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"Mine is Helen Skelton. So stunning Defo agree there" Agree too, she's gorgeous | |||
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"Don’t you mean stop you being Bi? " I feel you’re right in many ways wrong in others. | |||
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"Mine is Helen Skelton. So stunning " You're bi. | |||
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"Mine is Helen Skelton. So stunning Defo agree there" Another bi | |||
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"Myleene klass " Bi by any chance? | |||
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"Gemma Atkinson" See the pattern? | |||
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"I like the look of some but not enough to change who I am" Agreed, we are whom we are, I love the company of women, but couldn’t be change who I am for the love of a woman. | |||
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"Quick everybody! Someone's trying to force us not to be gay against our will! Get them permanently banned from the forum this instant. It's hate speech and I'm offended and it's taking away my human rights, I absolutely cannot be offended, someone must pay! " In a hetero normative society, yep, it's offensive. | |||
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"Quick everybody! Someone's trying to force us not to be gay against our will! Get them permanently banned from the forum this instant. It's hate speech and I'm offended and it's taking away my human rights, I absolutely cannot be offended, someone must pay! In a hetero normative society, yep, it's offensive." Clearly the OP is not trying to make people straight, someone has to be pretty out of touch to think this is some effort to get rid of gays. And what's more, it's not at all offensive, and, even if it was, so what?! It's okay to be offended, it doesn't entitle anyone to reparations. | |||
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"Quick everybody! Someone's trying to force us not to be gay against our will! Get them permanently banned from the forum this instant. It's hate speech and I'm offended and it's taking away my human rights, I absolutely cannot be offended, someone must pay! In a hetero normative society, yep, it's offensive. Clearly the OP is not trying to make people straight, someone has to be pretty out of touch to think this is some effort to get rid of gays. And what's more, it's not at all offensive, and, even if it was, so what?! It's okay to be offended, it doesn't entitle anyone to reparations. " You're bi. You don't get it. Read all the replies from guys who are gay and you'll see each says the same. It couldn't be clearer! | |||
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"Quick everybody! Someone's trying to force us not to be gay against our will! Get them permanently banned from the forum this instant. It's hate speech and I'm offended and it's taking away my human rights, I absolutely cannot be offended, someone must pay! In a hetero normative society, yep, it's offensive. Clearly the OP is not trying to make people straight, someone has to be pretty out of touch to think this is some effort to get rid of gays. And what's more, it's not at all offensive, and, even if it was, so what?! It's okay to be offended, it doesn't entitle anyone to reparations. You're bi. You don't get it. Read all the replies from guys who are gay and you'll see each says the same. It couldn't be clearer!" My bad, I don't love men enough to understand. You're right that some replies say the same, but they're the responses, not the original question, which is not offensive. It's almost like some people (and I'm not suggesting just gay people) are sniffing around for things to offend themselves with. | |||
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"Quick everybody! Someone's trying to force us not to be gay against our will! Get them permanently banned from the forum this instant. It's hate speech and I'm offended and it's taking away my human rights, I absolutely cannot be offended, someone must pay! In a hetero normative society, yep, it's offensive. Clearly the OP is not trying to make people straight, someone has to be pretty out of touch to think this is some effort to get rid of gays. And what's more, it's not at all offensive, and, even if it was, so what?! It's okay to My bad, I don't love men enough to understand. You're right that some replies say the same, but they're the responses, not the original question, which is not offensive. It's almost like some people (and I'm not suggesting just gay people) are sniffing around for things to offend themselves with. " Credit to you. Hopefully us guys have given a little insight to being gay. | |||
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"Quick everybody! Someone's trying to force us not to be gay against our will! Get them permanently banned from the forum this instant. It's hate speech and I'm offended and it's taking away my human rights, I absolutely cannot be offended, someone must pay! In a hetero normative society, yep, it's offensive. Clearly the OP is not trying to make people straight, someone has to be pretty out of touch to think this is some effort to get rid of gays. And what's more, it's not at all offensive, and, even if it was, so what?! It's okay to My bad, I don't love men enough to understand. You're right that some replies say the same, but they're the responses, not the original question, which is not offensive. It's almost like some people (and I'm not suggesting just gay people) are sniffing around for things to offend themselves with. Credit to you. Hopefully us guys have given a little insight to being gay." Um...no. Unless the insight shows that it's like a special club that entitles gay people to be haughty and hyper sensitive to hypothetical questions? | |||
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"Quick everybody! Someone's trying to force us not to be gay against our will! Get them permanently banned from the forum this instant. It's hate speech and I'm offended and it's taking away my human rights, I absolutely cannot be offended, someone must pay! In a hetero normative society, yep, it's offensive. Clearly the OP is not trying to make people straight, someone has to be pretty out of touch to think this is some effort to get rid of gays. And what's more, it's not at all offensive, and, even if it was, so what?! It's okay to My bad, I don't love men enough to understand. You're right that some replies say the same, but they're the responses, not the original question, which is not offensive. It's almost like some people (and I'm not suggesting just gay people) are sniffing around for things to offend themselves with. Credit to you. Hopefully us guys have given a little insight to being gay. Um...no. Unless the insight shows that it's like a special club that entitles gay people to be haughty and hyper sensitive to hypothetical questions? " You're a lost cause. One to avoid folks. | |||
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"Quick everybody! Someone's trying to force us not to be gay against our will! Get them permanently banned from the forum this instant. It's hate speech and I'm offended and it's taking away my human rights, I absolutely cannot be offended, someone must pay! In a hetero normative society, yep, it's offensive. Clearly the OP is not trying to make people straight, someone has to be pretty out of touch to think this is some effort to get rid of gays. And what's more, it's not at all offensive, and, even if it was, so what?! It's okay to My bad, I don't love men enough to understand. You're right that some replies say the same, but they're the responses, not the original question, which is not offensive. It's almost like some people (and I'm not suggesting just gay people) are sniffing around for things to offend themselves with. Credit to you. Hopefully us guys have given a little insight to being gay. Um...no. Unless the insight shows that it's like a special club that entitles gay people to be haughty and hyper sensitive to hypothetical questions? You're a lost cause. One to avoid folks." That's fair enough. Tell me though please, what exactly is it about the question from the OP that is offensive? | |||
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"Quick everybody! Someone's trying to force us not to be gay against our will! Get them permanently banned from the forum this instant. It's hate speech and I'm offended and it's taking away my human rights, I absolutely cannot be offended, someone must pay! In a hetero normative society, yep, it's offensive. Clearly the OP is not trying to make people straight, someone has to be pretty out of touch to think this is some effort to get rid of gays. And what's more, it's not at all offensive, and, even if it was, so what?! It's okay to My bad, I don't love men enough to understand. You're right that some replies say the same, but they're the responses, not the original question, which is not offensive. It's almost like some people (and I'm not suggesting just gay people) are sniffing around for things to offend themselves with. Credit to you. Hopefully us guys have given a little insight to being gay. Um...no. Unless the insight shows that it's like a special club that entitles gay people to be haughty and hyper sensitive to hypothetical questions? You're a lost cause. One to avoid folks. That's fair enough. Tell me though please, what exactly is it about the question from the OP that is offensive? " Tongue in cheek I think No female celebrities could turn me straight I'm gay. I think a threesome with Kathy Burke and Jo Brand might turn a straight man gay | |||
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"Quick everybody! Someone's trying to force us not to be gay against our will! Get them permanently banned from the forum this instant. It's hate speech and I'm offended and it's taking away my human rights, I absolutely cannot be offended, someone must pay! In a hetero normative society, yep, it's offensive. Clearly the OP is not trying to make people straight, someone has to be pretty out of touch to think this is some effort to get rid of gays. And what's more, it's not at all offensive, and, even if it was, so what?! It's okay to My bad, I don't love men enough to understand. You're right that some replies say the same, but they're the responses, not the original question, which is not offensive. It's almost like some people (and I'm not suggesting just gay people) are sniffing around for things to offend themselves with. Credit to you. Hopefully us guys have given a little insight to being gay. Um...no. Unless the insight shows that it's like a special club that entitles gay people to be haughty and hyper sensitive to hypothetical questions? You're a lost cause. One to avoid folks. That's fair enough. Tell me though please, what exactly is it about the question from the OP that is offensive? " Read the dozen or so replies from gay guys. It's all there. Don't ever assume that us gay guys really want a women. | |||
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"Quick everybody! Someone's trying to force us not to be gay against our will! Get them permanently banned from the forum this instant. It's hate speech and I'm offended and it's taking away my human rights, I absolutely cannot be offended, someone must pay! In a hetero normative society, yep, it's offensive. Clearly the OP is not trying to make people straight, someone has to be pretty out of touch to think this is some effort to get rid of gays. And what's more, it's not at all offensive, and, even if it was, so what?! It's okay to My bad, I don't love men enough to understand. You're right that some replies say the same, but they're the responses, not the original question, which is not offensive. It's almost like some people (and I'm not suggesting just gay people) are sniffing around for things to offend themselves with. Credit to you. Hopefully us guys have given a little insight to being gay. Um...no. Unless the insight shows that it's like a special club that entitles gay people to be haughty and hyper sensitive to hypothetical questions? You're a lost cause. One to avoid folks. That's fair enough. Tell me though please, what exactly is it about the question from the OP that is offensive? Read the dozen or so replies from gay guys. It's all there. Don't ever assume that us gay guys really want a women. " I've read all the replies and there is only one which directly calls the original proposition 'stupid', no reply says anything about it being offensive. Lots of replies say nothing would turn them straight, which stands to reason, but again, no one seems to be offended. So, again, can you explain how the OPs question is offensive please? | |||
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"It would seem that Bi’s (or at least some of them) really don’t understand what being Gay really means otherwise they wouldn’t ask such stupid questions. If you are gay, no woman is going to turn you straight." Exactly. Sensible answer. | |||
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"Interestingly, the OPs question didn't mention anyone turning straight." The thread title (created by the OP) says “ Female celebrities that would stop you being gay”. If you are gay, no woman is going to stop you being gay and turn you bi or straight. Would seem that a lot of Bi people don’t understand this, and why all the woman/gf talk seems to be driving Gay men off the site. If you’re on this site you are looking for sex with men, so why do your utmost to drive many of those who might pleasure you away. And the excuse that well if the site lets me post it I will doesn’t wash. If the automated enforcement was that strict we wouldn’t be able to post most things. People need to exercise better judgment and control in line with the spirit of what the site is for man on man hookup. | |||
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"Interestingly, the OPs question didn't mention anyone turning straight. The thread title (created by the OP) says “ Female celebrities that would stop you being gay”. If you are gay, no woman is going to stop you being gay and turn you bi or straight. Would seem that a lot of Bi people don’t understand this, and why all the woman/gf talk seems to be driving Gay men off the site. If you’re on this site you are looking for sex with men, so why do your utmost to drive many of those who might pleasure you away. And the excuse that well if the site lets me post it I will doesn’t wash. If the automated enforcement was that strict we wouldn’t be able to post most things. People need to exercise better judgment and control in line with the spirit of what the site is for man on man hookup." As I said, the original question didn't mention anyone turning straight. Interesting that some of the replies seem to assume that. Yes I'm on this site looking for men, and I've never done my 'utmost' to drive anyone away. I'm just noting the Bi erasure. | |||
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"I think the question should be repositioned to "what man would turn bi-men, gay?" " That would make more sense on a Gay/Bi site  | |||
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"Interestingly, the OPs question didn't mention anyone turning straight. The thread title (created by the OP) says “ Female celebrities that would stop you being gay”. If you are gay, no woman is going to stop you being gay and turn you bi or straight. Would seem that a lot of Bi people don’t understand this, and why all the woman/gf talk seems to be driving Gay men off the site. If you’re on this site you are looking for sex with men, so why do your utmost to drive many of those who might pleasure you away. And the excuse that well if the site lets me post it I will doesn’t wash. If the automated enforcement was that strict we wouldn’t be able to post most things. People need to exercise better judgment and control in line with the spirit of what the site is for man on man hookup. As I said, the original question didn't mention anyone turning straight. Interesting that some of the replies seem to assume that. Yes I'm on this site looking for men, and I've never done my 'utmost' to drive anyone away. I'm just noting the Bi erasure." It is not a case of “Bi erasure” it is a question of the appropriateness of subjects discussing sex with women on a man on man hookup site. I could equally argue that all the “Sex with women” threads that are being posted by some (not all) Bi’s and those “claiming” to be straight (deluding themselves, if they like cock then they are Bi but can’t admit it to themselves) appears to Gay men as “Gay Erasure” which I believe has driven quite a few Gay men off the site as there seems to be a lot less on here now than there was a couple of years ago (just my observation). People need to ask themselves is what they are posting appropriate to the purpose of this site (to find men to hookup with) and if it is discussing sex with women then it is not. | |||
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"Interestingly, the OPs question didn't mention anyone turning straight. The thread title (created by the OP) says “ Female celebrities that would stop you being gay”. If you are gay, no woman is going to stop you being gay and turn you bi or straight. Would seem that a lot of Bi people don’t understand this, and why all the woman/gf talk seems to be driving Gay men off the site. If you’re on this site you are looking for sex with men, so why do your utmost to drive many of those who might pleasure you away. And the excuse that well if the site lets me post it I will doesn’t wash. If the automated enforcement was that strict we wouldn’t be able to post most things. People need to exercise better judgment and control in line with the spirit of what the site is for man on man hookup. As I said, the original question didn't mention anyone turning straight. Interesting that some of the replies seem to assume that. Yes I'm on this site looking for men, and I've never done my 'utmost' to drive anyone away. I'm just noting the Bi erasure. It is not a case of “Bi erasure” it is a question of the appropriateness of subjects discussing sex with women on a man on man hookup site. I could equally argue that all the “Sex with women” threads that are being posted by some (not all) Bi’s and those “claiming” to be straight (deluding themselves, if they like cock then they are Bi but can’t admit it to themselves) appears to Gay men as “Gay Erasure” which I believe has driven quite a few Gay men off the site as there seems to be a lot less on here now than there was a couple of years ago (just my observation). People need to ask themselves is what they are posting appropriate to the purpose of this site (to find men to hookup with) and if it is discussing sex with women then it is not." Assuming: not gay = straight is bi erasure. I'm not gay and have never been straight. I've always only ever been (and identified as) Bisexual. I was merely pointing out that 'not gay' doesn't necessarily mean someone is straight. Your rant against what others have posted is misplaced in a response to what I've contributed to this thread. | |||
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"Interestingly, the OPs question didn't mention anyone turning straight. The thread title (created by the OP) says “ Female celebrities that would stop you being gay”. If you are gay, no woman is going to stop you being gay and turn you bi or straight. Would seem that a lot of Bi people don’t understand this, and why all the woman/gf talk seems to be driving Gay men off the site. If you’re on this site you are looking for sex with men, so why do your utmost to drive many of those who might pleasure you away. And the excuse that well if the site lets me post it I will doesn’t wash. If the automated enforcement was that strict we wouldn’t be able to post most things. People need to exercise better judgment and control in line with the spirit of what the site is for man on man hookup. As I said, the original question didn't mention anyone turning straight. Interesting that some of the replies seem to assume that. Yes I'm on this site looking for men, and I've never done my 'utmost' to drive anyone away. I'm just noting the Bi erasure. It is not a case of “Bi erasure” it is a question of the appropriateness of subjects discussing sex with women on a man on man hookup site. I could equally argue that all the “Sex with women” threads that are being posted by some (not all) Bi’s and those “claiming” to be straight (deluding themselves, if they like cock then they are Bi but can’t admit it to themselves) appears to Gay men as “Gay Erasure” which I believe has driven quite a few Gay men off the site as there seems to be a lot less on here now than there was a couple of years ago (just my observation). People need to ask themselves is what they are posting appropriate to the purpose of this site (to find men to hookup with) and if it is discussing sex with women then it is not. Assuming: not gay = straight is bi erasure. I'm not gay and have never been straight. I've always only ever been (and identified as) Bisexual. I was merely pointing out that 'not gay' doesn't necessarily mean someone is straight. Your rant against what others have posted is misplaced in a response to what I've contributed to this thread." Nobody i can see has assumed that not gay = straight, so there is no bi erasure happening here. The original post specifically asked what female would stop someone being gay. As you're not gay, the question doesn't really apply to bi or straight men. Gay men have clearly stated that no woman would stop them being gay, due to thier intrinsic gayness. They're not bi so theyre not sexually motivated by women in the same way you might be. They've just pointed out that if a man can be swayed that way, then they are not gay, and are actually bi. Its the opposite of erasure - it's shining a light on bi. The original post is clumsy, but not offensive to anyone IMO. | |||
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"Interestingly, the OPs question didn't mention anyone turning straight. The thread title (created by the OP) says “ Female celebrities that would stop you being gay”. If you are gay, no woman is going to stop you being gay and turn you bi or straight. Would seem that a lot of Bi people don’t understand this, and why all the woman/gf talk seems to be driving Gay men off the site. If you’re on this site you are looking for sex with men, so why do your utmost to drive many of those who might pleasure you away. And the excuse that well if the site lets me post it I will doesn’t wash. If the automated enforcement was that strict we wouldn’t be able to post most things. People need to exercise better judgment and control in line with the spirit of what the site is for man on man hookup. As I said, the original question didn't mention anyone turning straight. Interesting that some of the replies seem to assume that. Yes I'm on this site looking for men, and I've never done my 'utmost' to drive anyone away. I'm just noting the Bi erasure. It is not a case of “Bi erasure” it is a question of the appropriateness of subjects discussing sex with women on a man on man hookup site. I could equally argue that all the “Sex with women” threads that are being posted by some (not all) Bi’s and those “claiming” to be straight (deluding themselves, if they like cock then they are Bi but can’t admit it to themselves) appears to Gay men as “Gay Erasure” which I believe has driven quite a few Gay men off the site as there seems to be a lot less on here now than there was a couple of years ago (just my observation). People need to ask themselves is what they are posting appropriate to the purpose of this site (to find men to hookup with) and if it is discussing sex with women then it is not. Assuming: not gay = straight is bi erasure. I'm not gay and have never been straight. I've always only ever been (and identified as) Bisexual. I was merely pointing out that 'not gay' doesn't necessarily mean someone is straight. Your rant against what others have posted is misplaced in a response to what I've contributed to this thread. Nobody i can see has assumed that not gay = straight, so there is no bi erasure happening here. The original post specifically asked what female would stop someone being gay. As you're not gay, the question doesn't really apply to bi or straight men. Gay men have clearly stated that no woman would stop them being gay, due to thier intrinsic gayness. They're not bi so theyre not sexually motivated by women in the same way you might be. They've just pointed out that if a man can be swayed that way, then they are not gay, and are actually bi. Its the opposite of erasure - it's shining a light on bi. The original post is clumsy, but not offensive to anyone IMO." Comments above eg "There isn't a female, celebrity or otherwise that could turn me straight." suggests that some think not being gay means straight. | |||
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"Interestingly, the OPs question didn't mention anyone turning straight. The thread title (created by the OP) says “ Female celebrities that would stop you being gay”. If you are gay, no woman is going to stop you being gay and turn you bi or straight. Would seem that a lot of Bi people don’t understand this, and why all the woman/gf talk seems to be driving Gay men off the site. If you’re on this site you are looking for sex with men, so why do your utmost to drive many of those who might pleasure you away. And the excuse that well if the site lets me post it I will doesn’t wash. If the automated enforcement was that strict we wouldn’t be able to post most things. People need to exercise better judgment and control in line with the spirit of what the site is for man on man hookup. As I said, the original question didn't mention anyone turning straight. Interesting that some of the replies seem to assume that. Yes I'm on this site looking for men, and I've never done my 'utmost' to drive anyone away. I'm just noting the Bi erasure. It is not a case of “Bi erasure” it is a question of the appropriateness of subjects discussing sex with women on a man on man hookup site. I could equally argue that all the “Sex with women” threads that are being posted by some (not all) Bi’s and those “claiming” to be straight (deluding themselves, if they like cock then they are Bi but can’t admit it to themselves) appears to Gay men as “Gay Erasure” which I believe has driven quite a few Gay men off the site as there seems to be a lot less on here now than there was a couple of years ago (just my observation). People need to ask themselves is what they are posting appropriate to the purpose of this site (to find men to hookup with) and if it is discussing sex with women then it is not. Assuming: not gay = straight is bi erasure. I'm not gay and have never been straight. I've always only ever been (and identified as) Bisexual. I was merely pointing out that 'not gay' doesn't necessarily mean someone is straight. Your rant against what others have posted is misplaced in a response to what I've contributed to this thread. Nobody i can see has assumed that not gay = straight, so there is no bi erasure happening here. The original post specifically asked what female would stop someone being gay. As you're not gay, the question doesn't really apply to bi or straight men. Gay men have clearly stated that no woman would stop them being gay, due to thier intrinsic gayness. They're not bi so theyre not sexually motivated by women in the same way you might be. They've just pointed out that if a man can be swayed that way, then they are not gay, and are actually bi. Its the opposite of erasure - it's shining a light on bi. The original post is clumsy, but not offensive to anyone IMO. Comments above eg "There isn't a female, celebrity or otherwise that could turn me straight." suggests that some think not being gay means straight." The important word there is "me". Its not suggesting anything about anyone. Its a statement of fact about the person posting it, who is more than likely gay. Due to its wording the original question is aimed at gay people. | |||
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"The important word there is "me". It’s not suggesting anything about anyone. It’s a statement of fact about the person posting it, who is more than likely gay." Actually the OP is clearly shown as TV/TS, and if you check their profile they are listed as Bi, so they clearly don’t identify as gay. To me the whole question “stop you being gay” Sounds like they think that “conversion therapy” works and you can stop being gay - which I find very offensive. | |||
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"The important word there is "me". It’s not suggesting anything about anyone. It’s a statement of fact about the person posting it, who is more than likely gay. Actually the OP is clearly shown as TV/TS, and if you check their profile they are listed as Bi, so they clearly don’t identify as gay. To me the whole question “stop you being gay” Sounds like they think that “conversion therapy” works and you can stop being gay - which I find very offensive." It doesn't matter how the OP identifies, the only thing that matters is the words they used. You're making leaps and seeing things that arent there - including your opinion that the pic of them in women's gear must mean they are a TV/TS. Their question was to gay men. It was clumsily worded, and perhaps they dont know the spectrum of sexuality, or confuses/conflates sexual acts with sexuality. It doesn't matter if they're TV, gay, straight, alien, or woman, the question remains the same. The OP didn't make the statement you mention above - that was made by a hidden profile whose picture is of a man. We have no idea what thier sexual orientation is, but its fair to assume that as they said "none" to a question about women turning gay men, that they are indeed gay. Nothing they, or the OP has suggested anyone believes in conversation therapy - goodness knows how you've made that leap. 1. The question is aimed at gay men by virtue of the way it is worded. Words matter. 2. If you're not a gay man, the question doesn't apply to you, so what you are is irrelevant to the question, or answer. 3. Answering the question as posed without acknowledging bi people does not suggest anyone is ignoring bi - it's simply that the question is not about bi people. This site is wall to wall of people who don't really know what they are and may be battling with conflicted thoughts and feelings about yhier identity so it's not surprising confusion plays out here. But the crux is words matter and leaps dont. Words are definitive by nature. Its leaps that cause offense because theyre subjective. | |||
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"The important word there is "me". It’s not suggesting anything about anyone. It’s a statement of fact about the person posting it, who is more than likely gay. Actually the OP is clearly shown as TV/TS, and if you check their profile they are listed as Bi, so they clearly don’t identify as gay. To me the whole question “stop you being gay” Sounds like they think that “conversion therapy” works and you can stop being gay - which I find very offensive." Like the other guy said, you're the one that's made the leap to conversion therapy and got yourself all offended by it. Nothing about the original question is offensive. And, even if he does think conversation therapy works (which I'm pretty sure nobody does), how does that offend you, and even if it does offend you, so what? | |||
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"The proof of the pudding being in the eating .... You just don't know until you try. Plenty of lesbian and gay men end up in both committed & casual heterosexual relationships. Plenty of straight men and women end up having gay/lesbian relationships of one kind or another. Going through different sexual phases is really very commonplace throughout a lifetime of sexual activity, too. Either possible scenario shouldn't be in the least bit offensive to anyone, regardless of their sexual identity. We're an extremely sexually fluid species .... especially when it comes to purely recreational sex. " To an extent I agree with you. We often experiment outside our comfort zone/true nature. Especially when young and curios. Alcohol or circumstances play a factor in this. I know that the first time I had sex with a woman I had consumed several drinks and allowed myself to be seduced. These days---well for a good many years now---the thought of having sex with a woman absolutely horrifies me. | |||
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"Little bit of a fun thread and people start arguing and taking it too seriously. Here's an idea if you don't like it don't read it. Do you watch programmes on the TV you don't like just so you can complain about them? Or turn over and watch something you like? It seems so many people nowadays just want to be permanently upset and unhappy. Have a laugh for fuck sake and try to enjoy yourselves l." Maybe the OP should've said "make you give up being bisexual" rather than gay because the OP and people responding with female examples are not even gay. | |||
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"Little bit of a fun thread and people start arguing and taking it too seriously. Here's an idea if you don't like it don't read it. Do you watch programmes on the TV you don't like just so you can complain about them? Or turn over and watch something you like? It seems so many people nowadays just want to be permanently upset and unhappy. Have a laugh for fuck sake and try to enjoy yourselves l. Maybe the OP should've said "make you give up being bisexual" rather than gay because the OP and people responding with female examples are not even gay. " He might have been referring to homosexual men who had never had any sexual contact with a female ... But who just happen to have a strong sexual crush on some female celebrity or other? I suppose they might be classified as gay men who are also 'Straight-Curious'? | |||
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"Gemma Atkinson See the pattern?" No need to be a dickhead! | |||
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"Mine is Helen Skelton. So stunning " Maybe a few years ago. Has now put on lots of timber. Plus , after 3 kids probably has a fanny like a ripped out fireplace. | |||
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"Mine is Helen Skelton. So stunning Maybe a few years ago. Has now put on lots of timber. Plus , after 3 kids probably has a fanny like a ripped out fireplace." Nothing wrong with natural curves on a woman ... Plus, she's probably had a vaginoplasty by now ... The fireplace faithfully reconstructed, offering a warm, snug welcome. | |||
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"Has any gay man found a female celebrity that’s stopped them being gay yet..? No…??? Should I check back in a week..? " The answer has been provided loud and clear, even if some don't like the answers provided! | |||
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"Don't know if she'd stop me thinking about cock, but Sydney Sweeney is stunning" She really does have great jeans | |||
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"None Being gay or bisexual is not a choice, you can try fool yourself but the urge for same sex play will just keep coming back.. that’s why you see so many “straight” married men delete profiles when the guilt takes hold and then makes a new one shortly after "Is being hetero a choice? Also, the urge you talk about, is that a choice too and is it limited to bi and gays? | |||
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"Has any gay man found a female celebrity that’s stopped them being gay yet..? No…??? Should I check back in a week..? The answer has been provided loud and clear, even if some don't like the answers provided! " The answer is clear and, quite reassuringly, the question still remains inoffensive, yay. | |||
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" … Is being hetero a choice? …" Gosh… it’s so unlike you to shoehorn your nature vs. nurture argument into any Forum thread… 🙄😴💀 | |||
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" … Is being hetero a choice? … Gosh… it’s so unlike you to shoehorn your nature vs. nurture argument into any Forum thread… 🙄😴💀" Go and bully someone else. | |||
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"None Being gay or bisexual is not a choice, you can try fool yourself but the urge for same sex play will just keep coming back.. that’s why you see so many “straight” married men delete profiles when the guilt takes hold and then makes a new one shortly after
Is being hetero a choice? Also, the urge you talk about, is that a choice too and is it limited to bi and gays? "Of your non here your not hetro FACT no matter how you try to fool yourself 😂 so your argument is invalid | |||
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"None Being gay or bisexual is not a choice, you can try fool yourself but the urge for same sex play will just keep coming back.. that’s why you see so many “straight” married men delete profiles when the guilt takes hold and then makes a new one shortly after
Is being hetero a choice? Also, the urge you talk about, is that a choice too and is it limited to bi and gays?
Of your non here your not hetro FACT no matter how you try to fool yourself 😂
so your argument is invalid "I'm pretty sure your post is invalid. | |||
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