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By *elfordsub OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Telford

Yes, I know, the bottoms outnumber the tops 100 to 1, but I only bottom. It says that on my profile. I don't want to fuck people, I dont want my dick sucked. Why? Firstly, a huge lack of confidence with men, second and way more important, I'm currently on medication for my mental health that's made things not work as well as they used to. I need to be extremely comfortable with the person, location, myself and more to be able to get going and keep going. But I am more than happy to suck someone else or get railed by them from whatever position they want.

Yet apparently I'm a piece of shit for that? A message I just received for what i thought was politely telling someone what my profile already states, that I only bottom

"Imposing limits on others is disgusting, unacceptable,inflexible and says alot about you, as a person. Selfish and inconsiderate are two other words. Reciprocal is the name of the game or jog on like two thirds of the individuals on here."

🙄

They blocked me so if its allowed I'll reply here: Fuck you.

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By *arrowCDTV/TS
4 weeks ago

barrow

Classic if you have nothing nice to say, dont say it

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By *aypee46Man
4 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Good for you, there are some absolute bellends on here !

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By *weddolMan
4 weeks ago

Chester

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By *weddolMan
4 weeks ago

Chester

Inconsiderate for not wanting to fuck someone.

Jeez.

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By *hisMeMan
4 weeks ago

Forfar, Angus

Sadly, some really selfish people think that others aren't allowed their own opinion or preferences.

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By *ion1505Man
4 weeks ago

Kington

Yeah, well done for avoiding that bullet of a cretin.

How the fuck do these guys think you're gonna sleep with them talking like that.

And reciprocal is not the name of the game. You play whatever fucking game you want and it's YOUR body YOUR rules.

It's about time waste of oxygen men like him fucking learn. Report him.

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By *ion1505Man
4 weeks ago

Kington

Actually, name and shame the dickhead because I'm sure a lot of us won't go near that prick with a barge pole and I'd rather never encounter him.

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By *issycumslut10TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Luton

You’ve done nothing wrong. Well done for sticking to your own desires.

It’s a shame he blocked you before you could block him. Forget him now, you deserve better.

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By *aremanMan
4 weeks ago

Hingham

Troll. Ignore. If repeated, report.

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By *anontheroadMan
4 weeks ago

working in the area next month

I am bottom, love being fucked by older men, love being rimmed but I ain’t returning the favour unless you are a smooth ass twink or tgirl. I am here to be fucked

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By *uraidhMan
4 weeks ago

Fife

@_elfordsub, here I was thinking I am the selfish one because I enjoy getting all the attention.

Just goes to show how pathetic we can be that he feels the need to slate and abuse you for being clear and upfront on your preferences.

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By *elfordsub OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Telford


"@_elfordsub, here I was thinking I am the selfish one because I enjoy getting all the attention.

Just goes to show how pathetic we can be that he feels the need to slate and abuse you for being clear and upfront on your preferences."

Maybe I'm meeting hypocritical but I do want to meet selfish tops 😄

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By *aySub99Man
4 weeks ago

Gloucester

Your rules are your rules, simple as that.. I also bottom and don't like my dick touched or played with.

To lash out over someone else's boundaries says a lot about someone.. to me it's the same as overly pushy guys, because if you can't take a "no" now, then why would I trust you if I say no in person later.

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By *uraidhMan
4 weeks ago

Fife

Lol, no I absolutely get it. It kind of is my point.

You are being open and upfront about your boundaries - that is not selfish. It is the least selfish thing to do.

I feel selfish, because whilst I will sometimes "return a favour", I am mostly about receiving the satisfaction. You are offering the sexual release without expecting the same - pretty selfless as far as I can make out.

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By *arcusUK2Man
4 weeks ago

Winchester

Each to his own. They clearly can't read, or be arsed to understand your needs. You did well to keep calm and polity tell them to read the profile.

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By *erscumdumpMan
4 weeks ago

Watford

That ain't selfish. Thats having the confidence to know and say what you want.

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By *orwdMan
4 weeks ago

Sheffield

Very powerful to c a guy hard and wanting 2 fuck you...wish I could reciprocate but don't get hard enough.

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By *ettleTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Bury St Edmunds

In my opinion, those who send a derogatory comment and then block you, so that you’re unable to respond, are cowards (keyboard warriors). Take heart in the fact that in blocking you they are also preventing themselves from being able to contact you.

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