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By (user no longer on site) OP   
6 days ago

Yes this site is a hook up site, but why is the majority of content so graphic and vulgar? Can you imagine a female hook up site being like this? Do men have no reserve or class?

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By *eedsbearmanMan
6 days ago

Leeds

You've obviously never worked in a factory full of women.

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By *fourjMan
6 days ago

Here, there or somewhere nearish March

I can’t imagine a female hook up site and have no idea what one looks like. I’ll stick with men, thanks, in all their vulgar glory.

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By *loverfieldMan
6 days ago

Dalton, Cumbria


"Yes this site is a hook up site, but why is the majority of content so graphic and vulgar? Can you imagine a female hook up site being like this? Do men have no reserve or class? "

I show a photo of my dick before showing a photo of my face, just as most men do, and I think that's vulgar...

I think it's vulgar to cheat on one's wife, girlfriend, husband, or boyfriend.

It's definitely vulgar to talk about one's wife's knickers, and to share them with other men.

It's vulgar to offer photos of your wife or stepdaughter to other men.

Is that the kind of vulgarity you are referring to?

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By *iggreenockMan
6 days ago

Greenock


"Yes this site is a hook up site, but why is the majority of content so graphic and vulgar? Can you imagine a female hook up site being like this? Do men have no reserve or class?

I show a photo of my dick before showing a photo of my face, just as most men do, and I think that's vulgar...

I think it's vulgar to cheat on one's wife, girlfriend, husband, or boyfriend.

It's definitely vulgar to talk about one's wife's knickers, and to share them with other men.

It's vulgar to offer photos of your wife or stepdaughter to other men.

Is that the kind of vulgarity you are referring to?"

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By *ucksitupMan
6 days ago

Shrewsbury

One man’s vulgar is another man’s normal

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By *ickSeekerMan
6 days ago

Canterbury

Well...I grew up in a very sheltered environment, and was not aware of the levels of lewdness and crudeness, in all their explicit glory, of chats between mates, pals and friends (male) until quite late in life. It is almost a code of engagement. So, my take is that, yes, vulgarity is inherent to male bonding, at least at some level; it's liberating, cathartic and a shared set of life experiences......and I'm certainly enjoying it this late in life with my circle of mates - all straight and fairly alpha gee, I've got a hard on now!!!

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By *evanianMan
6 days ago

Flintshire


"Yes this site is a hook up site, but why is the majority of content so graphic and vulgar? Can you imagine a female hook up site being like this? Do men have no reserve or class? "

I entirely agree with you, Tom. Unfortunately, it seems we're forced to tolerate unnecessary graphic vulgarity and coarse language on Fabguys. Some individuals here think it makes them seem smart and clever, however in reality, it has the opposite effect, although in their blissful ignorance, they seem oblivious to that fact.

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By *iggreenockMan
6 days ago

Greenock

Move on and get on with your life. What do you expect to change? Seriously!

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By *3versMan
6 days ago

glasgow


"Yes this site is a hook up site, but why is the majority of content so graphic and vulgar? Can you imagine a female hook up site being like this? Do men have no reserve or class? "

Says the hardon pic

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By *evanianMan
6 days ago

Flintshire


"Move on and get on with your life. What do you expect to change? Seriously! "

That's what we are doing, nothing is ever likely to change, human nature is exactly that!

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By *ildwestheroMan
6 days ago

Llandrindod Wells

Vulgarity seems to be the order of the day now in so many walks of life. There used to be a time and a place but not anymore.

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By *arkinSuffolkMan
6 days ago

Lowestoft

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By *ookingaroundMan
6 days ago

Bristol


"Yes this site is a hook up site, but why is the majority of content so graphic and vulgar? Can you imagine a female hook up site being like this? Do men have no reserve or class? "

Men aren’t women, that’s why they act differently.

That’s ok. You wouldn’t complain that crows make different sounds to terns. So why complain that men act differently to women?

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By *evanianMan
6 days ago

Flintshire


"Move on and get on with your life. What do you expect to change? Seriously!

That's what we are doing, nothing is ever likely to change, human nature is exactly that!

Talk sense!"

What exactly are you failing to comprehend in that self explanatory simple sentence _iggreenock?

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By *issy SiMan
6 days ago

Horsham


"Yes this site is a hook up site, but why is the majority of content so graphic and vulgar? Can you imagine a female hook up site being like this? Do men have no reserve or class? "

And you say you want to be a cum dump???

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By *lackbootzMan
6 days ago

Hayes, Middx


"Yes this site is a hook up site, but why is the majority of content so graphic and vulgar? Can you imagine a female hook up site being like this? Do men have no reserve or class? "

“majority of content” … to what do you refer exactly? Genuine question.

The pictures users post? The content of profiles? The messages you receive? The subject matter of stuff in the Forum?

Is the picture of your penis you’ve posted graphic and vulgar? Or does it have reserve and class? (Quick tip: black and white photography doesn’t immediately confer class…)

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By *lackbootzMan
6 days ago

Hayes, Middx


"Yes this site is a hook up site, but why is the majority of content so graphic and vulgar? Can you imagine a female hook up site being like this? Do men have no reserve or class?

I entirely agree with you, Tom. Unfortunately, it seems we're forced to tolerate unnecessary graphic vulgarity and coarse language on Fabguys. Some individuals here think it makes them seem smart and clever, however in reality, it has the opposite effect, although in their blissful ignorance, they seem oblivious to that fact."

Goodness - talk about you receiving a lighter-fuel like accelerant to burnish your high and mighty credentials… 🙄

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By *ornyoldfellaMan
6 days ago

Thornton-Cleveleys


"You've obviously never worked in a factory full of women. "

I did as an 18 year old scary as hell.

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By *teelballsMan
5 days ago

central london


"Yes this site is a hook up site, but why is the majority of content so graphic and vulgar? Can you imagine a female hook up site being like this? Do men have no reserve or class?

I entirely agree with you, Tom. Unfortunately, it seems we're forced to tolerate unnecessary graphic vulgarity and coarse language on Fabguys. Some individuals here think it makes them seem smart and clever, however in reality, it has the opposite effect, although in their blissful ignorance, they seem oblivious to that fact."

Exactly who forces you to tolerate the vulgarity of this site ?

Aha but you do, entirely of your own choosing.

Looking for a bit of casual secret sex on the side are we ?

Not one picture to show. Now why would that be then ? Bet it’s not your real name either.

Secretly looking for a bit of anonymous vulgar sleaze on a hook up site are we ?

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By *luteus maxMan
5 days ago

Waterlooville at night

I'm here for sex, not a deep meaningful relationship. I wantvyou to fuck me, not invite me for dinner.

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By *noncumdumpMan
5 days ago

Watford

Have you led a very sheltered life, or are you new to the concept of using the Internet to get your balls emptied/arse filled. Or did you come here looking for partners for country walks and cups of tea? Head over to swingers, andyou'll discover plenty of so-called lewd and vulgar women more than happy to display the inner workings of their piss flaps.

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By *evanianMan
5 days ago

Flintshire

Although Fabguys welcomes all members of colourful male society, whilst personal insults, vulgarity, coarse and thuggish language dominate, it's clear the objective is to provoke rather than converse.

Decorum, decency, and courtesy are essential for meaningful discussion. Basic respect would make exchanges more productive.

Let's engage with the topic at hand, rather than resorting to childish insults. While this site allows NSFW language, can we please focus on respectful dialogue, free from hostility and personal attacks?

If decent civility isn't within your capabilities, perhaps it's time to reassess your approach.

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By *amsoonMan
5 days ago

stornoway

Vulgarity has its place. It's understanding the time and place to express those vulgarities.

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By *eanneTV/TS
5 days ago

midlands

Paint a vulgar picture..

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By *evanianMan
5 days ago

Flintshire


"Vulgarity has its place. It's understanding the time and place to express those vulgarities."

I agree, vulgarity certainly has its time and place, but when it's used merely for its own sake, it can come across as crass and pointless. Let's focus on using language that adds value to the conversation, rather than just trying to shock, provoke or insult others.

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By *ookingaroundMan
5 days ago

Bristol

It is interesting that many of us commission our responses to this thread from a device or consciousness which seems to have absolutely no memory for what we have done or said before.

Some of the missives from correspondents write like speaking to the scammers on various messaging apps who work in shifts, after a short period of time, it’s as if the messages are being written by someone else who doesn’t know what the previous incarnation said.

That’s at least one interpretation of the seeming total lack of self awareness. There are others but they are not so kind.

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By *eefandfurMan
5 days ago

Edinburgh


"Yes this site is a hook up site, but why is the majority of content so graphic and vulgar? Can you imagine a female hook up site being like this? Do men have no reserve or class?

I entirely agree with you, Tom. Unfortunately, it seems we're forced to tolerate unnecessary graphic vulgarity and coarse language on Fabguys. Some individuals here think it makes them seem smart and clever, however in reality, it has the opposite effect, although in their blissful ignorance, they seem oblivious to that fact."

You should set up an alternative dating site for gentlemen. I'm sure there is a huge market for pompous sanctimonious scolding. Probably be popular with some of those with a humiliation fetish, or men with unresolved issues from a historic 'interaction' with a gentleman of the cloth.

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By *noncumdumpMan
5 days ago

Watford


"Yes this site is a hook up site, but why is the majority of content so graphic and vulgar? Can you imagine a female hook up site being like this? Do men have no reserve or class?

I entirely agree with you, Tom. Unfortunately, it seems we're forced to tolerate unnecessary graphic vulgarity and coarse language on Fabguys. Some individuals here think it makes them seem smart and clever, however in reality, it has the opposite effect, although in their blissful ignorance, they seem oblivious to that fact.

You should set up an alternative dating site for gentlemen. I'm sure there is a huge market for pompous sanctimonious scolding. Probably be popular with some of those with a humiliation fetish, or men with unresolved issues from a historic 'interaction' with a gentleman of the cloth. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
5 days ago


"Yes this site is a hook up site, but why is the majority of content so graphic and vulgar? Can you imagine a female hook up site being like this? Do men have no reserve or class?

Says the hardon pic"

I’m merely making an observation / starting a discussion. I claim no particular level of reserve or class personally

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By *lackbootzMan
5 days ago

Hayes, Middx


"Yes this site is a hook up site, but why is the majority of content so graphic and vulgar? Can you imagine a female hook up site being like this? Do men have no reserve or class?

Says the hardon pic

I’m merely making an observation / starting a discussion. I claim no particular level of reserve or class personally "

As I ask you above:

“majority of content” … to what do you refer exactly? Genuine question.

The pictures users post? The content of profiles? The messages you receive? The subject matter of stuff in the Forum?

All of these..?

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By *eefandfurMan
5 days ago

Edinburgh


"

The guy is right though. Unfortunately for many on here, you have a habit (it's very difficult not to see it as deliberate) of bringing out the worst in people. As well you know. I understand that's how some people get their kicks, but it's a pretty hideous thing to watch unfold. "

Continuing to propagate outdated and damaging myths about homosexuality is vulgar.

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By *ussextgirlukTV/TS
5 days ago

chichester


"Yes this site is a hook up site, but why is the majority of content so graphic and vulgar? Can you imagine a female hook up site being like this? Do men have no reserve or class? "

It’s a gay fuck site for horny guys to meet and fuck liked minded people.

This ain’t Romantic dating dot com

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By *1CrowMan
5 days ago

Sandhurst

I prefer vulgarity to pomposity.

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By *IPMANMan
5 days ago

ROCHESTER

Play nicely children...and remember...its only rubbing skin after all

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By *eefandfurMan
5 days ago

Edinburgh

I did see a thread where some filthy degenerate suggested putting pineapple on pizza.

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By *ussextgirlukTV/TS
5 days ago

chichester


"I did see a thread where some filthy degenerate suggested putting pineapple on pizza. "

Well it’s beats shooting spunk on pizza I guess

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By *ucker4you80Man
5 days ago

Calne


"

The guy is right though. Unfortunately for many on here, you have a habit (it's very difficult not to see it as deliberate) of bringing out the worst in people. As well you know. I understand that's how some people get their kicks, but it's a pretty hideous thing to watch unfold.

Continuing to propagate outdated and damaging myths about homosexuality is vulgar. "

I'm not doing that.

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By *b20Man
5 days ago

Glasgow


"Yes this site is a hook up site, but why is the majority of content so graphic and vulgar? Can you imagine a female hook up site being like this? Do men have no reserve or class?

The following sentence is on YOUR profile

"Also want to try being a cum dump- wank off in my face, cum in my mouth / face"

And you complain about vulgarity?

Can you point out where I complained?"

Your original post is of a complaining nature, to show your distaste of vulgarity

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By *ooking 4 fun77Man
5 days ago

Dodworth


"Yes this site is a hook up site, but why is the majority of content so graphic and vulgar? Can you imagine a female hook up site being like this? Do men have no reserve or class? "

If we went by the dictionary definition of vulgar I think most profiles on here (including mine and yours) would be vulgar... I think you should give some examples. To be honest there are some profiles on here that I don't like but it's a hook up site and people like different things, just ignore them...

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By *iBuilderThurrockMan
5 days ago

Thurrock

Calm down Hyacinth.


"Yes this site is a hook up site, but why is the majority of content so graphic and vulgar? Can you imagine a female hook up site being like this? Do men have no reserve or class? "

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By *amie2018cMan
5 days ago

Near

Nothing shocks me on here now . Well apart from poor spelling and unnecessary apostrophes

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By *aremanMan
5 days ago

Wymondham

Are females less "vulgar"? We sent a reporter...

"What I was sad to observe was how other women looked at those who they considered sluts. I expected that girls would be supportive of each other, yet every time they talked about who ended up together the previous night, they judged women more harshly than men. I got tired of hearing questions such as, How could she let herself do that? or What was she thinking? and comments describing the hookup as being on the verge of disgusting or sad to watch. By condemning female behavior, women actively participate in the subjugation of other women."

(Article in The Gazelle, 2016)

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By *avyashMan
5 days ago

Near Retford

Does anyone know how to get the clutch marks out of these pearls?

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By *ookingaroundMan
5 days ago

Bristol


"Does anyone know how to get the clutch marks out of these pearls?"

Vinegar

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By *ountainMan
5 days ago

ipswich


"Are females less "vulgar"? We sent a reporter...

"What I was sad to observe was how other women looked at those who they considered sluts. I expected that girls would be supportive of each other, yet every time they talked about who ended up together the previous night, they judged women more harshly than men. I got tired of hearing questions such as, How could she let herself do that? or What was she thinking? and comments describing the hookup as being on the verge of disgusting or sad to watch. By condemning female behavior, women actively participate in the subjugation of other women."

(Article in The Gazelle, 2016) "

Gossip is always fascinating.

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen


"Although Fabguys welcomes all members of colourful male society, whilst personal insults, vulgarity, coarse and thuggish language dominate, it's clear the objective is to provoke rather than converse.

Decorum, decency, and courtesy are essential for meaningful discussion. Basic respect would make exchanges more productive.

Let's engage with the topic at hand, rather than resorting to childish insults. While this site allows NSFW language, can we please focus on respectful dialogue, free from hostility and personal attacks?

If decent civility isn't within your capabilities, perhaps it's time to reassess your approach.

"

...

...

..

😭You have been content to indulge in personal insults including that infamous episode when a leading forumite left.

Use of swear words is really not a big deal. This is everyday discourse. It's utter ly speculative to say such language is designed to provoke.

🤔

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By *oodpeckerMan
4 days ago

Falkirk

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By *oodpeckerMan
4 days ago

Falkirk


"Yes this site is a hook up site, but why is the majority of content so graphic and vulgar? Can you imagine a female hook up site being like this? Do men have no reserve or class? "

It's subjective and who knew that just this sort of site would attract Mary Whitehouse followers? (UNLOS 😏)

I really wouldn't want to imagine a female hookup site 😵

Seemingly, SOME men on here/in this thread do indeed have "no reserve or class" and have spread the pathetic use of AI from images to words! 🥱

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By *ames canMan
4 days ago

monaghan


"Vulgarity has its place. It's understanding the time and place to express those vulgarities.

I agree, vulgarity certainly has its time and place, but when it's used merely for its own sake, it can come across as crass and pointless. Let's focus on using language that adds value to the conversation, rather than just trying to shock, provoke or insult others. "

...has someone hurt your feelings...?

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By *ookingaroundMan
4 days ago

Bristol


"Vulgarity has its place. It's understanding the time and place to express those vulgarities.

I agree, vulgarity certainly has its time and place, but when it's used merely for its own sake, it can come across as crass and pointless. Let's focus on using language that adds value to the conversation, rather than just trying to shock, provoke or insult others. ...has someone hurt your feelings...?"

Some people prefer to dish out but not receive.

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 days ago

Llandrindod Wells

Define vulgarity. I spent 12 years in the army where if you didn't say 'fuck' at least twice in every sentence, they thought there was something wrong with you. I'm happy to use fuck/fucking on this site to describe a sexual act but not as an expletive. I don't use it on other sites like facebook and I don't use it in 'polite company' unless I accidentally drop something on my foot and then apologise profusely.

I'm rarely shocked by anything I read on here. Somethings that might be construed as vulgar I find funny [my warped sense of humour] or a bit sick. Certainly do not condone vulgar or insulting comments about other members. You can have an argument/discussion without being nasty.

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By *excessMan
4 days ago

Sleaford

Had a guy randomly message this morning that he was sniffing his mother's underwear.

Truly disgusting!

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By *oodpeckerMan
4 days ago

Falkirk


"Had a guy randomly message this morning that he was sniffing his mother's underwear.

Truly disgusting! "

You 'should've' kept this to yourself 🤢… but, I understand the need to unburden 🤮

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By *ountainMan
4 days ago

ipswich

Is it OK to be vulgar while drinking a cup of tea if its in a China cup and ones little finger is pointed outwards whilst sipping it ?

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By *lastactionheroMan
4 days ago

Liverpool


"Nothing shocks me on here now . Well apart from poor spelling and unnecessary apostrophes "

Fucken' hell!

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By *eedsbearmanMan
4 days ago

Leeds

Poor OP found it all so vulgar he flounder off

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By *evanianMan
4 days ago

Flintshire

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By *evanianMan
4 days ago

Flintshire


"Poor OP found it all so vulgar he flounder off "

Sadly so, he was a decent chap.

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By *bonybucksMan
4 days ago

High Wycombe

Because we are men?!

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By *oose1Man
4 days ago

doncaster

If you find it vulgar , look away or leave

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By *ookingaroundMan
4 days ago

Bristol


"Because we are men?! "

Aye it turns out if you make crass generalisations and espouse sexist bollocks, there are plenty people on here are going to point out you are talking nonsense. It’s quite heartening.

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By *ucker4you80Man
4 days ago

Calne


"Because we are men?!

Aye it turns out if you make crass generalisations and espouse sexist bollocks, there are plenty people on here are going to point out you are talking nonsense. It’s quite heartening.

"

And another one, there's a word for this behaviour, I'll google it.

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By *ucker4you80Man
4 days ago

Calne

Conflict addiction, that's the term, help is available. Thoughts and prayers.

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 days ago

Llandrindod Wells


"Had a guy randomly message this morning that he was sniffing his mother's underwear.

Truly disgusting! "

That's not vulgar. It's downright vile and perverted.

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By *IPMANMan
2 days ago

ROCHESTER

Where's Kitty from Cheadle when we need an impartial referee ?

Pass the butterbean whip please...

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By *airyandbelliedbottomMan
2 days ago

Barrow-in-Furness


"Where's Kitty from Cheadle when we need an impartial referee ?

Pass the butterbean whip please..."

Underwear from your mother or sister is disgusting dudes as a gay man but.. I accept there are bi guys on here... And I love bi guys in a meet so I accept you as you are

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