actually, we dont really die because death is only a transition to another plane of existence.

Religions, like Christianity and Islam, believe in an afterlife where the soul continues to exist after physical death, often in a spiritual realm.

Whereas Hinduism and Buddhism, believe in reincarnation, where the soul is reborn into a new physical body.

I think sex is the only gateway to eternity. When I have sex with guys, at that very moment when I achieved orgasm, there is no feeling of death but pleasure, bliss, peace, harmony and eternity. So peaceful I was able to sleep and woke up feeling very relaxed.

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By *utSouthenderMan
1 week ago

Southend-on-Sea in Essex

Well i certainly don't want to come back here some are bien Rich others aren't and as for humans don't get me started what a terrible mistake God made.

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By *eedsbearman OP   Man
1 week ago

Leeds


"Lots of tattoo ideas on this thread or one of those artful stencils for the lounge wall "

Live, laugh, love, die.

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By *ip71Man
1 week ago

Sheffield

Read life after death

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
1 week ago

London

Death is not an end.

It is rather a transition or a transformation into something else.

Death is similar to the intense, pleasurable experience of an orgasm leading to a different state where there is no death, no past, no future but only the present eternity.

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By *arridMan
1 week ago

brighton


"Death is not an end.

It is rather a transition or a transformation into something else.

Death is similar to the intense, pleasurable experience of an orgasm leading to a different state where there is no death, no past, no future but only the present eternity. "

I wouldn’t call being ripped apart and eaten alive by sharks whilst being stung in the eye ball by a hornet similar to an orgasm. I had a dream, you see, which is why, like Chief Brody, I don’t go into the water.

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By *arridMan
1 week ago

brighton

I’ll probably come back as a seagull or something.

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By *hyna HutchMan
1 week ago

valleys


"Death is not an end.

It is rather a transition or a transformation into something else.

Death is similar to the intense, pleasurable experience of an orgasm leading to a different state where there is no death, no past, no future but only the present eternity. "

La petite mort is an expression that refers to a brief loss or weakening of consciousness, and in modern usage refers specifically to a post-orgasm sensation as likened to death. The first attested use of the expression in English was in 1572.

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By *ip71Man
1 week ago

Sheffield


"I’ll probably come back as a seagull or something. "

Would you nick fish n chips or would you re create damn busters and turn targets into igloos?

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By *hyna HutchMan
1 week ago

valleys


"I’ll probably come back as a seagull or something. "

Isn't the term just 'gulls'?

If you do, can you keep the noise down in the early mornings please?

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By *3versMan
1 week ago

glasgow


"Lots of tattoo ideas on this thread or one of those artful stencils for the lounge wall

Live, laugh, love, die."

That would look lovely above my third nipple

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By *laireKTV/TS
1 week ago

Manchester

Why is it that only humans obsess about the afterlife whilst here?

My dog just licks their undercarriage and stares out of the window.

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By *3versMan
1 week ago

glasgow


"Why is it that only humans obsess about the afterlife whilst here?

My dog just licks their undercarriage and stares out of the window."

That's me on a Sunday

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By *addy7x6Man
1 week ago

High Wycombe

Singing "Woke up this mornin'"

Result.

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By *laireKTV/TS
1 week ago

Manchester


"Why is it that only humans obsess about the afterlife whilst here?

My dog just licks their undercarriage and stares out of the window.

That's me on a Sunday "

How did you get near her privates?

Even I can't get near

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
1 week ago

London


"Death is not an end.

It is rather a transition or a transformation into something else.

Death is similar to the intense, pleasurable experience of an orgasm leading to a different state where there is no death, no past, no future but only the present eternity.

La petite mort is an expression that refers to a brief loss or weakening of consciousness, and in modern usage refers specifically to a post-orgasm sensation as likened to death. The first attested use of the expression in English was in 1572."

Well said. You described it beautifully about death itself devoid of the causes of death.

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By *etterbiggerMan
1 week ago

Scunthorpe


"What if the Okey Cokey really is what it's all about?"

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By *ecor atorMan
1 week ago

York

You’re a long time looking at a lid

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By *aremanMan
1 week ago

Wymondham

The paths of glory lead but to the grave.

Woohoo!

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By *ountainMan
1 week ago

ipswich

If there is an end to death then the planet would be pretty crowded.

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
1 week ago

London

Some people have long died in this world before they even start to live. Perhaps they have a very sad life, fraught with endless sufferings and pain. Sad but true.

That's why we need to understand their pain and learn to love one another.

Only love heals, only love can bring the many living dead back to life.

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By *arcusUK2Man
1 week ago

Winchester


"Why is it that only humans obsess about the afterlife whilst here?

My dog just licks their undercarriage and stares out of the window."

I wish I could do that....

Give him a biscuit and he'll let you.

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By *0yguyMan
1 week ago

Cumberland


"When we die can we ever truly say that we lived?"

Profound.

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By *b20Man
1 week ago

Glasgow

You know you've lived when you've been to the Yumbo after midnight

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By *leepflowerMan
1 week ago

Leek

... Now here's Ted with the weather.

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By *itherMan
1 week ago

Leeds

I once read a quote from Mark Twain that went something like

"I must have been dead several million years before I was born and I don't remember it giving me any inconvenience ".

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By *arridMan
1 week ago

brighton


"I once read a quote from Mark Twain that went something like

"I must have been dead several million years before I was born and I don't remember it giving me any inconvenience ".

"

he also said golf spoils a good walk.

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By *urious katMan
1 week ago

Near bundoran

But do we... make it a good time, if not a long time..

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
1 week ago

Bristol

Well no... When we're dead we ain't saying a god damn thing 😂

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By *haron1701ETV/TS
1 week ago

Southport


"I once read a quote from Mark Twain that went something like

"I must have been dead several million years before I was born and I don't remember it giving me any inconvenience ".

"

Hee hee, I'll remember that

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By *alm_one4Man
1 week ago

RM16

I don’t think we really die. When we stop breathing we’re instantly re-born into the same life. Explains the light at the end of the tunnel, and Déjà vu.

On the other hand maybe we do 🤷‍♂️

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By *alfTankMan
1 week ago

Boston

When we have children we are condemning them to death.

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By *0yguyMan
1 week ago

Cumberland


"You know you've lived when you've been to the Yumbo after midnight "

Ah yes, been there and done that. That’s really living it large.

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By *laingreedyMan
1 week ago

Chelmsford


"Lots of tattoo ideas on this thread or one of those artful stencils for the lounge wall "

I think Sir Terry Ptatchett had written a lot of stuff that would make fine tattoos.

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By *laingreedyMan
1 week ago

Chelmsford


"I’ll probably come back as a seagull or something.

Isn't the term just 'gulls'?

If you do, can you keep the noise down in the early mornings please? "

At the risk of splitting hairs I thhink they may be boobies. And I promise not to tape bacon rinds to your window 😉

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By *laingreedyMan
1 week ago

Chelmsford


"Why is it that only humans obsess about the afterlife whilst here?

My dog just licks their undercarriage and stares out of the window.

I wish I could do that....

Give him a biscuit and he'll let you. "

Kick his balls! NO ON THE LAWN 😁

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By *laingreedyMan
1 week ago

Chelmsford


"I once read a quote from Mark Twain that went something like

"I must have been dead several million years before I was born and I don't remember it giving me any inconvenience ".

"

And “The more people I meet , the more I like my dog”

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By *amie1402Man
1 week ago

Merseyside


"I once read a quote from Mark Twain that went something like

"I must have been dead several million years before I was born and I don't remember it giving me any inconvenience ".

And “The more people I meet , the more I like my dog”"

And “The news of my death has been greatly exaggerated “

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By *avewill1Man
1 week ago

wilts

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By *eedsbearman OP   Man
1 week ago

Leeds


"[Removed by poster at 22/07/25 21:42:39]"

I couldn't have said it better myself.

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By *avewill1Man
1 week ago

wilts

I pretty well enjoy everyday. Don't spend much time thinking about leaving this earth. I know I am going to a better place. What will upset me is leaving behind all those I love.

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By *ountainMan
1 week ago

ipswich

Death is a requirement of being alive.

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By *mptyspace80Man
1 week ago

Cambridge

"Death is nothing to us, for when we are Death has not come. And when Death has come we are not" - Some smart bugger. Epicurius I think.

Also, if you die then you must at least have lived.

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By *rCurious75Man
1 week ago

Ashby de la Zouch

If you spent your life being miserable, racist, and being a general arsehole, then youve wasted it.

Life is too short to be bitter, and all that.

Be accepting, respectful and non judgemental is far less stressful and enjoyable.

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By *ondenMan
1 week ago

market harborough

When the commonplace "We must all die" transforms itself suddenly into the acute consciousness "I must die-- and soon," then death grapples us, and his fingers are cruel; afterwards, he may come to fold us in his arms as our mother did, and our last moment of dim earthly discerning may be like the first.

George Eliot, Middlemarch

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By *ondenMan
1 week ago

market harborough


"When we die can we ever truly say that we lived?"

But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

George Eliot, Middlemarch

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By *evanianMan
1 week ago

Tegeingl, Gogledd Cymru


"When we die can we ever truly say that we lived?

We don't need to wait until our live draws to an end to know if we've truly lived.

If we've learned to accept and appreciate what life has brought us, explored the world around us with curiosity and wonder, and made the most of every moment, then we can say we've truly lived, every step of the way.

Perhaps it's only in reflection and accessing our life so far, that we can truly assess whether we feel alive, and whether our experiences, relationships, and choices align with our values and aspirations.

Ultimately, it's a personal evaluation that will vary from person to person.

So well said ❤️"

Thanks:-

"The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience."

Eleanor Roosevelt.

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
1 week ago

London

Lessons from English Literature:

1. In her poem "When Death Comes" Mary Oliver stresses the importance of living with purpose and authenticity. She doesn't want to simply have "visited" the world, but to have engaged with it, made choices, and left a mark.

2. In Shakespeare Hamlet's famous soliloquy, "To be or not to be," delves into the unknown of death. The phrase "what dreams may come" suggests that even in death, there might be continued experience, raising questions about the nature of consciousness and the afterlife, the potential for continued existence, even in a form we cannot currently comprehend.

3. Other authors and thinkers, including Marcus Aurelius, who emphasizes the value of a meaningful life over a long one. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross suggests that we should live each day as if it were our last.

I think true living should involve appreciating each moment and making the most of our time.

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By *laingreedyMan
1 week ago

Chelmsford


"I once read a quote from Mark Twain that went something like

"I must have been dead several million years before I was born and I don't remember it giving me any inconvenience ".

And “The more people I meet , the more I like my dog”

And “The news of my death has been greatly exaggerated “"

Yes 😂😂😂

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By *hris4tvMan
1 week ago

liverpool


"Lessons from English Literature:

1. In her poem "When Death Comes" Mary Oliver stresses the importance of living with purpose and authenticity. She doesn't want to simply have "visited" the world, but to have engaged with it, made choices, and left a mark.

2. In Shakespeare Hamlet's famous soliloquy, "To be or not to be," delves into the unknown of death. The phrase "what dreams may come" suggests that even in death, there might be continued experience, raising questions about the nature of consciousness and the afterlife, the potential for continued existence, even in a form we cannot currently comprehend.

3. Other authors and thinkers, including Marcus Aurelius, who emphasizes the value of a meaningful life over a long one. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross suggests that we should live each day as if it were our last.

I think true living should involve appreciating each moment and making the most of our time. "

You love a but of AI don't ya...

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By *atth86Man
1 week ago

Close

"Every man dies, not every man truly ever lives"

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
1 week ago

London

Some never truly lived because they spent their lives fighting and bitching against others. A life wasted.

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By *evanianMan
1 week ago

Tegeingl, Gogledd Cymru


"Some never truly lived because they spent their lives fighting and bitching against others. A life wasted."

Very true and so often illustrated in this very Forum by those who are totally blinded of such!

"The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why."

Mark Twain.

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By *ad4dadMan
1 week ago

Chester

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By *ad4dadMan
1 week ago

Chester

"Living just for dying,

Dying just for you, yeah"

Sabbath bloody sabbath

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By *eedsbearman OP   Man
1 week ago

Leeds


"[Removed by poster at 23/07/25 13:52:16]"

The lord giveth

And the lord taketh away at 13:52:16

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By *icole FanningTV/TS
1 week ago

Navan


"When we die can we ever truly say that we lived?

If someone dies, then they must have been alive beforehand.

Aristotle.

Ir was it Blackadder? Always mix up the two. "

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By *innianMan
1 week ago

Thurso

I read a book called "Anti Climax" first part was brilliant.

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By *itskinMan
1 week ago

west midlands

This is why we should live in the moment my friend

Forget the past and the future all what really matters is now

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By *ichey6Man
1 week ago

aberdeen

Consciousness is an end in itself. We torture ourselves getting somewhere and when we get there, it is nowhere to get to.

D.H Lawrence

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

I’m not afraid of dying, I just don’t want to be there when it happens - Woody Allen

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By *olf EchoMan
1 week ago

Black Country

Charlie Brown - We only get to live once.

Snoopy - False; we die once,we get to live every day.

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By *ichey6Man
1 week ago

aberdeen


"Some never truly lived because they spent their lives fighting and bitching against others. A life wasted.

Very true and so often illustrated in this very Forum by those who are totally blinded of such!

"The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why."

Mark Twain.

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