FabGuys.com forum: Lying about age.

By *acingfan OP Man
3 weeks ago

Huddersfield

A guy who says he's 40 on his profile sent me a facepic. I replied that he had a nice body but looked older and he replied that he is really 50.

Knocking a couple of years off if you look your age or younger is one thing. But this guy could pass for 60. Jeez!

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By *eonsMan
3 weeks ago

Swindon

I met a guy off here a couple of years ago who's profile said he was 24, turned out he is 39 and he looked it.

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By *dambi00Man
3 weeks ago

Leicestershire

I’ve noticed a lot of older men lie about their age, sometimes knocking 5+ years off of their actual age, I kind of understand why they do it though.

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By *lue555Man
3 weeks ago

harrow

Very true some people age good some age bad depending on lifestyle.

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By *eedsbearmanMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Reap what we sow. Society is youth obsessed and those of us who dare to be over 40 are often just left invisible.

Not saying right or wrong, and it's annoying when people are clearly way older than they day, but such is life.

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By *acingfan OP Man
3 weeks ago

Huddersfield

"I’ve noticed a lot of older men lie about their age, sometimes knocking 5+ years off of their actual age, I kind of understand why they do it though. "

I understand too. But this is a never in a million years case!

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By *idingcockMan
3 weeks ago

Driffield

It’s silly because lots of guys like older men, a friend of mine on here is 79 and he has to turn men away because he hasn’t got enough hours in the day for them all. Some young guys love fucking granddads it seems.

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By *ernne67Man
3 weeks ago

Shoeburyness

Don't see the point of lying about age if your definitely going to meet

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By *ucksitupMan
3 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Just as bad are the guys whose body pics are 10 years (or more) old.

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By *ensualblokeMan
3 weeks ago

Colchester/Waltham Abbey

"Just as bad are the guys whose body pics are 10 years (or more) old.

Theres a lot of those. Some of my locals seem to post pics I remeber from Gaydar around 15 years ago. Deluded.

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By *dam6969Man
3 weeks ago

Aylesbury

Met a guy who said he was 40 he was actually 67 however I still fucked him

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By *ayd100Man
3 weeks ago

bb7

Don't think I look that bad for my age

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By *excessMan
3 weeks ago

Sleaford

"Don't see the point of lying about age if your definitely going to meet "

I can!

How many times have you seen a post saying "met a guy who lied about his age, fucked him anyway" or something similar.

I personally wouldn't go ahead with a meet if I'd been lied to, but many fabguys will literally fuck anything😁

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By *starMan
3 weeks ago

Frampton on Severn

I've thought about it, particularly when I reached 60 and soon 70. The decadal change feels huge. But I am what I am, no point denying it. Think I carry my years pretty well.

Anyway, I only want to meet people who'd want to meet me, as I am.

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By *ucksitupMan
3 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

"Just as bad are the guys whose body pics are 10 years (or more) old.

Theres a lot of those. Some of my locals seem to post pics I remeber from Gaydar around 15 years ago. Deluded."

I saw one the other day that was posted in 2010 showing a fit body. (The only pic on his profile) 15 years on it would be rare for a guy to look the same.

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By *hubsloverMan
3 weeks ago

East/west sussex

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By *ugarrainMan
3 weeks ago

paisley

Add 20 years ON for me please.

I love older the better.

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By *adwolf75Man
3 weeks ago

Grantham

My profile says im 50 when im obviously 28 in reality

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By *anDadBodMan
3 weeks ago

Speke

i’m definitely 52👍🏻😃

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By *ugarrainMan
3 weeks ago

paisley

"It’s silly because lots of guys like older men, a friend of mine on here is 79 and he has to turn men away because he hasn’t got enough hours in the day for them all. Some young guys love fucking granddads it seems. "

Indeed, I'm 69 and love far older than me. Looks and body not significant. Horny minds is what is the turn on.

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By *ustPeekinMan
3 weeks ago

Alresford

My birth certificate says I’m in my fifties but I’m certain I’m 24

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By *W9DaddyMan
3 weeks ago

Richmond

" Some young guys love fucking granddads it seems".

True.

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By *hubsloverMan
3 weeks ago

East/west sussex

"Don't see the point of lying about age if your definitely going to meet "

Indeed , It's like putting on a wig to appear 30 when your face says 80.

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By *amie2018cMan
3 weeks ago

North Cambs/W Norf

can't see the point , if your intention is to meet, I'm 61 , ( some guys in my area state younger but in fact older than me!)

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By *lueoscarMan
3 weeks ago

alfreton/chesterfield

I don't lie about my age but meets have definitely dropped since hitting my sixties, the problem being I'm probably hornier now than I was in my twenties when getting some cock was virtually impossible back then. Ain't life a bugger

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By *ildwestheroMan
3 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Met a guy once who said he was 48. Looked a lot older but I've never been good with ages. Also said he was retired. Thought that was a bit young to retire. During the course of our conversation he mentioned his son was coming up to 40! Rather blew his 'age' out of the water.

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By *issyOliveMan
3 weeks ago

village, corby

It's an odd thing age and how you look I think the amount of 25yo that look 40 and cice wersa is crazy. I never really care to much about the number! Be 25 I say lol

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By *atchmo_Jizz!Man
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I’m quite happy with my current age and don’t see the point in lying about it. I am me and I’m comfortable with that

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By *ayPonty1Man
3 weeks ago

Pontypridd

There's a lot of "ageism" on sites like this so guys do lie about thier ages.

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By *aremanMan
3 weeks ago

Wymondham

No point in lying. I believe I'm in better nick than a lot of 55-year-olds. BUt my face is a dead giveaway!

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By *tar33Man
3 weeks ago

North London (outer)

I'm 67, quite a confident person and totally honest about my age, it's nothing to be ashamed of.

The liars who claim to be younger are easily caught out, as demonstrated by some of the examples given above. Sad, stupid, pathetic individuals they are.

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By *hubsloverMan
3 weeks ago

East/west sussex

I am acquainted with a rather attractive chubby individual on this platform who has restricted messaging to those older than 53. I am confident in my ability to engage as if I were a 53-year-old man; however, it is unfortunate that I am unable to message him, it is a shame as tbh age is merely a numerical value.

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By *ildwestheroMan
3 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

I've often been told I look younger than I am. One helluva confidence boost. However my body is convinced I am older than I really am.

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

I'm 62 but do regularly get taken for early 50s, so I'm happy enough being honest about my age

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By *obbieg30Man
3 weeks ago

East London

For me it's not ages it's body description.

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By *odge66Man
3 weeks ago

rotherham

I state my real age

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By *ndyfy7Man
3 weeks ago

Fleetwood

I now a few guys that do - I don’t care about telling people my age

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By *ardnutsMan
3 weeks ago

Pensby

I'm 67. Not bad for my age and as horny as ever, definitely more kinky. But I see time after time age ranges, which is quite funny when again I see guys 20 or even 30 years younger then me in a worse condition.

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By *dambi00Man
3 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"Don't see the point of lying about age if your definitely going to meet

I can!

How many times have you seen a post saying "met a guy who lied about his age, fucked him anyway" or something similar.

I personally wouldn't go ahead with a meet if I'd been lied to, but many fabguys will literally fuck anything😁"

Exactly, so many posts will say “he didn’t look anything like his pictures”, “he was lying about their age”, etc and then followed by “still had sex”.

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By *obert1950Man
3 weeks ago

Hockley

I was delighted some years ago when the guy I had been very friendly with and he confessed to being 82. Love oldies

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By *tuart333Man
3 weeks ago

STAFFORD

my wife lies about her age all the time

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By *oodpeckerMan
3 weeks ago

Falkirk

"Reap what we sow. Society is youth obsessed and those of us who dare to be over 40 are often just left invisible.

Not saying right or wrong, and it's annoying when people are clearly way older than they day, but such is life. "

Wait until you "dare to be over” 60! Viewing figures to my profile dropped off a cliff on reaching that milestone. Still, when people meet me in the flesh, they generally find it hard to believe I’m that old 😅😂

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By *stronomiqueMan
3 weeks ago

Preston ish

Im 63 and proud of it...I'm smashing a 73 year old fit guy at the mo and he and I love it

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By *3243Man
3 weeks ago

EDINBURGH

My stated age is correct and doesn't seem to do me any harm with meets. Age is unimportant to me - it's all about a good connection.

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By *ustPeekinMan
3 weeks ago

Alresford

There was a guy near me that I used to see once in a while. His profile said 50, but almost the first thing he said was that he was really 67. Never understood why he said he was younger, and I don’t really care about age anyway.

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By *hecknudeMan
3 weeks ago

Checkendon

I’m 52 and happy with it !

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By *ountainMan
3 weeks ago

ipswich

I had an invite from a guy,in his photo he looked about 38 and his cock pic was gorgeous and he saihe said he was 5.9 in height. I went to see him and when he abswered the door he was very short and I later found out he was 82 !

But he was one of the best fucks I've ever had. He was sooooo good.

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By *anderlingMan
3 weeks ago

South Ayrshire

Most of us have lied about our age at some time or other. In my youth I lied to get into adult cinemas, and pubs.

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By *tephanieTVbtmTV/TS
3 weeks ago

skewen

I’m 61. Impossible to change that so why bother. I get offers on here regularly and most guys I meet with come back for more.

If you are not a time waster and are going to actually turn up then there is very little point in lying. I’d be a little embarrassed but that’s me

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By *aul349Man
3 weeks ago

North of the Tyne

All bets are off even with face pictures.

Most people are using filters to the point they are completely distorting their appearance with some guys knocking at least 15 years off their true appearance.

I met a guy from here whose current face picture looks nothing like them. They have either aged 10 years in 3 months then they are definitely modifying their photos before they uploaded them

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bedford

Well I'm 75 in November, and I'm often told I look younger. That said I do tell guys that message me my pics are 5/6 years old, I just can't be bothered to do new ones but I think I'm still good for my age. And I'm often told I look sixty not wishing to be a big head just honest x gym and diet keeps me well, plus other exercise lol x

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By *arridMan
3 weeks ago

Brighton

"Well I'm 75 in November, and I'm often told I look younger. That said I do tell guys that message me my pics are 5/6 years old, I just can't be bothered to do new ones but I think I'm still good for my age. And I'm often told I look sixty not wishing to be a big head just honest x gym and diet keeps me well, plus other exercise lol x"

Some of my pics are quite old now too. Happy reminders so they stay.

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bedford

Some of my pics are quite old now too. Happy reminders so they stay. "
well I will do some new ones asap but don't think ive changed that much maybe a little more makeup in the right places and good as new lol .anyway you don't look at the mantle piece when poking the fire x

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"For me it's not ages it's body description. "

Lies germinate more lies. If they lie about one thing... they usually lie about others… And if people are silly enough to let them get away with a first level lie (as some above…)

Age (“I just shaved 5 years off because I thought I looked it…”)

Body and its condition (“Muscled”.. Tinky-Winky is not muscled… “Average”… well, average for a sea-calf…)

Orientation and partnership status (bis who have actually only been with men… poking everything in secret behind a partner’s back… “Oh I forgot to tell you I live here with my partner, and here he is…” etc)

Sexual health (“don’t ask, don’t tell… don’t do check ups”… “I only go with other bi guys so I’m safe”…)

Supposed sobriety (“It’s just hash!” … “I can never get hard when I’m on a come-down…”)

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By *olf EchoMan
3 weeks ago

My house

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By *olf EchoMan
3 weeks ago

My house

Billy Connolly in his desiderata:

If you must lie about your age, do it the other way around.

Tell people you're 97 and they'll think you look fucking great!

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By *ountainMan
3 weeks ago

ipswich

You never get men adding years to their age when contacting do you ?

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By *lumMan
3 weeks ago

Witney

Can understand if one or two years up or down but anything more is silly.

Some may not trust to put their actual date of birth

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By *eg4youMan
3 weeks ago

withywood

many guys on here. Lie about their age, some of them can get away with it, but a lot can't. I've always been truthful about my age and my interests.

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By *ouncyMan
3 weeks ago

Bromley

I'm 61 and proud of it. I get plenty of offers.

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By *ay075Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol and North Somerset area

Well, I'm 75, still get the occasional meet. It's not as if there's anything you can do about getting older anyway. It's going to happen to everyone eventually - unless they die first of course!

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bedford

I'm happy some people don't get old x

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By *cottfreeMan
3 weeks ago

Stevenage

On my profile I am 62 but really 66 look mid 50s, reason I put younger on my profile is because I am married and wanted to throw a curve ball plus name isn't really Scott lol

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"On my profile I am 62 but really 66 look mid 50s, reason I put younger on my profile is because I am married and wanted to throw a curve ball plus name isn't really Scott lol"

But the missus could be reading this thread and now you’ve gone and ruined your cunning disguise.

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By *cottfreeMan
3 weeks ago

Stevenage

"On my profile I am 62 but really 66 look mid 50s, reason I put younger on my profile is because I am married and wanted to throw a curve ball plus name isn't really Scott lol

But the missus could be reading this thread and now you’ve gone and ruined your cunning disguise. "
nah lol

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By *eneral distanceMan
3 weeks ago

warrington

Guess I will own up

I’m 21 not 51

Had a very hard paper round lol

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By *lim_sportyMan
3 weeks ago

stevenage

"A guy who says he's 40 on his profile sent me a facepic. I replied that he had a nice body but looked older and he replied that he is really 50.

Knocking a couple of years off if you look your age or younger is one thing. But this guy could pass for 60. Jeez!"

Yep don't understand. But alot of guys here who can't accommodate are probably lying to their partners about what they up to.

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By *dambi00Man
3 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"On my profile I am 62 but really 66 look mid 50s, reason I put younger on my profile is because I am married and wanted to throw a curve ball plus name isn't really Scott lol"

She might recognise the rug

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By *acingfan OP Man
3 weeks ago

Huddersfield

"A guy who says he's 40 on his profile sent me a facepic. I replied that he had a nice body but looked older and he replied that he is really 50.

Knocking a couple of years off if you look your age or younger is one thing. But this guy could pass for 60. Jeez!

Yep don't understand. But alot of guys here who can't accommodate are probably lying to their partners about what they up to.

I do not have a partner.

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By *uckitboiMan
3 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Pointless , if guys don’t want a sixty year old fair enough . Certainly don’t want the embarrassment and rejection .

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By *cunnySucker69Man
3 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I can't see the point of lying about my age, I have grey hair so it would be obvious if we met

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By *anManMan
3 weeks ago

Middlewich

Met a guy once whose profile was 48. Turns out he was 62. Was pissed off but I still fucked him.

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"Met a guy once whose profile was 48. Turns out he was 62. Was pissed off but I still fucked him. "

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And hence he will continue to lie.

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By *FellaSouthWestMan
3 weeks ago

London S W / S E

I don't understand it. You're going to meet, all being well. It's the same as editing photos.

I met a guy from here and as he sat down in the café, I said

"You didn't bring your AI along, then?"

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By *opmaster62Man
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Proud to be a dirty 68yo guy. No point in lying

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By *rtur999Man
3 weeks ago

tonypandy

"I can't see the point of lying about my age, I have grey hair so it would be obvious if we met"

I’ve had grey hair since I was 26 so that’s not really a sign of age

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"I don't understand it. You're going to meet, all being well. It's the same as editing photos.

I met a guy from here and as he sat down in the café, I said

"You didn't bring your AI along, then?"

Excellent! A man after my own heart.

Men only change their bad behaviour under certain stimuli as has been proven over the millennia.

Money: bribery or fining them.

Humiliation or ridicule.

Stopping them getting what they want.

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By *it1984Man
3 weeks ago

Sheffield

"Reap what we sow. Society is youth obsessed and those of us who dare to be over 40 are often just left invisible.

Not saying right or wrong, and it's annoying when people are clearly way older than they day, but such is life. "

I prefer older, so there’s no need for them to lie about age

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By *upertedMan
3 weeks ago

Nelson

It's cos some are so funny about age. Some state an age range of 30-35, and will have a go at you for wasting time if you're 37!

Weird.

Same with those that say I'll top younger, but bottom for older. I just don't get it.

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By *ibeariusMan
3 weeks ago

Greenock

I know at least 5 men near me who would their age back from 60 to 50 and now they are nearly 60 again

If sex is still good they shouldn’t worry

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Well I'm 77.

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By *oodpeckerMan
3 weeks ago

Falkirk

"I don't understand it. You're going to meet, all being well. It's the same as editing photos.

I met a guy from here and as he sat down in the café, I said

"You didn't bring your AI along, then?"

Excellent! A man after my own heart.

Men only change their bad behaviour under certain stimuli as has been proven over the millennia.

Money: bribery or fining them.

Humiliation or ridicule.

Stopping them getting what they want. "

"A man after my own heart" Not quite: 599-1! 😏😉

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By *eejames99Man
3 weeks ago

eastleigh

I do lie about my age

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By *acingfan OP Man
3 weeks ago

Huddersfield

"I do lie about my age"
By much?

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By *opster77Man
3 weeks ago

Wantage

I used to lie all the time when I was a teen.

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By *eg4youMan
3 weeks ago

withywood

a lot of guys do that on here, does it really bother me, but it does when they don't look the age they're saying they are. how can you be 45, but really you look 60,

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By *acingfan OP Man
3 weeks ago

Huddersfield

"I used to lie all the time when I was a teen."
That's different. As is a couple of years. I reckon the guy that started this was knocking at least 20 years off.

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