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By *anmanners OP   Man
4 days ago

Uk

Why are so many guys on here so vitriolic?

Don't we have enough enemies on the outside without nastiness on this site which is also a good social site, sex or no sex.

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By *espectdueMan
4 days ago

Stratford-Upon-Avon

I guess its just human nature.

We're only human.

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

Vitriol? Like towards those who have dared question Israel's slaughter?

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By *ngel50TV/TS
4 days ago

Kinross


"Why are so many guys on here so vitriolic?

Don't we have enough enemies on the outside without nastiness on this site which is also a good social site, sex or no sex. "

Yes it's a lack of good manors and respect for one another, very sad.

But then it's all some have in life

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
4 days ago

London

I think they are all very nice people. It depends on how one sees it.

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By *tar33Man
4 days ago

North London (outer)


"Vitriol? Like towards those who have dared question Israel's slaughter?

"

Not that, I'm sure the OP was thinking more of the constant bickering across numerous threads spurred by sectarian football supporters.

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By *anmanners OP   Man
4 days ago

Uk

Invective vituperation. Exactly.

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
4 days ago

Motherwell

Good old fashioned debate, ye canny whack it ! Mx 👿

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By *ngel50TV/TS
4 days ago

Kinross


"Vitriol? Like towards those who have dared question Israel's slaughter?

Not that, I'm sure the OP was thinking more of the constant bickering across numerous threads spurred by sectarian football supporters."

This

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By *ruckedMan
4 days ago

daventry

I think we’re already primed by other social media platforms and their algorithms to be combative and aggressive. Social media sows division and thrives on identity politics.

Many aren’t able to leave that mindset behind when they come to this site.

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen


"Vitriol? Like towards those who have dared question Israel's slaughter?

Not that, I'm sure the OP was thinking more of the constant bickering across numerous threads spurred by sectarian football supporters."

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So that vitriol can be brushed aside?

In terms of sectarianism, that's quite the claim. Fortunately those of us with an actual grasp know it's a one way flow.

When it's dished out etc. Yesterday black people, bisexuals and muslims got it.

Those who made the appalling posts were challenged.

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen


"Invective vituperation. Exactly. "

...

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'You are the weakest link'

That kind of...

'invective vituperation'?

🤔

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By *anw33Man
4 days ago

liverpool

The medium of a platform such as this removes many of the nuances of actual conversation. What could be meant in an ironic, and/or self deprecatory manner reads totally differently and infuriates

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen


"Vitriol? Like towards those who have dared question Israel's slaughter?

Not that, I'm sure the OP was thinking more of the constant bickering across numerous threads spurred by sectarian football supporters.

This "

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WW's.....??

Christian names of black men?

That??

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By *ngel50TV/TS
4 days ago

Kinross

This....

T.

H.

I.

S.

Some won't understand

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen


"The medium of a platform such as this removes many of the nuances of actual conversation. What could be meant in an ironic, and/or self deprecatory manner reads totally differently and infuriates"

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Fair comment but when those who are happy to dish it out start bleating about others being vitriolic, the hypocrisy becomes staggering.

What was said yesterday was indeed the politics of division writ large. Posters are going to disagree over political issues but when people use sexual politics to be divisive, disappointment and incredulity can only follow.

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen


"This....

T.

H.

I.

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Some won't understand "

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Some of us understood perfectly...

True colours (sic) were shown.

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

Respect for others. Like the 'WW' comment..

Ah ok....

Got you...

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By *anmanners OP   Man
4 days ago

Uk


"The medium of a platform such as this removes many of the nuances of actual conversation. What could be meant in an ironic, and/or self deprecatory manner reads totally differently and infuriates"

T

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S

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By *0yguyMan
4 days ago

Cumberland


"Vitriol? Like towards those who have dared question Israel's slaughter?

"

…here we go.

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By *ip71Man
4 days ago

Darlington

One rule certain people fail to follow... Never enter a battle of witts unarmed.. There are some really stupid people and they walk among us.

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By *ngel50TV/TS
4 days ago

Kinross

Some need to grow up and stop trying to offend and start online fights.

This thread is totally against people trying to be nasty

Life is good, enjoy it

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

I've pointed out the hypocrisy. Is that unreasonable?

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By *ookingFor...Man
4 days ago

West Sussex


"Why are so many guys on here so vitriolic?

Don't we have enough enemies on the outside without nastiness on this site which is also a good social site, sex or no sex. "

I blame the testosterone.

The forum is essentially a competition in who can be right and who has the biggest willy.

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

Stop trying to offend.... People in glasshouses etc.

Again..

The WW comment....

You couldn't make it up....

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By *eefandfurMan
4 days ago

Edinburgh

Too much entrenched ideology. Too many low-information derived opinions. Rare to find anyone open to nuanced discussion or a willingness to consider views from outwith their own bubble.

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

Bitter, underachieving trolls. Social media gives them a platform to spout attention seeking garbage.

It's a paltry state of affairs for sure...

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

'Entrenched ideology'...

Ahem....

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By *tar33Man
4 days ago

North London (outer)


"Bitter, underachieving trolls. Social media gives them a platform to spout attention seeking garbage.

It's a paltry state of affairs for sure...

"

Not my argument and I'm not taking sides, but wouldn't it be good if sometimes you could take a step back and ignore stuff? Instead we're seeing perfectly good discussions being ruined by a continual barrage of the same old stuff from the same old people.

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By *tar33Man
4 days ago

North London (outer)


"Why are so many guys on here so vitriolic?

Don't we have enough enemies on the outside without nastiness on this site which is also a good social site, sex or no sex.

I blame the testosterone.

The forum is essentially a competition in who can be right and who has the biggest willy."

In fairness, there are some with small willies who enjoy being told they're wrong, and being punished and ridiculed for it.

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By *anmanners OP   Man
4 days ago

Uk


"Bitter, underachieving trolls. Social media gives them a platform to spout attention seeking garbage.

It's a paltry state of affairs for sure...

Not my argument and I'm not taking sides, but wouldn't it be good if sometimes you could take a step back and ignore stuff? Instead we're seeing perfectly good discussions being ruined by a continual barrage of the same old stuff from the same old people. "

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen


"Bitter, underachieving trolls. Social media gives them a platform to spout attention seeking garbage.

It's a paltry state of affairs for sure...

Not my argument and I'm not taking sides, but wouldn't it be good if sometimes you could take a step back and ignore stuff? Instead we're seeing perfectly good discussions being ruined by a continual barrage of the same old stuff from the same old people. "

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I'm not inclined to ignore racism, transphobia, hypocrisy re vitriol, pompous types in pseuds corner, bigots who hate Celtic, islamaphobes..

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By *tar33Man
4 days ago

North London (outer)


"Bitter, underachieving trolls. Social media gives them a platform to spout attention seeking garbage.

It's a paltry state of affairs for sure...

Not my argument and I'm not taking sides, but wouldn't it be good if sometimes you could take a step back and ignore stuff? Instead we're seeing perfectly good discussions being ruined by a continual barrage of the same old stuff from the same old people.

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I'm not inclined to ignore racism, transphobia, hypocrisy re vitriol, pompous types in pseuds corner, bigots who hate Celtic, islamaphobes.."

That isn't the point, and no one is expecting you to. It's the constant spamming and bombardment of unrelated posts that's the problem. Maybe you just can't see it when the red mist decends.

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 days ago

Llandrindod Wells

Thought I was good at acronyms but half this thread is lost on me.

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By *atangbesarCouple (MM)
4 days ago

London

All are illusions.

Many things we talked about are a way of releasing our stress.

Never take it seriously. Relax, let go and enjoy your life.

You are powerful. You can create or destroy. Think negatively and you drain your energy for nothing. Think positively and heaven is yours.

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen


"Bitter, underachieving trolls. Social media gives them a platform to spout attention seeking garbage.

It's a paltry state of affairs for sure...

Not my argument and I'm not taking sides, but wouldn't it be good if sometimes you could take a step back and ignore stuff? Instead we're seeing perfectly good discussions being ruined by a continual barrage of the same old stuff from the same old people.

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I'm not inclined to ignore racism, transphobia, hypocrisy re vitriol, pompous types in pseuds corner, bigots who hate Celtic, islamaphobes..

That isn't the point, and no one is expecting you to. It's the constant spamming and bombardment of unrelated posts that's the problem. Maybe you just can't see it when the red mist decends."

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You've made quite an assumption there. There is no red mist....

You are overlooking the obvious.

Poster a. says something daft

poster b. responds.

That doesn't mean to say poster b. is flinging cups off the wall.

If people can't handle the heat, they are under no obligation.

It's the breathtaking hypocrisy that leaves a taste. Yet it's brief and easily laughed off. The lack of integrity becomes comedic.

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By *ammy57Man
4 days ago

Stevenage

Given how rare it is that someone wants to meet me, and has somewhere to go....

And we are free at the same time...

and I want to meet them,,, (!!!)

A bit of chat is actually the reason I use fab more than other sites!

The politics is a nice distraction from pic hunters , cyber fantasists, and ONS merchants.

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By *eefandfurMan
4 days ago

Edinburgh


"Bitter, underachieving trolls. Social media gives them a platform to spout attention seeking garbage.

It's a paltry state of affairs for sure...

Not my argument and I'm not taking sides, but wouldn't it be good if sometimes you could take a step back and ignore stuff? Instead we're seeing perfectly good discussions being ruined by a continual barrage of the same old stuff from the same old people.

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I'm not inclined to ignore racism, transphobia, hypocrisy re vitriol, pompous types in pseuds corner, bigots who hate Celtic, islamaphobes.."

Do you ever engage in any nuanced discussion of immigration, trans ideology, the conflict in the middle East or the societal implications of religious beliefs without just condemning people to pejorative labels.

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen


"Bitter, underachieving trolls. Social media gives them a platform to spout attention seeking garbage.

It's a paltry state of affairs for sure...

Not my argument and I'm not taking sides, but wouldn't it be good if sometimes you could take a step back and ignore stuff? Instead we're seeing perfectly good discussions being ruined by a continual barrage of the same old stuff from the same old people.

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I'm not inclined to ignore racism, transphobia, hypocrisy re vitriol, pompous types in pseuds corner, bigots who hate Celtic, islamaphobes..

Do you ever engage in any nuanced discussion of immigration, trans ideology, the conflict in the middle East or the societal implications of religious beliefs without just condemning people to pejorative labels. "

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I have no real desire to discuss trans ideology. Sexual politics always leads to pseudo-intellectualism and an unfettered divisiveness.

Do you partake in nuanced discussion any more than anyone else? For that to occur, others have to be prepared to engage in nuance.

Frankly, I'm thinking 'perceived slight syndrome'...

And in terms of labels and being straightforward,the obvious contrast being those who hide behind jokes to denigrate a particular group.

Whilst ignoring the obvious fact that many in said group lack confidence.

Yes, I'm thinking cd's..

Pseuds Corner...

Where the knees move..

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By *tephen_b50Man
4 days ago

Bristol


"Thought I was good at acronyms but half this thread is lost on me."

No idea what "The WW post" is

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

He made a reference to

'Willywoofters'

Which was obviously toe-curling.

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By *eefandfurMan
4 days ago

Edinburgh

Nuance: "Middle East Conflict"

Entrenched: "Israel's Slaughter"

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

Straws will be clutched. How on earth do those words equate to ideology?

Another classic!

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By *lackbootzMan
4 days ago

Hayes, Middx


"

… Do you ever engage in any nuanced discussion of immigration, trans ideology, the conflict in the middle East or the societal implications of religious beliefs without just condemning people to pejorative labels. ...

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...l have no real desire to discuss trans ideology. Sexual politics always leads to pseudo-intellectualism and an unfettered divisiveness.

Do you partake in nuanced discussion any more than anyone else? For that to occur, others have to be prepared to engage in nuance.

Frankly, I'm thinking 'perceived slight syndrome'...

And in terms of labels and being straightforward,the obvious contrast being those who hide behind jokes to denigrate a particular group.

Whilst ignoring the obvious fact that many in said group lack confidence.

Yes, I'm thinking cd's..

Pseuds Corner...

Where the knees move.. "

‘NO’ would have been a simpler answer.

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By *3versMan
4 days ago

glasgow

It's the internet, there's faceless profiles with little verification (other than sexual) - it's going to be a breeding ground for keyboard warriors.

There's a whole load of talk about being a more inclusive society so surely the KWs shpuld be part of our little community

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen


"Nuance: "Middle East Conflict"

Entrenched: "Israel's Slaughter""

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Nuance or slightly extended soundbites that hardly amounts to obvious expertise over several subjects....

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

Re 'No', tears of laughter. Arch-sneerer sneering again...

*Self-awareness....

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 days ago

Llandrindod Wells

And breathe

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

Oh look, a horses head..

🤣🤡😂

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen


"And breathe"

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The sun is shining,I'm sitting in the garden, birds are blethering..

It's all good in the hood 🥳

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 days ago

Llandrindod Wells


"And breathe

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The sun is shining,I'm sitting in the garden, birds are blethering..

It's all good in the hood 🥳"

Glad to hear it but you do sound a little agitated this morning

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By *haneportsMan
4 days ago

portsmouth

Arguing with an idiot is like playing chess with a pigeon.

You may win the chess game.

But the pigeon will still strut around the board, shit on it & knock pieces over.

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
4 days ago

Motherwell

The forum is a broad church, pardon the pun, many views and many counter views are debated, it gets heated because that is human nature.

When the world is as fucked up as it is now with no real solutions forthcoming on how to fix it and it would appear to a casual observer looking at the USA, Russia, Ukraine, the various failed foreign policies and the resultant migration of the people affected by those failures that the bad guys won. Their supporters are all over the forums and the 'hard of thinking' and the attention seekers and the fantasists. One poster has a vitriolic attitude towards a very successful Scottish football team and has been banned many times for overstepping the mark in terms of fab rules. A microcosm of society or a reflection of an embittered and previously persecuted community, I don't know, but if we have freedom of speech then they should be able to post whatever they want and expect their POV and posts to be challenged.

Mx

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen


"And breathe

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The sun is shining,I'm sitting in the garden, birds are blethering..

It's all good in the hood 🥳

Glad to hear it but you do sound a little agitated this morning"

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There is zero agitation. There never is my friend. Those who know me will know this to be the case..

And that is the god's honest truth.

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By *ookingFor...Man
4 days ago

West Sussex

'Main Character Syndrome'.

So many on here have it.

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By *tephen_b50Man
4 days ago

Bristol

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

On the money M... We pride ourselves on not caring about religion or what team our players supported growing up. We have extended a warm welcome to decent Rangers supporters.

We have no truck whatsoever for sectarianism. As I've said before one of the best pals I've ever had was Rangers daft. His home was a shrine. Did we ever talk religion or

politics?

Never. I miss him. He would be furious re the takeover..

There would have been bantz over the penalties..

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By *tephen_b50Man
4 days ago

Bristol


"He made a reference to

'Willywoofters'

Which was obviously toe-curling."

Ohhh ...

Thank you.

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen


"'Main Character Syndrome'.

So many on here have it."

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Everyone is flawed. Deliberate trolling and racism are however issues that seem more relevant in terms of promoting decency.

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By *ookingFor...Man
4 days ago

West Sussex

Why, dear Richard, do you assume everything I write is aimed at you?

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

You've just assumed. I can assure you I don't. When it's obvious that you are having a pop, I'm going to notice though...

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
4 days ago

Motherwell


"On the money M... We pride ourselves on not caring about religion or what team our players supported growing up. We have extended a warm welcome to decent Rangers supporters.

We have no truck whatsoever for sectarianism. As I've said before one of the best pals I've ever had was Rangers daft. His home was a shrine. Did we ever talk religion or

politics?

Never. I miss him. He would be furious re the takeover..

There would have been bantz over the penalties..

"

Totally agree with you huni. I want to beat them, but I don't hate them and I would love to see both teams in the EPL , then we could put all of the doubts to rest once and for all, in 5 years of that revenue and player quality we could challenge for the EPL title, a tgurl can dream. Mx

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By *hades 11Man
4 days ago

ireland

Plenty of 'sneaking regarders' for the auld racists on here it seems. Good man Richey...keep up the good work.

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
4 days ago

Motherwell


"Plenty of 'sneaking regarders' for the auld racists on here it seems. Good man Richey...keep up the good work."

❤️Mx

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By *CMajorMan
4 days ago

Lichfield


"I've pointed out the hypocrisy. Is that unreasonable?

"

No it's not. You're quite right.

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By *ip71Man
4 days ago

Darlington


"You've just assumed. I can assure you I don't. When it's obvious that you are having a pop, I'm going to notice though...

"

Wind your neck in lad your sending my glass eye to sleep

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By *lexieMan
4 days ago

Just north of Southampton


"This....

T.

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Some won't understand "

ffs... we have just about every kinda show on here, now we have a quiz show; jog on!

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen


"Plenty of 'sneaking regarders' for the auld racists on here it seems. Good man Richey...keep up the good work."

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Thank you Shadesy.

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

Thanks M and M as well ..

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By *laireKTV/TS
4 days ago

Manchester

Life includes racists, authoritarians, biased types etc.

So why shouldn't a forum?

It's not my job or yours to be judge and jury.

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By *ookingFor...Man
4 days ago

West Sussex


"You've just assumed. I can assure you I don't. When it's obvious that you are having a pop, I'm going to notice though...

"

You're not in my movie.

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
4 days ago

Motherwell


"Life includes racists, authoritarians, biased types etc.

So why shouldn't a forum?

It's not my job or yours to be judge and jury.

"

Freedom of speech innit. ..

Mx 😜

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By *oodpeckerMan
4 days ago

Falkirk

Well, isn't this thread 'fun?' Red flags and bulls spring to mind… and hypocrisy, stupidity, (misplaced) anger, frustration, blinkers, cliques, contemptuous indignation, ...

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
4 days ago

Motherwell


"Well, isn't this thread 'fun?' Red flags and bulls spring to mind… and hypocrisy, stupidity, (misplaced) anger, frustration, blinkers, cliques, contemptuous indignation, ... "

Ah the rich tapestry of life in all its many guises, foibles and prejudices. Freedom of speech de la arte . So to speak.( Ooops another pun)

Mx 😜

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By *laireKTV/TS
4 days ago

Manchester

I'm not bothered what opinion someone holds.

We are still entitled to that, I think, though you can not take it for granted the way things are going.

I do find tedious the forum policing at times. Eg I don't care if someone provides evidence to support something or not. It's not a court room.

It's just bants

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By *ookingFor...Man
4 days ago

West Sussex

Middle class liberals... most of them on here wouldn't recognise prejudice if it bit them on their smug, privileged white arses.

They are part of the problem.

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen


"Life includes racists, authoritarians, biased types etc.

So why shouldn't a forum?

It's not my job or yours to be judge and jury.

"

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A forum includes responding to points made otherwise it would be a succession of pointless monologues.

You say it's not part of the gig, to be judge and jury yet you literally have just said that judgement towards the aforementioned iffy types shouldn't occur.

Which is clearly judgemental?

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen


"Well, isn't this thread 'fun?' Red flags and bulls spring to mind… and hypocrisy, stupidity, (misplaced) anger, frustration, blinkers, cliques, contemptuous indignation, ... "

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Paragons Of Virtue?

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
4 days ago

Motherwell


"Middle class liberals... most of them on here wouldn't recognise prejudice if it bit them on their smug, privileged white arses.

They are part of the problem. "

Or maybe they choose to be insulated from it , their political party is in ruins, the moderates among them can only see their old fashioned values being taken out by more extremist values and the further dumbing down of what previously was a fertile group of people sympathetic to a moderate world. Many tin hats have been worn out and there doesn't seem to be a moderate alternative. Mx

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By *laireKTV/TS
4 days ago

Manchester


"Life includes racists, authoritarians, biased types etc.

So why shouldn't a forum?

It's not my job or yours to be judge and jury.

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A forum includes responding to points made otherwise it would be a succession of pointless monologues.

You say it's not part of the gig, to be judge and jury yet you literally have just said that judgement towards the aforementioned iffy types shouldn't occur.

Which is clearly judgemental?"

Now if it was "literally" it would be the exact words ..

Which it isn't.

I try and be laissez faire, and fail, but I wouldn't be for banning someone.

Even Starmers love child

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By *ichey6Man
4 days ago

aberdeen

'Practice what you preach'?

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By *ranford cruiserTV/TS
4 days ago

Heathrow


"I think we’re already primed by other social media platforms and their algorithms to be combative and aggressive. Social media sows division and thrives on identity politics.

Many aren’t able to leave that mindset behind when they come to this site.

To many believe the media they learnt nothing from covid

"

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By *ngel50TV/TS
4 days ago

Kinross

Just searched the time-line of some, and it shows "some" have been on ALL Morning with imaginary friends

There is life outside... some should try and enjoy 🤣😂🤣

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By *ookingFor...Man
4 days ago

West Sussex


"'Practice what you preach'?"

Shouldn't that be 'practise'?

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By *hubsloverMan
4 days ago

East/west sussex


"Bitter, underachieving trolls. Social media gives them a platform to spout attention seeking garbage.

It's a paltry state of affairs for sure...

Not my argument and I'm not taking sides, but wouldn't it be good if sometimes you could take a step back and ignore stuff? Instead we're seeing perfectly good discussions being ruined by a continual barrage of the same old stuff from the same old people.

....

I'm not inclined to ignore racism, transphobia, hypocrisy re vitriol, pompous types in pseuds corner, bigots who hate Celtic, islamaphobes.."

I do not allow any religion to intrude upon my personal space; it matters not which one it is. I would much rather indulge in the live performances of David Copperfield. Islam, in particular, is a faith that, once you are within its grasp, does not permit you to leave. This is an undeniable truth.

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By *anmanners OP   Man
4 days ago

Uk

[Removed by poster at 02/06/25 11:53:51]

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By *ianca del MonteTV/TS
4 days ago

Somewhere nr Reading

The irony of many of the answers on this thread is astounding

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By *hubsloverMan
4 days ago

East/west sussex

Indeed, it is a brilliant site , and a remarkable feature is the forum it offers, allowing us to engage in discussions on various topics. Disagreement is an essential aspect of dialogue. Just think how dull this forum would be if we all shared the same opinions; you might never have visited it at all.

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By *os001Man
4 days ago

Oxford


"

I blame the testosterone.

The forum is essentially a competition in who can be right and who has the biggest willy."

Those aren't the big willies I want to be enjoying.

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 days ago

Llandrindod Wells

Seems that a lot on here take themselves and others too seriously. Too quick to wave to race card or shout transphobic, Islamophobic, dinghy-phobic, Christianophobic, etc. etc ad infinitum. Everyone has a right to express their view just as long as it doesn't get too personal and incite riots.

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By *ottom_only_CDTV/TS
4 days ago

Lenzie

Tears for Fears said it best when they said " shout, shout let it all out".

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
4 days ago

Motherwell

Or "I predict a riot".

"White riot"

"Riotous femme".

Just a debating forum with no ill will to anyone.

I am in a funny mood today, because my bf is back in town.

Tra la la la.

Mx 😜

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By *tar33Man
4 days ago

North London (outer)


"Tears for Fears said it best when they said " shout, shout let it all out"."

Reeves and Mortimer said it better - 'He wouldn't let it lie'.

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By *oodpeckerMan
4 days ago

Falkirk


"Well, isn't this thread 'fun?' Red flags and bulls spring to mind… and hypocrisy, stupidity, (misplaced) anger, frustration, blinkers, cliques, contemptuous indignation, ...

....

Paragons Of Virtue?"

I didn't want to take up TOO much space with a longer list, …

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By *evinmanMan
4 days ago

Dublin

Yes but the amount of CD/ Trans whatever on this site is extremely irritating- esp when they doninate- this is a site for gay MEN who are looking for sex with MEN

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By *oodpeckerMan
4 days ago

Falkirk


"Just searched the time-line of some, and it shows "some" have been on ALL Morning with imaginary friends

There is life outside... some should try and enjoy 🤣😂🤣"

Do you have a tool that others don't? 🤣😂🤣😳🤔

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By *instrideMan
4 days ago

Woodbridge

Sexual frustration, gets people angry.

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By *ianca del MonteTV/TS
4 days ago

Somewhere nr Reading


"Yes but the amount of CD/ Trans whatever on this site is extremely irritating- esp when they doninate- this is a site for gay MEN who are looking for sex with MEN"

Some of those MEN wear clothing you would no doubt not consider manly enough. But nonetheless they are MEN.

I think the woes of the forum are more due to some of the twats that lurk there than the fact that some MEN here have a penchant for killer heels and a bit of lippy.

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By *angtMan
4 days ago

Wednesfield /Wolverhampton

It’s a shame people get so worked up/irritated/anger/pissed off, call it what you will on this forum.

Men are a minority of people in this country. Gays men are a minority of men. Fab guys users are a minority of gays. Forum users are a minority of fab guys users.

Hence you are in a minority of a minority of a minority of a minority.

So why is it so important to win a debate and be proved right here? It’s not going to change or affect anyones opinion at all.

Just relax and enjoy, it’s more fun.

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By *hubsloverMan
4 days ago

East/west sussex

I believe that the admin ought to impose a 3 days ban on all of you until you come to understand the benefits of the forum.

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By *hillWithBenefitsMan
4 days ago

Ask

Maybe because people are stimulated by pictures and videos and cyber sex, and the genuine people get messed around, and they become vitriolic, as you like to call it. This site is a wank site, not a sex site.

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By *ugh 100TV/TS
4 days ago

Taunton

Have to say I’m only here for one thing and keep my opinions to myself but occasionally if I’m in a playful mood I can’t resist baiting someone until either I get bored or they’re heads explode and block me

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By *ianca del MonteTV/TS
4 days ago

Somewhere nr Reading


"Have to say I’m only here for one thing and keep my opinions to myself but occasionally if I’m in a playful mood I can’t resist baiting someone until either I get bored or they’re heads explode and block me "

This

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By *dambi00Man
4 days ago

London


"Yes but the amount of CD/ Trans whatever on this site is extremely irritating- esp when they doninate- this is a site for gay MEN who are looking for sex with MEN"

Oh yeah, and majority look terrible

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By *ianca del MonteTV/TS
4 days ago

Somewhere nr Reading


"Yes but the amount of CD/ Trans whatever on this site is extremely irritating- esp when they doninate- this is a site for gay MEN who are looking for sex with MEN

Oh yeah, and majority look terrible "

Worse than the procession of gaping arses and mediocre penises displayed over toilet seats?

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By *essa_MTV/TS
4 days ago

Luton


"Yes but the amount of CD/ Trans whatever on this site is extremely irritating- esp when they doninate- this is a site for gay MEN who are looking for sex with MEN

Oh yeah, and majority look terrible

Worse than the procession of gaping arses and mediocre penises displayed over toilet seats?"

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By *dambi00Man
4 days ago

London


"Yes but the amount of CD/ Trans whatever on this site is extremely irritating- esp when they doninate- this is a site for gay MEN who are looking for sex with MEN

Oh yeah, and majority look terrible

Worse than the procession of gaping arses and mediocre penises displayed over toilet seats?"

Yep

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By *ianca del MonteTV/TS
4 days ago

Somewhere nr Reading


"Yes but the amount of CD/ Trans whatever on this site is extremely irritating- esp when they doninate- this is a site for gay MEN who are looking for sex with MEN

Oh yeah, and majority look terrible

Worse than the procession of gaping arses and mediocre penises displayed over toilet seats?

Yep"

That's me told

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By *amie1402Man
4 days ago

Merseyside


"Yes but the amount of CD/ Trans whatever on this site is extremely irritating- esp when they doninate- this is a site for gay MEN who are looking for sex with MEN

Oh yeah, and majority look terrible

Worse than the procession of gaping arses and mediocre penises displayed over toilet seats?

Yep

That's me told"

Take no notice

You look miles more attractive than the large number of obese tiny cocked types on here who think they are the bees knees, and who are only here because their wives won’t have sex with them any more

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By *hillWithBenefitsMan
4 days ago

Ask


"Yes but the amount of CD/ Trans whatever on this site is extremely irritating- esp when they doninate- this is a site for gay MEN who are looking for sex with MEN "
Totally agree with that.

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
4 days ago

Motherwell


"It’s a shame people get so worked up/irritated/anger/pissed off, call it what you will on this forum.

Men are a minority of people in this country. Gays men are a minority of men. Fab guys users are a minority of gays. Forum users are a minority of fab guys users.

Hence you are in a minority of a minority of a minority of a minority.

So why is it so important to win a debate and be proved right here? It’s not going to change or affect anyones opinion at all.

Just relax and enjoy, it’s more fun."

X= -b +/- sqr root of b squared - 4a / 2c I believe is the equation you are looking for to describe the fab guys minority Zangt, however in today's day and age X may only be a representative of other subclasses yet to be fully defined and may be challenged in a court of law. Tra la la la.Mx 😜

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
4 days ago

Motherwell


"Yes but the amount of CD/ Trans whatever on this site is extremely irritating- esp when they doninate- this is a site for gay MEN who are looking for sex with MEN Totally agree with that."

Down with this sort of thing, grown men frumping about in bloody frocks, next thing you know they will want the vote, ah the Bantz. Mx 😜

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By *hillWithBenefitsMan
4 days ago

Ask

And when they're confronted, they get extremely bitchy... Get ready for the fireworks

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By *ianca del MonteTV/TS
4 days ago

Somewhere nr Reading


"And when they're confronted, they get extremely bitchy... Get ready for the fireworks"

What, ALL of them?

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By *ianca del MonteTV/TS
4 days ago

Somewhere nr Reading


"And when they're confronted, they get extremely bitchy... Get ready for the fireworks

What, ALL of them?"

They sound like an insidious bunch

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By *luggableMan
4 days ago

Wymondham

Some people play nicely, some don't. This is true of all the forums I've been on. The answer is to be nice to the nice ones and imaginatively nasty to the nasty ones.

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By *hris4tvMan
4 days ago

liverpool


"Why are so many guys on here so vitriolic?

Don't we have enough enemies on the outside without nastiness on this site which is also a good social site, sex or no sex. "

Its generally the fabademics...

They love an echo chamber and congregate in 'gaggles' within forums to drown out and shout nazi at people generally...

Tom: I was going to post...but...

Rick: but what Tom...

Tom: there was a gaggle of fabademics echoing each other so it seemed pointless.

Rick: they ruin it for everyone Tom. Fucking wet wipes.

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By *anmanners OP   Man
4 days ago

Uk


"Why are so many guys on here so vitriolic?

Don't we have enough enemies on the outside without nastiness on this site which is also a good social site, sex or no sex.

Its generally the fabademics...

They love an echo chamber and congregate in 'gaggles' within forums to drown out and shout nazi at people generally...

Tom: I was going to post...but...

Rick: but what Tom...

Tom: there was a gaggle of fabademics echoing each other so it seemed pointless.

Rick: they ruin it for everyone Tom. Fucking wet wipes.

"

❤️

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By *ugh 100TV/TS
4 days ago

Taunton

If you don’t like then don’t look and personally I don’t care but for a gay app for gay men there seems to be a lot looking

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By *oodpeckerMan
4 days ago

Falkirk

[Removed by poster at 02/06/25 21:57:17]

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By *oodpeckerMan
4 days ago

Falkirk

Is it my imagination, or do some of the 'red flag holders' continually/regularly change their profile names, in an attempt to fly under the radar (or, whatever) so to speak?

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By *asturbate youMan
4 days ago

Walton On Thames

I'm only here for fun and to meet like-minded people, haven't got time for any unpleasantries

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By *ichey6Man
3 days ago

aberdeen


"Why are so many guys on here so vitriolic?

Don't we have enough enemies on the outside without nastiness on this site which is also a good social site, sex or no sex.

Its generally the fabademics...

They love an echo chamber and congregate in 'gaggles' within forums to drown out and shout nazi at people generally...

Tom: I was going to post...but...

Rick: but what Tom...

Tom: there was a gaggle of fabademics echoing each other so it seemed pointless.

Rick: they ruin it for everyone Tom. Fucking wet wipes.

"

...

...

...

Individuals post though. Any gaggle exists only in the head of individuals. It's comedy gold nonetheless to read the vitriol from the safety of the screen. Are you so vociferous face to face with people you don't like?

People who dish it out complaining about others being hurty.

A stonewall classic thread. People who get personal not happy that others have strong opinions.

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By *owzerMan
3 days ago

Chester.....


"...There is life outside... some should try and enjoy 🤣😂🤣

Do you have a tool that others don't? 🤣😂🤣😳🤔"

My uncle has a magic wardrobe. Just need to get Billie Piper out of it

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By *ichey6Man
3 days ago

aberdeen

I'm pleased she's no longer Foxy's lady.

I hope she got a few quid from the divorce.

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By *ngel50TV/TS
3 days ago

Kinross

Some are easily pleased

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By *ighway expressMan
3 days ago

Campbeltown

Jesus H Christ....what a lot of holier than thou pearl clutchers....this forum is no different to any other forum I've ever been a member of....considerably more polite in places than some...if you want to meet the Real Horrors go park your dainty little arses on X....

Shocker....People Will Hold Different Opinions Newsflash....

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By *ichey6Man
3 days ago

aberdeen

👍👍

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By *ngel50TV/TS
3 days ago

Kinross

I will pray for you all tonight xx

God bless you all xx

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By *ecretbottom42Man
3 days ago

Herne bay

I usually kill their moodyness with kindness. It infuriates them until they either block me or completely change their whole attitude towards me lol x

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By *jgiver48Man
22 hours ago

newport

I've never known a site so bitchy.

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By *avewill1Man
22 hours ago

wilts


"I guess its just human nature.

We're only human. "

. Fabguy reflects the real world as it is today. No big deal. Old saying, sticks and stone can break my bones. Names never hurt me.😁

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By *IPMANMan
22 hours ago

LONDON

And I just thought it was a site for gays seeking gays....what a bummer !!!

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By *ickeMan
21 hours ago

watford


"Why are so many guys on here so vitriolic?

Don't we have enough enemies on the outside without nastiness on this site which is also a good social site, sex or no sex. "

It’s called frustration sex and with life take it out on here .

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By *avewill1Man
15 hours ago

wilts


"And I just thought it was a site for gays seeking gays....what a bummer !!!"
Not according to the owners. it's not just for gays

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