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By *ub4anell OP   TV/TS
5 days ago

Waterlooville

My profile says it all, if it is not on there, I am not interested.

Why do they contact me or anybody else without looking at their profile.

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By *airyandbelliedbottomMan
5 days ago

Barrow-in-Furness

Some think they can just wing it, most of 'em can't?

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By *uffolkbiguy69Man
5 days ago

Newmarket

I sympathise. The words are just as important as the pictures

But this site is very transactional, just get used to it. There are great guys to be found though!

Good luck!

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By *haron1701ETV/TS
5 days ago

Southport


"My profile says it all, if it is not on there, I am not interested.

Why do they contact me or anybody else without looking at their profile."

Too lazy to read profile?

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By *aremanMan
5 days ago

Wymondham

Just had yet another one (likely a wind-up) If they'd only check my age range that would be something.

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By *i_guy_WBayMan
5 days ago

Whitley Bay

Such is the way of the internet, just block the idiots and move on

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By *eefandfurMan
5 days ago

Edinburgh

wHaT U n 2?

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By *V ShazTV/TS
5 days ago

Haydock

Learn to accept and just press block

sometimes it's pleasurable to return the unwanted attention e.g

Laziness is unforgivable

I'm not interested.

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By *ub4anell OP   TV/TS
5 days ago

Waterlooville


"wHaT U n 2? "

Can that be translated to English or Scottish, I am fluent with both.

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By *alm_one4Man
5 days ago

RM16

I’ve removed men from my ‘Looking For’ and blocked their mail. Only messages I was getting was from guys I specifically said weren’t for me!

I’ll find one if I want to meet from now on.

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By *lasgow verse 60s guyMan
5 days ago

Glasgow

You assume too much by expecting guys to read a profile. The block button is your friend

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By *amie1402Man
5 days ago

Merseyside


"My profile says it all, if it is not on there, I am not interested.

Why do they contact me or anybody else without looking at their profile."

Because they are idiots who can’t read and only look at the pictures, basically.

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By *ub4anell OP   TV/TS
5 days ago

Waterlooville


"You assume too much by expecting guys to read a profile. The block button is your friend"

A number, like you have said use the block button. Yes that would stop me from getting unwanted messages.

But I hope by using the forum to educate the the ignorant, it might help me, and them from wasting my and their time.

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By *9OralSubMan
5 days ago

Glasgow

Because they are too lazy lol

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By *hillWithBenefitsMan
5 days ago

withywood

It's not because they're lazy, most GAY guys are not into guys who wear women's clothing. It's natural for a guy to look at pictures first if they're interested, there's a chance they may read your profile or send a message. I look at the pictures first, and if I find them interesting or appealing, I read the text to find out more.

Fabguys is for guys who are into guys. Not women or women's clothing. The name of the website says it all. FABGUYS. There is a site called fabswingers. A combination of women, men and men who dress up as women or wear women's clothing. I am not discriminating against guys who dress up as women, but this site is aimed towards men who are attracted towards men. Hence the name FABGUYS.

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By *eepeter4Man
5 days ago

Bournemouth


"It's not because they're lazy, most GAY guys are not into guys who wear women's clothing. It's natural for a guy to look at pictures first if they're interested, there's a chance they may read your profile or send a message. I look at the pictures first, and if I find them interesting or appealing, I read the text to find out more.

Fabguys is for guys who are into guys. Not women or women's clothing. The name of the website says it all. FABGUYS. There is a site called fabswingers. A combination of women, men and men who dress up as women or wear women's clothing. I am not discriminating against guys who dress up as women, but this site is aimed towards men who are attracted towards men. Hence the name FABGUYS. "

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By *ub4anell OP   TV/TS
5 days ago

Waterlooville


"It's not because they're lazy, most GAY guys are not into guys who wear women's clothing. It's natural for a guy to look at pictures first if they're interested, there's a chance they may read your profile or send a message. I look at the pictures first, and if I find them interesting or appealing, I read the text to find out more.

Fabguys is for guys who are into guys. Not women or women's clothing. The name of the website says it all. FABGUYS. There is a site called fabswingers. A combination of women, men and men who dress up as women or wear women's clothing. I am not discriminating against guys who dress up as women, but this site is aimed towards men who are attracted towards men. Hence the name FABGUYS. "

Bollocks,

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By *eepeter4Man
5 days ago

Bournemouth


"It's not because they're lazy, most GAY guys are not into guys who wear women's clothing. It's natural for a guy to look at pictures first if they're interested, there's a chance they may read your profile or send a message. I look at the pictures first, and if I find them interesting or appealing, I read the text to find out more.

Fabguys is for guys who are into guys. Not women or women's clothing. The name of the website says it all. FABGUYS. There is a site called fabswingers. A combination of women, men and men who dress up as women or wear women's clothing. I am not discriminating against guys who dress up as women, but this site is aimed towards men who are attracted towards men. Hence the name FABGUYS.

Bollocks,"

👎👎👎👎

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By *amie 2000Man
5 days ago

poulton

This is a gay or bi site not into men who dress as a woman if I want a girl I'll go on a site like fabswingers like cocks not fannys like to se a nice guy with a nice bod

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By *addy cool 555Man
5 days ago

Larbert


"It's not because they're lazy, most GAY guys are not into guys who wear women's clothing. It's natural for a guy to look at pictures first if they're interested, there's a chance they may read your profile or send a message. I look at the pictures first, and if I find them interesting or appealing, I read the text to find out more.

Fabguys is for guys who are into guys. Not women or women's clothing. The name of the website says it all. FABGUYS. There is a site called fabswingers. A combination of women, men and men who dress up as women or wear women's clothing. I am not discriminating against guys who dress up as women, but this site is aimed towards men who are attracted towards men. Hence the name FABGUYS.

Bollocks,"

You’ve said the above to one guy, accused all those who don’t read your profile of being ignorant - that’s not educating people as you’ve said you’re trying to do that’s degrading them. Maybe try a different approach in both your profile and replies.

Perhaps change your attitude

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By *addy cool 555Man
5 days ago

Larbert

Personally I find lengthy profiles off putting. I’d much rather chat with guys to find out all the interesting details.

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By *hillWithBenefitsMan
5 days ago

withywood


"You assume too much by expecting guys to read a profile. The block button is your friend

A number, like you have said use the block button. Yes that would stop me from getting unwanted messages.

But I hope by using the forum to educate the the ignorant, it might help me, and them from wasting my and their time."

And there you are, bitching at people who give you advice or information. I think you need to get your act into gear and stop complaining. If you ask a question, expect to get a response. Negative or positive.

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By *ustOneBearMan
5 days ago

Neath

A short concise profile is more likely to get read than paragraphs of incoherent rambling.

But no one guarantees your profile will be read and considered.

It’s mostly a bunch of horny blokes looking to get laid.

With a generous helping of people who just want to pretend they are going to meet while wanking.

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By *hillWithBenefitsMan
5 days ago

withywood


"A short concise profile is more likely to get read than paragraphs of incoherent rambling.

But no one guarantees your profile will be read and considered.

It’s mostly a bunch of horny blokes looking to get laid.

With a generous helping of people who just want to pretend they are going to meet while wanking. "

I agree with that, comment

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By *ub4anell OP   TV/TS
5 days ago

Waterlooville


"You assume too much by expecting guys to read a profile. The block button is your friend

A number, like you have said use the block button. Yes that would stop me from getting unwanted messages.

But I hope by using the forum to educate the the ignorant, it might help me, and them from wasting my and their time.

And there you are, bitching at people who give you advice or information. I think you need to get your act into gear and stop complaining. If you ask a question, expect to get a response. Negative or positive. "

The original thread clearly says "me or anyone else"

It is about all users.

Nothing to do with what type of genetic type of male you are

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By *hillWithBenefitsMan
5 days ago

withywood

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By *hillWithBenefitsMan
5 days ago

withywood


"You assume too much by expecting guys to read a profile. The block button is your friend

A number, like you have said use the block button. Yes that would stop me from getting unwanted messages.

But I hope by using the forum to educate the the ignorant, it might help me, and them from wasting my and their time.

And there you are, bitching at people who give you advice or information. I think you need to get your act into gear and stop complaining. If you ask a question, expect to get a response. Negative or positive.

The original thread clearly says "me or anyone else"

It is about all users.

Nothing to do with what type of genetic type of male you are"

YAWN and stretch

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By *raig_KJMan
5 days ago

Southport

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By *ub4anell OP   TV/TS
5 days ago

Waterlooville

If I get looked at by a man, who says they are only looking for men, I ignore them,they are not for me.

I am biological male and have every right to be on this site.

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By *raig_KJMan
5 days ago

Southport


"You assume too much by expecting guys to read a profile. The block button is your friend

A number, like you have said use the block button. Yes that would stop me from getting unwanted messages.

But I hope by using the forum to educate the the ignorant, it might help me, and them from wasting my and their time.

And there you are, bitching at people who give you advice or information. I think you need to get your act into gear and stop complaining. If you ask a question, expect to get a response. Negative or positive.

The original thread clearly says "me or anyone else"

It is about all users.

Nothing to do with what type of genetic yes-type of male you are"

Yes absolutely correct.

I’m not attracted to females.

Why would I be interested in a facsimile.

The baseline is in Adults is as follows:-

Males are Men

Females while of no interest to me are Women.

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By *awihMan
5 days ago

Aldershot


"If I get looked at by a man, who says they are only looking for men, I ignore them,they are not for me.

I am biological male and have every right to be on this site.

Yes you might be biologically a man, but if you come on a site aimed at man on man action dressed as a woman or wearing women’s clothing that is not going to attract men seeking men. That is the point that I think others are trying to make.

"

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By *ohnbi1965Man
5 days ago

Aberfeldy

Get that all the time if they read profile it would save so much time.

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By *ottom_only_CDTV/TS
5 days ago

Near Glasgow


"It's not because they're lazy, most GAY guys are not into guys who wear women's clothing. It's natural for a guy to look at pictures first if they're interested, there's a chance they may read your profile or send a message. I look at the pictures first, and if I find them interesting or appealing, I read the text to find out more.

Fabguys is for guys who are into guys. Not women or women's clothing. The name of the website says it all. FABGUYS. There is a site called fabswingers. A combination of women, men and men who dress up as women or wear women's clothing. I am not discriminating against guys who dress up as women, but this site is aimed towards men who are attracted towards men. Hence the name FABGUYS. "

If this is true ( which it is not ).

I wouldn't get as many messages from guys looking to meet on here , as I do on Fabswingers (which I do ).

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By *icole FanningTV/TS
5 days ago

Navan


"It's not because they're lazy, most GAY guys are not into guys who wear women's clothing. It's natural for a guy to look at pictures first if they're interested, there's a chance they may read your profile or send a message. I look at the pictures first, and if I find them interesting or appealing, I read the text to find out more.

Fabguys is for guys who are into guys. Not women or women's clothing. The name of the website says it all. FABGUYS. There is a site called fabswingers. A combination of women, men and men who dress up as women or wear women's clothing. I am not discriminating against guys who dress up as women, but this site is aimed towards men who are attracted towards men. Hence the name FABGUYS. "

Well you need to go off and set up a website called FABGAYS, then don’t you.

And FYI, I get infinitely more contact from GUYS on this site than I do on Fab Swingers.

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By *raig_KJMan
5 days ago

Southport

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By *raig_KJMan
5 days ago

Southport


"If I get looked at by a man, who says they are only looking for men, I ignore them,they are not for me.

I am biological male and have every right to be on this site.

"

You absolutely have a right to be on this site, and Men who like Men have to same right to ignore you and look for a man.

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By *amelaXTV/TS
5 days ago

Swindon


"You assume too much by expecting guys to read a profile. The block button is your friend

A number, like you have said use the block button. Yes that would stop me from getting unwanted messages.

But I hope by using the forum to educate the the ignorant, it might help me, and them from wasting my and their time."

Maybe educate yourself on your attitude and delusions of grandeur 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *orny7419Man
5 days ago

Gloucester

If I don’t fancy the person what ever persona I politely say not interested

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By *os001Man
4 days ago

Oxford


"If I don’t fancy the person what ever persona I politely say not interested "

Exactly that. Although it would save time if people 'reed' the profiles and anything else! Lol

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By *lackbootzMan
4 days ago

Hayes, Middx


"You assume too much by expecting guys to read a profile. The block button is your friend

A number, like you have said use the block button. Yes that would stop me from getting unwanted messages.

But I hope by using the forum to educate the the ignorant, it might help me, and them from wasting my and their time."

If you’re this cross and haughty because people don’t read your profile… just imagine how cross and haughty you’re going to be when it percolates that just a fraction of the site users participate in the Forum and nobody’s actually going to change their behaviour after this little threnody…

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 days ago

Llandrindod Wells

Had a guy look at my profile at least 20 times over the course of a couple of weeks. Exchanged private messages and were almost on the point of arranging a meeting e.g. day, venue etc. Than he asks what am I into and what will I do to him. Replied what would happen but pointed out that it was in my profile. Rudish reply that I had mislead him and he blocked me. Annoying but probably a lucky escape

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By *hmwildstarMan
4 days ago

Outwood

I agree I have listed all I do and don’t do but it doesn’t seem to matter

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
4 days ago

Didcot

When it comes to reading profiles yes a lot of guys don't bother, however there are an awful lot of guys on here that think you should do anything they want you to do because they are special.

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen


"Had a guy look at my profile at least 20 times over the course of a couple of weeks. Exchanged private messages and were almost on the point of arranging a meeting e.g. day, venue etc. Than he asks what am I into and what will I do to him. Replied what would happen but pointed out that it was in my profile. Rudish reply that I had mislead him and he blocked me. Annoying but probably a lucky escape"

...

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🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 When they trot out the 'what you into' bollix, they might as well say 'I'm a Ricki Lake/Fake'🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

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By *upertedMan
4 days ago

Nelson

This site and others don't work like they should. On TV they're often depicted as you log in and you can have someone round to your place for fun in a few minutes.

I think it's a bit like chucking wet toilet paper at the wall and seeing what sticks...

They're just hedging their bets...

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By *ustOneBearMan
4 days ago

Neath

“What will you do to me?” Means they’re wanking and will disappear once they’ve cum.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
4 days ago

Didcot


"“What will you do to me?” Means they’re wanking and will disappear once they’ve cum. "

Yep, a lot of those on here, also people who message making compliments which in subsequent turn in to sexual fantasies, then they disappear, obviously just a wank fantasy.

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By *illy54Man
4 days ago

London

Oh

Profiles are ment to be read, who knew .

Not 50% of guys who message me

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By (user no longer on site)
4 days ago

are you upset I didn't read it?

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By *arti G xTV/TS
4 days ago

Chandlers Ford

If get messages asking what you into/like l just reply saying it on profile

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
4 days ago

Didcot


"My profile says it all, if it is not on there, I am not interested.

Why do they contact me or anybody else without looking at their profile."

I would take some issue with something on your profile, you imply that versatile means you should always be up for top and bottom, I don't agree, unfortunately FabGuys only gives Top, Bottom, Versatile or Oral as options, personally I'm not that much in to anal but have been known to top and/or bottom with the right guy, however I want more out of a meet than just sucking dick, what option am I supposed to choose?

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By *lackbootzMan
4 days ago

Hayes, Middx


" … On TV they're often depicted as you log in and you can have someone round to your place for fun in a few minutes..."

I must have missed the FabGuys TV advert! Sounds rather fun…

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By *os001Man
4 days ago

Oxford


"“What will you do to me?” Means they’re wanking and will disappear once they’ve cum.

Yep, a lot of those on here, also people who message making compliments which in subsequent turn in to sexual fantasies, then they disappear, obviously just a wank fantasy."

Oh 100% that, had a couple of guys do that this week. I guy got incredibly flirty and suggestive and I just played alone as could see where it was going.

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By *ottomup100Man
4 days ago

Shannon

Yeah my profile states that I bottom but constantly get messages to fuck guys which just isn't my thing

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By *erasusMan
4 days ago

Glasgow

Think I'll just tell folk to read my profile and get back to me if interested

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By *amie1402Man
4 days ago

Merseyside

Fabguys is NOT just for gay men

It’s for everyone who is neither a female nor a MF couple.

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By *ensualblokeMan
4 days ago

Colchester

Part and parcel I'm afraid- there's always going to be people who dont read, always people who think they are exception to the rule... you have to swallow it I'm afraid. The block button is good though too.

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By *arcusUK2Man
4 days ago

Winchester

Welcome to the minimal attention span world we now live in. Many can't even reed and rite, so they probably don't bother even looking.

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By *arcusUK2Man
4 days ago

Winchester


"“What will you do to me?” Means they’re wanking and will disappear once they’ve cum.

Yep, a lot of those on here, also people who message making compliments which in subsequent turn in to sexual fantasies, then they disappear, obviously just a wank fantasy.

Oh 100% that, had a couple of guys do that this week. I guy got incredibly flirty and suggestive and I just played alone as could see where it was going. "

You could always tell them you've been constipated for 10 days, and you're just having a dump that will adjust the Earth's axis. That should get them to move along.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
4 days ago

Didcot


"“What will you do to me?” Means they’re wanking and will disappear once they’ve cum.

Yep, a lot of those on here, also people who message making compliments which in subsequent turn in to sexual fantasies, then they disappear, obviously just a wank fantasy.

Oh 100% that, had a couple of guys do that this week. I guy got incredibly flirty and suggestive and I just played alone as could see where it was going. "

To be fair, given I'm fat and often very self conscious about it, I'm quite flattered if someone uses me as a wank fantasy.

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By *punk1975Man
4 days ago

Glasgow

Likewise. The amount of people that contact me who don't accommodate or ask for a face picture. Or even if I like kissing. My profile clearly states what I am into. I now just block people

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By *owzerMan
4 days ago

Chester.....


" … On TV they're often depicted as you log in and you can have someone round to your place for fun in a few minutes...

I must have missed the FabGuys TV advert! Sounds rather fun… "

It is. Gorgeous guys with big cocks. It's the reason I joined 😜

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By *onnyd26Man
18 hours ago

Mitcham


"My profile says it all, if it is not on there, I am not interested.

Why do they contact me or anybody else without looking at their profile."

its a personal hate of mine, I always read them, if I really liked someone's profile and at the very bottom of it it said "no total bottoms" i wouldent wink or message them, i say "aww that's a shame" and move on,

When I get a message with questions that are on my profile clearly, it bugs the fuck out of me.

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By *bonybucksMan
18 hours ago

High Wycombe

Yeah it’s annoying that they don’t read it

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By *ookingaroundMan
18 hours ago

Bristol

There maybe needs to be a separate forum sub section for catharsis threads for this sort of thing.

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
17 hours ago

London

Some read them but ask to check whether there are any changes or to confirm it.

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By *cunnySucker69Man
12 hours ago

Scunthorpe

I think some just look at photos and don't read the content

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