FabGuys.com forum: Ghosting

By *axibear1 OP Man
2 weeks ago

wrexham

Has anyone else experienced being ghosted.

You have a good fun meet you verify each other then your messages are not answered just ghosted.

Is this the norm these days

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By *lim_sportyMan
2 weeks ago

stevenage

It can happen. Don't let it bother you, you never know what's going on in someone else's mind. And if this is how they treat you, your better off giving them a wide berth!

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By *lasgow verse 60s guyMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

"It can happen. Don't let it bother you, you never know what's going on in someone else's mind. And if this is how they treat you, your better off giving them a wide berth!"

Agreed. Move on and be happy

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Colchester

"Has anyone else experienced being ghosted.

You have a good fun meet you verify each other then your messages are not answered just ghosted.

Is this the norm these days "

What makes you think you are entitled to another meet or continuous responses to messages?

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By *ip71Man
2 weeks ago

Darlington

Who cares just keep ploughing on so to speak

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By *hyna HutchMan
2 weeks ago

valleys

I think it's more of a fuck and go site really. You do get on with certain people, but if it don't happen, move on is best.

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By *ubguyinbriefsMan
2 weeks ago

Dublin

"Has anyone else experienced being ghosted.

You have a good fun meet you verify each other then your messages are not answered just ghosted.

Is this the norm these days

What makes you think you are entitled to another meet or continuous responses to messages?

xx"

Easy to send a message to say not.meeting again not huge effort to reply

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By *os001Man
2 weeks ago

Oxford

Yep, generally just by someone chatting me up and then going quiet.

Either they've found someone willing to do exactly what they want, when they want and lose interest or just general go quiet.

I think it's a gutless way to avoid saying no longer interested personally. I have no problem saying no thanks. 😂

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By *ustOneBearMan
2 weeks ago

Neath

I was told by a therapist

“You can’t expect people to behave the way you want them to”

I now remember this and just let it go.

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By *an.maleMan
2 weeks ago

glossop

Had a regular guy and then one day he just stopped replying. Pity as he was a damn good fucker but I’d still like to know why.

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By *hebestrimmerMan
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2 weeks ago

Sth Elmsall

correct, also its good manners, which seem to be lacking in some people these days.

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By *tmguylookingMan
2 weeks ago

Chesterfield

I had a young guy from Derby who'd drive over 1 or 2 times a week for nearly 3 years, sex was amazing, then he just stopped coming. Not heard a peep from him for a couple of years now.

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By *edsBlokeMan
2 weeks ago

Stotfold

Just accept men are strange and move on.

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By *arridMan
2 weeks ago

Brighton

"I had a young guy from Derby who'd drive over 1 or 2 times a week for nearly 3 years, sex was amazing, then he just stopped coming. Not heard a peep from him for a couple of years now. "
wouldn’t it be tragic if he’d been in a fatal car incident

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By *awihMan
2 weeks ago

Aldershot

"I had a young guy from Derby who'd drive over 1 or 2 times a week for nearly 3 years, sex was amazing, then he just stopped coming. Not heard a peep from him for a couple of years now. "

Well if he was Bi, probably met a woman and couldn’t escape.

The thing is when you lose touch with someone be that after a disagreement or a change in circumstances, the longer things are left the less chance that you will make contact again. So if he got a girlfriend then it ended he probably couldn’t bring himself to come back again.

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By *ookingaroundMan
2 weeks ago

Bristol

"I had a young guy from Derby who'd drive over 1 or 2 times a week for nearly 3 years, sex was amazing, then he just stopped coming. Not heard a peep from him for a couple of years now.

Well if he was Bi, probably met a woman and couldn’t escape.

Yep let’s blame the Bi guys. 🤣

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By *arridMan
2 weeks ago

Brighton

Haha the reason for ghosting = girlfriend

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Colchester

"correct, also its good manners, which seem to be lacking in some people these days. "

According to the owners of the site it isn't. Haven’t you read the FAQ section?

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By *lackbootzMan
2 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"I was told by a therapist

“You can’t expect people to behave the way you want them to”

I now remember this and just let it go. "

I would have shot that therapist. Not the kind of answer I was looking for.

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By *3versMan
2 weeks ago

glasgow

"Haha the reason for ghosting = girlfriend

Or crap shag, but polite enough to leave a verification "nice guy, had a nice time..."

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By *ustOneBearMan
2 weeks ago

Neath

"I was told by a therapist

“You can’t expect people to behave the way you want them to”

I now remember this and just let it go.

I would have shot that therapist. Not the kind of answer I was looking for. "

So it was you who did it!!

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By *eg4youMan
2 weeks ago

withywood

"Has anyone else experienced being ghosted.

You have a good fun meet you verify each other then your messages are not answered just ghosted.

Is this the norm these days "
this has become the norm it is really hard to find somebody who would like to have a repeat play.

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By *agic.touchMan
2 weeks ago

Poole (central)

Ghosting is just plain rude, and the argument ‘you aren’t entitled to a reply, forget it and move on’ simply normalises and passively approves it, imo. If someone takes the time and trouble to message, a brief ‘no thanks’ is hardly an excessive effort. Basic manners!

Sadly more and more people on here play ghosting games. Inevitably, finding guys genuinely up for meets is quite a challenge in what’s become a free and easy, random contact, anonymous cyber wankers paradise.

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By *ickSeekerMan
2 weeks ago

Canterbury

"Just accept men are strange and move on.

You can say that again!🤦🏽‍♂️ - after all that talk about women being difficult or strange [I wouldn't know about that] men ARE indeed strange

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