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By *obbert OP   Man
2 weeks ago

In a world of my own

What would you do, if you saw a profile on here, of a guy saying her was gay, looking for meets and sex.

The guy known to you as a neighbour of many years, he was single, but never suspected you were gay?

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By *attersbyMan
2 weeks ago

cotswold

I’d mind my own business

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By *obbert OP   Man
2 weeks ago

In a world of my own


"I’d mind my own business"

You wouldn’t make contact with him?

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Do you want him to know you are gay? If yes, say hello. If not, block and leave him alone. Chances are hes already seen you on here.

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By *ishop666Man
2 weeks ago

ls19

Hoo knows might be real

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

Stay away. If you can find him he can find you if he wants to. If he hasn't he may feel you are to close to home

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By *obbert OP   Man
2 weeks ago

In a world of my own

I’ve been to the pub with him, out as a group of friends for meals and days out!

Never suspected he was gay though.

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"I’ve been to the pub with him, out as a group of friends for meals and days out!

Never suspected he was gay though."

So you can't avoid him and you can't unknow what you know. He has not come out to you, so he enjoys his privacy. Respect that publicly. On here it's a free for all, so send him a wink and see what comes back. If nothing comes back, Block, and continue to respect his privacy in public.

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By *omo2026Man
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

That's a hard one

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By *3versMan
2 weeks ago

glasgow

There's always the presumption that every gay guy wants to fuck anything that is male. He might just not fancy you - hence you having no insight into his sexuality

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By *obbert OP   Man
2 weeks ago

In a world of my own

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By *inaCD66TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Wimbledon

Well id def say 'hello there' with a 😉

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By *XciterMan
2 weeks ago

lake

I believe the folk wisdom here is don't s*** on your own doorstep?

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By *obbert OP   Man
2 weeks ago

In a world of my own


"I believe the folk wisdom here is don't s*** on your own doorstep?"
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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
2 weeks ago

Bargoed

Does no harm to view his profile, which would mean hes seen yours too.

Send a wink or a 'hello, fancy seeing you here' type of message. Just because you message doesnt mean you want to meet/shag etc

I had a similar thing via fs site. Saw a straight work mate on there, full nudes etc. I winked and he messaged back, saying 'oh you've seen my cock then?"

Then there was light hearted banter, turned out he was bi curious but had never acted on it.

This was a few years ago now, I've since left that work place but we still keep in contact, we were already friends on Facebook.

From what hes told me hes not so curious now lol and would like to meet for fun.

So message him and just go with the flow.

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By *obbert OP   Man
2 weeks ago

In a world of my own


"Does no harm to view his profile, which would mean hes seen yours too.

Send a wink or a 'hello, fancy seeing you here' type of message. Just because you message doesnt mean you want to meet/shag etc

I had a similar thing via fs site. Saw a straight work mate on there, full nudes etc. I winked and he messaged back, saying 'oh you've seen my cock then?"

Then there was light hearted banter, turned out he was bi curious but had never acted on it.

This was a few years ago now, I've since left that work place but we still keep in contact, we were already friends on Facebook.

From what hes told me hes not so curious now lol and would like to meet for fun.

So message him and just go with the flow."

Knowing him as I mentioned through social meets, I think he would be ‘comfortable’ to message on here, I’ve recognised a distinctive torso tattoo of his on, one of his profile images. The only one that may give me away if the chest skin condition I have?

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By *-skinMan
2 weeks ago

Weymouth

Send him a friendly message see what happens.

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By *-skinMan
2 weeks ago

Weymouth

Send him a friendly message see what happens.

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By *obbert OP   Man
2 weeks ago

In a world of my own

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By *ike 57Man
2 weeks ago

clonmel

be nice to him

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By *regABCMan
2 weeks ago

blackhall

Heijely has known about you for a while

Nothing will change but you may get on a lot better

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By *upertedMan
2 weeks ago

Nelson

Depends on what you wanna do with him. I live in a small village and know there are 4 other fellas on apps like this.

Met with them all at some point and 3 of them are either not interested in me, me not interested in them and one is just a bit weird I avoid.

The 4th however... Get on really well and have a lot of fun as we're compatible. Similar sense of humour. I like the younger stocky dad bod, he likes the older chunkier bear type.

He's the only one I chat to regularly.

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By *hippet 2Man
2 weeks ago

Perry barr

Had the same issue . Guy saying he wants me tonsuck.his cock and suck mine. I asked for face pic sent me one only my dads best froend 60 years . Havent messaged back too close to.home . But if old school friend prob meet

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By *ildwestheroMan
2 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Not a neighbour but a customer in a premises I used to run. Very pleasant and very good looking. Sometimes seen with a smart lady whom I assumed was his girlfriend. Then I saw him on a site [can't remember which one] Not just a facial picture but full frontal views of his gorgeous naked body. Plus he was up for most things I like and I was within his preferred age range even though I was somewhat older. Tempted but then thought it was not a good idea so left it.

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By *onkfish10Man
2 weeks ago

Shropshire

Who cares

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By *obbieng56Man
2 weeks ago

London

Get on with your life who cares

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