FabGuys.com forum: Guys get gayer as they older?

By *Xciter OP Man
2 weeks ago

lake

When I was 18 through to 35 or was a heterosexual man who never thought about having gay sex ever?

After you've had a number of kids born and your wife's libido goes, you have two options, other woman or explorer guys?

With me being and indulging in sex was forbidden... Thus, it's it's magnetic draw.

I entered it very slowly. In truth, I gained a love for transsexuals and transvestites, but as time went by, I started desiring what some people might real men!

After the death of my wife... I had some terrible relationships with women my own age who had never been married or we're just s****. One day one of them accused me of having taken advantage of her and that was the end of it for me, I thought you know what I'm going to go Gay?

I've never looked back lol, I still find woman attractive but once I look into their psyche I know it's just going to be a f****** road ride out of hell,guys don't present the same problem, it's all fun and consensual, it takes you 50 years and two children to get here!!!?

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By *MB9Man
2 weeks ago

Northampton

I've had long term relationships with women, including marriage and they've always ended in heartache. Each one drew me more towards men to the point where I'm more gay than bi now and it feels good.

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By *avid69coolMan
2 weeks ago

Minehead

I too find women attractive but only ever desire sex with men. So much less complicated

I am married but in a sexless marriage

As I get older I get kinkier but I do believe the older I get the more I desire men

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By *amie1402Man
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

I don’t have the patience now to deal with women’s emotional needs.

Far too complicated even though I still fancy women.

Men are simpler to deal with and easier to find.

Sex for its own sake without emotional strings

Few older women will go for that.

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By *ellMan
2 weeks ago

Ingham

I was straight until my early 40s. I started meeting men due to my wife not wanting sex this made me realise I prefer men and now considered myself as gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I don't know about gayer but as I got older I developed a desire to suck cock although I don't actually fancy men but I just love sucking a cock and swallowing cum. Go figure.

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By *obbie300Man
2 weeks ago

BANGOR Co Down

Agree with all the comments above ,seems mega common now

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By *ildwestheroMan
2 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Possibly. I've been gay since my teens. Had a lapse in my 20s and tried to go 'straight' but it was a disaster. Had two FWBs who had never had sex with another man until they were over 40. The one admitted he'd long had gay thought but always managed to suppress them. The other said he'd never really considered it until a gay guy answered his ad in a 'lonely hearts' column and, frustrated but a lack of women being interested, thought he'd give it a try. He was subsequently hooked on man-on-man sex.

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By *jh59Man
2 weeks ago

Hinckley

All my life I have known that I have been bi and for the 10 years or so ,I pretty much knew I was gay, then when the wife left me,I then knew it was time to live my life as a gay man,could not be happier

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By *oxymusicMan
2 weeks ago

Cowbridge

Liberace got gayer as he got older.

He demanded and paid for one of his lovers to have plastic surgery to look like a younger him.

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By *owzerMan
2 weeks ago

Chester... Where the streets have no name

The Oscar Wilde phenomenon

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By *upertedMan
2 weeks ago

Nelson

I dont think it's getting gayer...its always been there.

As you get older you lose shackles that held you back when younger. You have the perception that people are looking at you or talking about you.

You really are not that important in their lives..and I say in the most sarcastic way.

We all become a type of Victor Meldrew and take absolutely no bullshit anymore.

Its v liberating.

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By *lder_4funMan
2 weeks ago

livingston

For me, like a lot of married guys here, whilst I was having sex with her, the urges were kept in check, still thought about cock though.

When wife sex stops, the urges grow and grow, until you can't resist, and once you start having sex with guys you just cant stop.

So do you get gayer as you get older, yea, I think you do, your inner self is liberated.

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By *ustOneBearMan
2 weeks ago

Neath

I’m gay. Never had a girlfriend or touched a vagina for fun. Only for work. I’m not sure how much gayer I can get?

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By *asil 100Man
2 weeks ago

Scarboro

I agree with the earlier posts , while your still having sex with females , the urge for men is dulled , but when it stops , men are a more accessible avenue , but once you start you can’t stop !

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By *artlepool 321Man
2 weeks ago

Hartlepool

I agree

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By *ampantSlutteryMan
2 weeks ago

Worthing

Speaking for myself I think it was always there, it just took a while to get past the shame I used to feel about it and become comfortable with being bi. Now it's just a part of me.

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By *asil 100Man
2 weeks ago

Scarboro

I agree with the earlier posts , while your still having sex with females , the urge for men is dulled , but when it stops , men are a more accessible avenue , but once you start you can’t stop !

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By *DC2000Man
2 weeks ago

Coningsby

When I was younger I was with men and women, loved both. Now, I admit I much prefer sex with men.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I have had a few liaisons with guys over the years. Since I was about 18 when I was first introduced to another guys cock by a friend, then nothing for a long time but when my wife stopped being interested in sex I explored other avenues

Initially it was just women, but it also became men, less drama

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By *nver4Man
2 weeks ago

Inverness

I'm 67 and prefer sex with men..so it's a yes from me

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By *oxleyMan
2 weeks ago

Wetherby

Always had feelings - just complied. As time went on, as I was having sex at home, I would fantasise about man sex….

Once I was introduced to full man sex in my 40’s, I knew.

I find many women very attractive, but would just not go there, even if offered.

Men are twice the fun, some are just a shag, the occasional one is very, very tempting…..

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By *ildwestheroMan
2 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

I think that the 'gay spark' was always there but kept severely repressed. Even now I think it is only a small minority of previously straight men who turn gay or bi as they get older. Circumstances. Less stigma and taboo about gay sex. Sexless marriages. Easier to find like minded guys via the internet and various apps. Still don't think its as widespread as a lot of wishful thinks make out.

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By *eefandfurMan
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Guys don't get gayer as they get older they just come to terms with acceptance of their bisexuality or overcome their repressed homosexuality.

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By *reenbinMan
2 weeks ago

Portishead

I started with men, dabbled with females. Enjoy both but I know I prefer men. But I agree you get gayer and more kinky with age when you know what you like. IDK maybe its bollocks maybe its not, all I know is what I enjoy. I realise this is no help lol

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By *eardedbiblokeMan
2 weeks ago

scunthorpe

Men are just easier and cheaper 🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I can actually say this is true. My wife is going through the change and we probably go two months with out any intimacy at all. It’s to the point where the desire for me has literally gone. I’d rather a fwb nsa for my needs and I prefer a man over a woman all the time. Seems women don’t understand the mechanics of a man and keeping him interested just my opinion in my situation

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By *girl funTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Saltash

Like many others the older I have got I have gone totally gay xx

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By *jw58Man
2 weeks ago

Newport

"Like many others the older I have got I have gone totally gay xx"

Yes me too , it's the only way.

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By *wansmickMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

"When I was 18 through to 35 or was a heterosexual man who never thought about having gay sex ever?

After you've had a number of kids born and your wife's libido goes, you have two options, other woman or explorer guys?

With me being and indulging in sex was forbidden... Thus, it's it's magnetic draw.

I entered it very slowly. In truth, I gained a love for transsexuals and transvestites, but as time went by, I started desiring what some people might real men!

Passing your reality on to everyone else is not only childish but crass 🥱🥱

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By *os001Man
2 weeks ago

Oxford

Not sure how you can become 'gayer'. It's probably more likely you've become more open about what you enjoy sexually or if the wife isn't putting out, you are opting for those who will.

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By *3versMan
2 weeks ago

glasgow

I've always been flaming

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By *iBobOxonMan
2 weeks ago

Thame/Aylesbury

I had zero thoughts about sexual contact with men until I was 40.

I then started to wonder about it, and didn’t understand why.

However, I had handjob fun in a cottage soon afterwards, and really enjoyed it.

I’m 63 now, and have always been in hetero relationships since, and have also always met men for oral fun.

I have a lovely sexy lady in my life, and she loves my cock.

However, I love meeting orally bi men on here.

if you’d have told me when I was younger that I’d suck cock in the future I’d have laughed at you, and probably been offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I am much in the same position as the rest of you guys my wife went of sex so I turned to guys and found that they wanted the same thing as me sex I do prefer cock more and more now than pussy

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By *laze69Man
2 weeks ago

Coventry

I think it is more that you are always gay/bi. But as you get older you start to give less s*it about what other people think. Was for me

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By *iketotry2000Man
2 weeks ago

R C T

In my 20s living alone in London I used to visit straight porn cinemas . I enjoyed watching cocks being sucked on the films by women and they seemed to enjoy it. I became curious about what an other guys hard cock felt like..particularly being sucked. I wasn't,and still not, attracted to men in any romantic way,and it was a few years later when I was married that I eventually sucked and wanked another guys hard cock. Immediately it felt fantastic and made my cock go hard too. That was over 30 years ago and ive been a cock addict ever since. I have developed into an experienced arse fucker and now started taking it up the arse myself.

My marriage ended after an affair and I have had long and short terms relationships with women..but now im a bachelor and find casual sex with guys is easier to arrange with no romantic baggage attached.

But I still dont fancy men so don't consider myself gay. I could see me having a romance with a woman so I consider myself bi. Although all my sex since covid has been with men.

If I was in a relationship with a woman I would still want sex with men..particularly sucking cock.

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By *ountrygay01Man
2 weeks ago

Staffs Moorlands

I’d thought of experimenting with guys when I was in my teens but either repressed or ignored it and had sex with women.

Then in my late 30’s I had the chance to meet up with a guy whilst I was away with work and it was just amazing a real lightbulb moment.

Now I only go with men, I do still look at women but then find myself thinking she’s nice but she would be better with a cock.

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By *he TradieMan
2 weeks ago

Basildon

When I was 18, I used to but gay porn but I have home on to get married and have 2 amazing kids which i wouldn't change for anything. I definetly have more desire now for men and cock thank women and pussy.

Just feels more natural for some reason, I was in denial I guess.

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By *airless-slutMan
2 weeks ago

London

Who cares what you identify as and why should you care? Just do whatever you want whenever you want, as long as you're not hurting anyone's feelings.

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By *V ShazTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Haydock

Men are from Mars

Women are from venus

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By *iwiltsMan
2 weeks ago

Bristol

My first experiences were with males when I was young but then started seeing girls. Societal pressure made me try and suppress my desire for cock but id have occasional meets with guys all in secret.

As I’ve got older I realised I couldn’t suppress it and didn’t want to. I also enjoy sex with guys much more.

I’m bi, married so still hiding it but love cock more and more each day. I only watch gay porn now

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By *irtytrukkaTV/TS
2 weeks ago

barton

I too have had sex with females in the past but always felt more comfortable sleeping with men

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By *andomguy321Man
2 weeks ago

reading

Is it that formally straight men somehow become more attracted to men over the years? ... Or a case of getting tired of having to deal with women and having to pay the vagina tax to get their ends away?

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By *tekirkby44Man
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

When i turned 40 i started trying cock 60y/old now an over the last 20years cock has well over taken pussy

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By *ust4inchesMan
2 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

"When I was 18 through to 35 or was a heterosexual man who never thought about having gay sex ever?

After you've had a number of kids born and your wife's libido goes, you have two options, other woman or explorer guys?

With me being and indulging in sex was forbidden... Thus, it's it's magnetic draw.

I entered it very slowly. In truth, I gained a love for transsexuals and transvestites, but as time went by, I started desiring what some people might real men!

So basically you feel you got “gayer” as you got older. The evidence in your life points to the events being the driver rather than it being down to age.

You present no evidence that other men simply get “gayer” as they get older

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By *ollyMan
2 weeks ago

Downham market

I now love my gay side and thankfully I do fancy certain men, soft and gentle and a bit feminine. I'm so pleased that I can also have romantic relationships with men.

I love affection from men, mainly cds and trans.

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By *ate500TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Newcastle/Durham

Always loved wearing knickers and stocking however never sucked a cock until my mid fifties

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By *appylondonMan
2 weeks ago

West London

I’m now 100% bisexual and love sex with men and women. I only got into gay sex later in life, I was too chicken to try it when younger, if I had I would have been into it as much as I am now.

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By *IPMANMan
2 weeks ago

West London

Fortunately I have never had the remotest interest in women as sexual partners. I tried to fool myself between 16-18 with casual dates with girls but fortunately nothing beyond snogging. Usually on my way home I would do 2 or 3 cottages and find some prick.

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By *89RangerMan
2 weeks ago

Lincoln

I find it easier to get cock than pussy now, married guys preferred.

Not in a relationship but if I did get with a female I'd stop looking for cock.

If say we broke up I'd most likely go looking for cock again.

I only meet to perform oral, just find it so horny. I don't look for anything in return.

We're all different though but it works for me.

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By *haz1963Man
2 weeks ago

norfolk

I was straight until I broke up with girlfriend and was happy for a little while and after a time had gone bye I started to get lonely and then dissided to join fabguys and I met this wonderful gay man on here and he invited me around to his place and I went with flow and I found I enjoyed sex more with a man than any females and I am now gay and love the gay sex so much now and I am now coming upto 3 years with my man

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By *pankmybottom2Man
2 weeks ago

kettering

I used to enjoy playing with women as well as men but nowadays only look at gay porn and meet men when I can.

I used to be mainly bottom but now fancy taking top role if someone will help me explore.

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By *ustinaTV/TS
2 weeks ago

cardiff

Speaking personally, I felt totally heterosexual until my mid thirties. Yes I used to try on my mum's bras when I was in my teens but absolutely no attraction to men.

Watching women porn stars suck cock on videos was a watershed moment for me. I wasn't thinking about wishing to be the recipient of the blowjob. I wanted to be the one with cock in my mouth.

I do think however that many like me, seem to be edging strongly to the gay side of the spectrum every year that passes. I could possibly imagine being in a relationship with another man, something that was out of the question a few years ago.

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By *ubsissyforuMan
2 weeks ago

nr Bourne lincs

Ditto I now love cock and being fucked more than I fuck women not been with a woman in 5yrs

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By *amsoonMan
2 weeks ago

stornoway

Yes definitely prefer sex with men now that my wife has stopped playing with me, and only plays with her lover. See my regular man twice a week.

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By *ikkiboots73TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

I never fancied men when I was younger but it slowly started with trans and cross dressers. Now I just love cock and prefer it over women

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By *ikkiboots73TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

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By *oseph_xxxMan
2 weeks ago

London

Yes you do get gayer as you do relax and let it go, sort of embracing/accepting of yourself

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By *isexual57Man
2 weeks ago

Staffs

I completely agree from being an experimental youngster to a heterosexual adult, into a late 30s bisexual to a now fully accepting openly bi guy who now feels borderline gay x

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By *earlykickMan
2 weeks ago

Yes I believe 2 things happen. 1. Women’s sexual drive goes down forcing men to find sex elsewhere and sex with men is FAR EASIER to acquire than with a woman. 2. Men are more varied sexually allowing freedom of choice of type of sex they want and less ridicule from women on liking what they like and not having to justify it to them all the time.

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By *islut39Man
2 weeks ago

grantham

I always liked guys since I was 15 but have definitely got gayer in the last 10 years

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By *q oralistMan
2 weeks ago

Torquay

I didn't start into liking cock until into my 60's and I don't think it would have happened then but hetero sex was not available any more without the huge complications of having an affair and the implications of womens emotions

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By *lastactionheroMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

My need for gay sex is getting stronger as I get older. There are no pleasures that a women can give me that a man can't.

Men are easier to find and generally much hornier, if I wasn't married I would probably only have sex with men.

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By *hubbyGinger76Man
2 weeks ago

Halesowen

Don't get me wrong, given the chance I'd be fucking my wife daily, but there's something about a big hard cock I find so sexy watching cum explode from the tip. I can't wait to wank one, feel him pulse in my hand

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By *wanseajack2014Man
2 weeks ago

Neath

I have liked cock since I was 8 where my and a mate started touching each others cocks which progressed to us sucking each other. He was gay and still is. I am bi and have always loved cock.

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By *ucker4you80Man
2 weeks ago

Chippenham

"My need for gay sex is getting stronger as I get older. There are no pleasures that a women can give me that a man can't.

Men are easier to find and generally much hornier, if I wasn't married I would probably only have sex with men. "

Your DESIRE, not need, desire for gay sex.

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By *IPMANMan
2 weeks ago

West London

I certainly hope so, I have a few years left in me yet, and I don't give a flying fuck what anyone thinks of my behaviour.

I am well past caring about narrow minded bigots

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By *unguy2429Man
2 weeks ago

worthing

Yes very correct because we realise how much stress woman cause

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By *ixer61Man
2 weeks ago

Aycliffe

I've just went full circle, I had gay sex long before straight sex, and now its gay sex only

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By *ucker4you80Man
2 weeks ago

Chippenham

"Yes very correct because we realise how much stress woman cause"

Seriously? At least write it as "...stress some women can cause".

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By *aulBiBottomMan
2 weeks ago

nr Longbridge

"My need for gay sex is getting stronger as I get older. There are no pleasures that a women can give me that a man can't.

Men are easier to find and generally much hornier, if I wasn't married I would probably only have sex with men. "

Yes guys are a lot more basic with sex and horniness, and much more open about the fact we want to get off and less concerned about the looks of someone as long as they're clean and smell nice and have teeth in their head that aren't black etc

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By *bbillMan
2 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I've slowly developed into homosexual the older I've got. Was only interested in cock when younger but now its the whole male that does it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Read a book called Sex at Dawn. It explains everything. Men pursue sexual novelty and at 50 we’ve likely had all the new experiences with women we’ll ever have. Everything becomes a variation on a theme. So crossing the rubico. Into dabbling with men becomes the new frontier for many. Hence the excitement. I wouldn’t say we’re turning gay so much as still pushing boundaries. I don’t like labels anyway.

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By *eorgesdadMan
2 weeks ago

Nottingham

Realised I was happy to have oral sex with men at around 55 and graduated to fucking top and bottom 10 years later and now exclusively bottom for men, just wish I had given in too my desires earlier in life😩🤪🤪

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By *ucker4you80Man
2 weeks ago

Chippenham

"My need for gay sex is getting stronger as I get older. There are no pleasures that a women can give me that a man can't.

Men are easier to find and generally much hornier, if I wasn't married I would probably only have sex with men.

Nice, so men have low standards and will basically fuck anything. Most probably because women have standards.

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By *aulBiBottomMan
2 weeks ago

nr Longbridge

When you go back to the beginning of time and you look through the ages and prove that we have you have the Romans and all Jesus and the baths where gay sex was seen as normal everyday Life, it's just part of whom what we are. Women are lovely and smell nice and homemakers and for children and everything else that we can think that they are however there is a animalistic sexual desire for hard core fucking which only guys can give to guys. I do love trans which is the best of both worlds especially when very feminine and with a hard cock. I'm guess my preferences aren't everyone's however women are amazing and I do love pussy and being bisexual it's the best of both worlds but the older I get I do desire more and more gay sex it isn't just a preference I think it is a thing with age and how women age and their desire lowers and men's desires get higher, back to basics nice and complicated no strings attached sex with men and emotional relationships with women often do my heading

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By *lueEyesKinksterMan
2 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Have cross dressed since my teens. Only later years though did I start enjoying bisex. Now I’m into guys the most.

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By *earlykickMan
2 weeks ago

"My need for gay sex is getting stronger as I get older. There are no pleasures that a women can give me that a man can't.

Men are easier to find and generally much hornier, if I wasn't married I would probably only have sex with men.

Nice, so men have low standards and will basically fuck anything. Most probably because women have standards. "

😂😂😂😂 women DEFINITELY don’t have standards 😂😂😂😂

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By *ucker4you80Man
2 weeks ago

Chippenham

"When you go back to the beginning of time and you look through the ages and prove that we have you have the Romans and all Jesus and the baths where gay sex was seen as normal everyday Life, it's just part of whom what we are. Women are lovely and smell nice and homemakers and for children and everything else that we can think that they are however there is a animalistic sexual desire for hard core fucking which only guys can give to guys. I do love trans which is the best of both worlds especially when very feminine and with a hard cock. I'm guess my preferences aren't everyone's however women are amazing and I do love pussy and being bisexual it's the best of both worlds but the older I get I do desire more and more gay sex it isn't just a preference I think it is a thing with age and how women age and their desire lowers and men's desires get higher, back to basics nice and complicated no strings attached sex with men and emotional relationships with women often do my heading"

While this is all very lovely, it just isn't true, but thanks anyway.

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By *tephanie SomtimesTV/TS
2 weeks ago

South Derbyshire

I've been cock curious since my teens, absolutely fascinated with men's bulges. I hung around public toilets read stories peered through holes but never actually did anything.

I loved girls although now I realise it was more admiration than lust.

I got married and divorced and had one long term relationship after another. I did dabble a bit with men in between but nothing more than a chat in a car or a fumble.

About 10 years ago I finished with a woman I'd been seeing for about 8 years.

One afternoon we were in a motel, she was bent over the bed in her office uniform with her skirt hitched up and her panties pulled to one side.

I was fucking her thinking this is boring. I glanced in the mirror at the two of us and it dawned on me that I wanted to be her. I wanted to be in a sexy mini skirt bent over the bed getting fucked.

It had taken years and lots of failed relationships to realise my attraction to women was because I wanted to be one.

I didn't have a gender identity issue I just loved girls and women and wanted to be just like them.

I've been pussy free for over 10 years now. I still get distracted by women on occasions but just lately they seem to pick up on my sissy side and non of them have been interested.

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By *IPMANMan
2 weeks ago

West London

The link between sex and economic/financial co-dependencey needs to be secured, and then see people in their true colours

Women friends of mine are deeply envious of the fact that I can spend an afternoon in a gay venue of choice having as much sex as I can get but without consequence

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By *appylondonMan
1 week ago

West London

"Realised I was happy to have oral sex with men at around 55 and graduated to fucking top and bottom 10 years later and now exclusively bottom for men, just wish I had given in too my desires earlier in life😩🤪🤪"

Same for me. I wish I’d given in to my curiosity about gay sex when I was younger. I tried several times but always chickened out.

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By *raham999Man
1 week ago

OX11

Married for many years, but always secretly wondered about sex with guys.

But when wife lost interest suddenly I found I was drawn closer and now after many years prefer it.

Sex with another guy is so much better and on another level.

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By *lackbootzMan
1 week ago

Hayes, Middx

"I’m gay. Never had a girlfriend or touched a vagina for fun. Only for work. I’m not sure how much gayer I can get? "

*purses lips, but refrains from commenting*

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By *ralBiguy63Man
1 week ago

manchester

Yes, i started married, went Bi, now Gay

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By *nd4fun66Man
1 week ago

Milton Keynes

Agree 100%. It is not about being gay, it is about cocks, how they feel, how they react to being touched. Very happily married and want it to stay that way, but I can’t help it that I enjoy someone else’s cock in my mouth

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