FabGuys.com forum: Saying I Love You During A Meet

By *eedsbearman OP Man
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Have you done this, in the heat of the moment said those three little words?

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By *tngMan
3 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

No, because it's mental

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"No, because it's mental "

Lol

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By *aid2TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Swindon

It's the last thing I want to hear from a hook up.

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By *hubbyGayTraffordMan
3 weeks ago

Stretford

"Have you done this, in the heat of the moment said those three little words?"

In my much younger and naive days

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By *oodpeckerMan
3 weeks ago

Falkirk

"Have you done this, in the heat of the moment said those three little words?"

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By *bs4dMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

I had a dominant guy I met a couple times who told me to say it. It felt odd to do

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By *ohnnyangerMan
3 weeks ago

I mean hooking up has led to relationships. First few times is mental though.

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By *eedsbearman OP Man
3 weeks ago

Leeds

"No, because it's mental "

It would certainly be eye opening that's for sure

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By *20ash1234Man
3 weeks ago

carlisle

yeh, I reply it back to my gay friend, its only role play as we pretend we are a proper gay couple, he loves it.

And thats all it is, purely role play as we're playing parts for the evening.

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By *3versMan
3 weeks ago

glasgow

"yeh, I reply it back to my gay friend, its only role play as we pretend we are a proper gay couple, he loves it.

And thats all it is, purely role play as we're playing parts for the evening. "

Or is he saying it for real?

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By *ockanonamasMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Years ago when I first came out I l met this guy that I really liked. We had been speaking for months before meeting. I'd fallen in love where as I was just a shag. He wasn't impressed when I said "I Love You" and gave me a right scolding 😅

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By *awihMan
3 weeks ago

Aldershot

Not with hookups - only with people I’m close to and really care about. It is probably one of the big differences between gay men and most of the bi men on here. Gay men can invest emotional attachment with another man if there is a relationship developing.

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By *ridayguyMan
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

I love you 're honesty X

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By *penBearMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

I like to say it when they cum

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By *etstalkMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I like to say it when they cum"

😂😂😂 howling

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By *20ash1234Man
3 weeks ago

carlisle

"yeh, I reply it back to my gay friend, its only role play as we pretend we are a proper gay couple, he loves it.

And thats all it is, purely role play as we're playing parts for the evening.

Or is he saying it for real?"

I dont ask,I just play along. no point ruining anything, we live 400 miles apart, he knows nothing can happen.

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By *tar33Man
3 weeks ago

North London (outer)

I have a Croatian fuck buddy who tells me he loves me, every time we meet. I just ignore it.

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By *eedsbearman OP Man
3 weeks ago

Leeds

"I have a Croatian fuck buddy who tells me he loves me, every time we meet. I just ignore it."

In English or in Croat?

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By *hyna HutchMan
3 weeks ago

valleys

"I like to say it when they cum

😂😂😂 howling "

🤣

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By *tar33Man
3 weeks ago

North London (outer)

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By *tar33Man
3 weeks ago

North London (outer)

"I have a Croatian fuck buddy who tells me he loves me, every time we meet. I just ignore it.

In English or in Croat?"

Volim te.

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By *ordonkyMan
3 weeks ago

Blackrock READ PROFILE

A randomer said to me 'I love you' while I was fucking him. He probably meant I love your cock, or I love being a whore or I love getting pounded like this. It's all good. I knew his slut brain took over at that moment.

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By *ridayguyMan
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

Volim te (I love you)

Volim te is the simplest and most widely used way to say “I love you” in Croatian. It’s perfect for intimate moments and works well in any romantic relationship. Whether you’re whispering it to your partner or writing it in a love note, volim te carries a timeless, heartfelt meaning.

To pronounce it, say “voh-leem teh,” with a soft “v” sound. While it’s short and sweet, volim te holds deep emotional weight, making it a go-to expression for love.

Ja te volim (I love you – emphatic)

Adding ja (I) at the beginning of volim te emphasizes the speaker’s personal feelings, making ja te volim an even more passionate declaration. Use this phrase when you want to highlight your role in expressing love or when you’re declaring your feelings in a romantic or meaningful way.

For example, saying ja te volim in a heartfelt moment can underscore your commitment and make your partner feel even more special. It’s pronounced “yah teh voh-leem,” with a slight stress on ja to draw attention to the speaker.

Zaljubljen sam u tebe (I’m in love with you – said by a man)

Zaljubljen sam u tebe is a romantic phrase used by men to express that they are deeply in love. It’s a powerful way to convey the intensity of your feelings, going beyond simple affection. This phrase is perfect for moments when you want to express a deeper, more passionate connection.

The phrase translates to “I’m in love with you,” and it’s pronounced “zah-lyoo-bl-yen sahm oo teh-beh.” It carries a poetic touch and is often used in declarations of love or heartfelt conversations.

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By *andomguy321Man
3 weeks ago

reading

Bit unlikely, but not impossible.

Some people can fall in love (or think they have) at the drop of a hat.

They might be starved of affection/close physical intimacy ... Could be a little mentally unbalanced ... Might just be incurably romantic and get carried away in the moment.

While for others, the subject is strictly off limits (a fearful taboo)

I can imagine that it's more likely to occur between two women on a first 'date' than two men.

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By *uckRAWMan
3 weeks ago

leeds

"No, because it's mental "

Lmao

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By *tephen_b50Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

If you experience this it may, indeed, be truly mental.

Read "Enduring Love", by Ian McKewan. It's a novel based on a genuine mental condition. It doesn't end well ...

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By *andomguy321Man
3 weeks ago

reading

"If you experience this it may, indeed, be truly mental.

Read "Enduring Love", by Ian McKewan. It's a novel based on a genuine mental condition. It doesn't end well ...

Does it involve a hot-air balloon trip?

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By *rTee69Man
3 weeks ago

Ive had 4 guys say it to me in the past three years each guys I've met mutltiple times, socially and sexually.

Must be my personality, because its certainly not my cock!!

Is it true though? I dont know - but they all know I have a wife (three of them have met her, and two of those three she's experienced their cocks) and am in no position to be able to reciprocate.

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
2 weeks ago

Bargoed

Yes to my husband as he's getting fucked by another guy.

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By *excessMan
2 weeks ago

Sleaford

Even in a relationship don't say I love you after sex!

Say he/she's beautiful sexy and gorgeous, I love you, no!

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By *lexieMan
2 weeks ago

Just north of Southampton

"yeh, I reply it back to my gay friend, its only role play as we pretend we are a proper gay couple, he loves it.

And thats all it is, purely role play as we're playing parts for the evening. "

So that's wot t'rump & puitin are doing late at nite when they hook up!!!

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By *utual2Man
2 weeks ago

Angus

No, wouldn’t ever. However…

Met with a guy and he was friendly enough but he started talking about past meets… saying about guys would “fall in love with him” and how he even met a guy who was in a relationship with a woman but he wanted to leave her for him…

Ok… cool…

The guy talked about it, and I had a feeling he was wanting me to feel that way, to say it… this was on our first meet and I wanted to walk away but he wasn’t pushy or horrible… just a little intense.

I got a vibe that he was a bit of a “bunny boiler” type and he had a massive ego and got it into his head he was so desirable he could turn any man “gay” and want him.

Eventually it got late and I had to go home.

Woke up next day to a barrage of messages from the guy.

It went from, “hey hope you’re ok” to then more aggressive tone like, “what, you’re just ignoring me now, had your fun then!” To then, “Hope you sleep well and look forward to seeing you again,” this was spread out over 10 messages.

I was like, wtf….?!

He was decent enough, but a bit too intense and I could foresee problems coming with him. So didn’t meet up again.

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By *ndsotobedMan
2 weeks ago

Towcester

I had a guy come see me most weeks for five years. Used to take his time fucking me, knowing it drove me wild, making me very verbal.

Then I shouted I love you instead of I love your cock/fucking! He just carried on as per. On his next visit he put the condom in my hand and said I’m not wearing these any more.

My big mouth took us to the next level!

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By *airythighs61Man
2 weeks ago

North Norfolk

"Not with hookups - only with people I’m close to and really care about. It is probably one of the big differences between gay men and most of the bi men on here. Gay men can invest emotional attachment with another man if there is a relationship developing."
You're so right !!!

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By *hyna HutchMan
2 weeks ago

valleys

I would dress and make up and a guy would fuck me from behind, over a table, his wife sat opposite me.

It went on for short time and he started texting that he loved me.

I was thinking. .. bro ... wtf?

It wasn't even me though was it, (if it was true) it was my alter ego.

I think he was playing games tbh.

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By *tar33Man
2 weeks ago

North London (outer)

"Volim te (I love you)

To pronounce it, say “voh-leem teh,” with a soft “v” sound. While it’s short and sweet, volim te holds deep emotional weight, making it a go-to expression for love.

Ja te volim (I love you – emphatic)

Zaljubljen sam u tebe (I’m in love with you – said by a man)

I can see you've Googled it and done a copy & paste but he actually says it to me in English. I never respond, it's casual sex.

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By *damb00Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

Have had this said to me by two regular guys I used to meet, and that’s usually the last time I’ll meet them

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By *ice WankerMan
2 weeks ago

Lancs

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By *ootsockMan
2 weeks ago

Earl's Court, London

I wonder how many on here would agree that quite often this is said primarily to see if the co-respondent will say it back!

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By *ice WankerMan
2 weeks ago

Lancs

"I like to say it when they cum"

The answer to the topic question is - an absolute no no.

When I've come I'll probably get, good boy from the other guy

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By *ustOneBearMan
2 weeks ago

Neath

I’ve never said it to someone I wasn’t in a relationship with.

If someone said it to me in a meet and they had a partner, I’d ignore it.

It’s not a kind thing to say to someone single when you’re in a relationship. It’s playing with their emotions.

If they said it during a first meet, I’d not see them again.

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By *awihMan
2 weeks ago

Aldershot

"Volim te (I love you)

To pronounce it, say “voh-leem teh,” with a soft “v” sound. While it’s short and sweet, volim te holds deep emotional weight, making it a go-to expression for love.

Ja te volim (I love you – emphatic)

Zaljubljen sam u tebe (I’m in love with you – said by a man)

I can see you've Googled it and done a copy & paste but he actually says it to me in English. I never respond, it's casual sex."

Well two possibilities spring to mind:

1. It is a cultural difference.

2. You mean more to him than he means to you - I hope for his sake it is 1 and not 2.

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By *ildwestheroMan
2 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Certainly not if its a one-off sex meet. Probably have to be well into a relationship before I said it. Not very good with words of endearment even if I feel it.

Had sex with one young guy. It was okay but we had next to nothing in common and he was hard work when it came to conversation. Also quite a distance apart. Phoned me about a week later requesting another meet. I wasn't keen and tried to let him down gently. 'But I love you' he shouted. Total passion killer.

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By *dstefiMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull

The way I see it (YMMV) is that saying it implies a level of commitment and continuity. Something of a rarity on the gay meets scene on the evidence here (again YMMV).

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"No, because it's mental "

Yep

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By *hebestrimmerMan
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2 weeks ago

Sth Elmsall

I was seeing a french lad from leeds, we used to say it to each other all the time - and we both meant it.

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By *nver4Man
2 weeks ago

Inverness

No..its cock fun

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By *onderer7391Man
2 weeks ago

Scotland

Never

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By *oodlittlecocksucker1Man
2 weeks ago

risca

I’ve been told twice they love me, one will still message me now and ask for a meet. I just can’t. But don’t want to block him either, just haven’t got a bad heart lol.

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By *oger1234Man
2 weeks ago

Salisbury

OMG definitely don’t want that. I think if you were in a relationship that’s different but not on a meet yuk creepy.

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