FabGuys.com forum: Sexless marriage

By *ranger OP Man
2 weeks ago

merseyside

I am sick of being in a sexless marriage, anyone else in same position

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By *eandevonMan
2 weeks ago

exeter

Mines pretty poor also. Tried chatting about it but isn’t easy. Only in my early 40s aswell. Oh the joys

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford

Its so common you'd think it was a global female conspiracy to turn men bisexual.

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By *ost and lust fuelledMan
2 weeks ago

st.helens

"I am sick of being in a sexless marriage, anyone else in same position

My wife lost interest in sex a fair few years ago sadly but it sort of encouraged me to seek men more confidently than in my youth if that makes sense ?

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By *issychrissyMan
2 weeks ago

Greenhithe

"I am sick of being in a sexless marriage, anyone else in same position

This is much more widely known as more men are exploring their bisexuality and speaking about it

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By *nd6969Man
2 weeks ago

Solihull

Yep no sex with for 2 half years find it frustrating but that said don’t want to leave apart from no sex everything else is great apart from I do like cock lol

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By *Aguy2022Man
2 weeks ago

Littlehampton

In the same boat. Tried doing things she likes, treating her right etc and to actually get anything from her on the rare occasions, the work and effort i have put into it to get to this point, not worth it.

Part of the reason why we are on here, is the lack of sex from our partners, is it not??

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By *ig3Man
2 weeks ago

Maldon

Haven't had sex with her for 4 years that's why I'm on here

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By *hil96Man
2 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Yep. No sex for 2 years, so as above on here. Trouble is, I now prefer sex with men, so do t even try with her. X

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By *wanseajack2014Man
2 weeks ago

Neath

I guess I am lucky. Me and my partner are both bisexual. We have a cpls profile also. I have a free pass to meet guys for sex and she has one to fuck and girl she wants to. We save the mf cpls for meeting off our cpls profile. She has a lady problem at the moment and is waiting on an operation which is taking fucking ages. So the cpls meets are on hold. I get to meet a gay guy and his gay mate now she has given me a free pass to fuck guys. So I guess I found a rare gem in my partner. Sorry to hear you guys are having lack of sex problems with your Mrs.

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By *wanseajack2014Man
2 weeks ago

Neath

"Yep. No sex for 2 years, so as above on here. Trouble is, I now prefer sex with men, so do t even try with her. X"

That's the problem once you see how easy and trouble free it is to get sex with another guy you stop caring about trying to fuck her. I have been there with my ex wife.

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By *hil96Man
2 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"Yep. No sex for 2 years, so as above on here. Trouble is, I now prefer sex with men, so do t even try with her. X

That's the problem once you see how easy and trouble free it is to get sex with another guy you stop caring about trying to fuck her. I have been there with my ex wife."

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By *wanseajack2014Man
2 weeks ago

Neath

"In the same boat. Tried doing things she likes, treating her right etc and to actually get anything from her on the rare occasions, the work and effort i have put into it to get to this point, not worth it.

Part of the reason why we are on here, is the lack of sex from our partners, is it not??"

I was the same when I ex was like that. We split up and I fucked women off for 5yrs as could not be arsed with them. Just stick to cock and arse.

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By *regABCMan
2 weeks ago

blackhall

Most women go off sex early in a marriage whereas a guy gets hornier

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By *IPMANMan
2 weeks ago

LONDON WEST

The same applies in gay relationships too.

That's why God invented saunas

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By *ilverspurMan
2 weeks ago

Bracklesham

Exactly the same here

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By *Aguy2022Man
2 weeks ago

Littlehampton

Part of the reason why we are on here, is the lack of sex from our partners, is it not??

I was the same when I ex was like that. We split up and I fucked women off for 5yrs as could not be arsed with them. Just stick to cock and arse."

Still love women but far less hassle going for men..

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By *airythighs61Man
2 weeks ago

North Norfolk

Worst possible scenario is moving to remote North Norfolk and no sex at all with partner ...

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By *ondomhunterMan
2 weeks ago

hastings

Well, there can be light at the end of the tunnel.

Hadn't had sex with my Mrs for about 9 years.

Then a couple of months ago as we laid in bed going to sleep I said "why dont we have sex anymore" she said "I dont really know" I said "Do you want to" and she replied yes and said she would go to the doctor to sort out contraception and its all back on track.

I didn't think I would ever get to fuck her again but, I am

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By *eres.hopingMan
2 weeks ago

mid Cornwall

Been there got the T shirt think women are all programmed to kill sex in a marriage lol

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By *wanseajack2014Man
2 weeks ago

Neath

"Well, there can be light at the end of the tunnel.

Hadn't had sex with my Mrs for about 9 years.

I didn't think I would ever get to fuck her again but, I am"

Good for you mate

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By *uss15Man
2 weeks ago

North Petherton

Yep same here sexless marriage but when she wants it and I say not tonight she goes straight to the who you having an affair with

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By *egginzboyMan
2 weeks ago

Rugeley

Weekday daytimes at our local cruising spot is full of married men in cars works vans etc seeking relief

No sex at home from the wife and they find it difficult to jack off at home when the wife is about

So they play in cars or outdoors in broad daylight to find a bit of satisfaction

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By *ockeater60Man
2 weeks ago

Plymouth

I’ve been in sexless marriage for years now, I definitely prefer sucking cock now.

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By *wanseajack2014Man
2 weeks ago

Neath

"Yep same here sexless marriage but when she wants it and I say not tonight she goes straight to the who you having an affair with "

Oh they love shifting the blame when it's them that stopped the sex

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By *ngelic69Man
2 weeks ago

Kent

Havnt had sex with the misses for years, tried many times but alway been rejected, even tried humping on her. She's always told me to get off.

now I have more fun with like minded guys, love cock fun and being naked with a guy.

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By *punklover_69Man
2 weeks ago

Nearby

"Weekday daytimes at our local cruising spot is full of married men in cars works vans etc seeking relief

No sex at home from the wife and they find it difficult to jack off at home when the wife is about

So they play in cars or outdoors in broad daylight to find a bit of satisfaction"

Where's that please? Asking for a friend.

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By *uckmeslow555Man
2 weeks ago

oakham

Yes no sex for 14 years feed up with it

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By *h51Man
2 weeks ago

Bournemouth

Was married for 26 years

Ended up in desperate rooms.

Had a fling, and left her.

Life's too short.

Regrets?

I'm less financially secure now

But I have a gf who is good fun, loves life, and we have a really great sex life. Hopefully soon that will expand into more adventures.

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By *arridMan
2 weeks ago

Brighton

Part of the reason why we are on here, is the lack of sex from our partners, is it not??"
same

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By *eandevonMan
2 weeks ago

exeter

😂😂😂😂

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By *arried68Man
2 weeks ago

ilford

Oh yes I have to fuck others now women and men

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By *eandevonMan
2 weeks ago

exeter

"Yep same here sexless marriage but when she wants it and I say not tonight she goes straight to the who you having an affair with "

That did make me laugh.

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By *arried68Man
2 weeks ago

ilford

Yes that’s the prob - finances have to split including home - did it before first wife - and was skint

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By *ike1921Man
2 weeks ago

Epsom

Not had sex for years get a wank now and then like to met other guys for wanking and sucking

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By *arried68Man
2 weeks ago

ilford

Yes bored of wife now too - prefer chatting to pervy men and mutual wankinv and meeting granny sluts

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By *arried68Man
2 weeks ago

ilford

Yes I fuck other women but men more easy going

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By *arried68Man
2 weeks ago

ilford

You’re so lucky - tried to get wife into swinging but she’s to insecure about her fat body - gone off sex too

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By *luvnylonstockingsTV/TS
2 weeks ago

southsea

"Yes I fuck other women but men more easy going "

Mines been sexless for 3 years but i have sympathy ,shes going through the menapause,constantly tired,feeling down ,headaches etc .

We dont have that so i understand why but i still need sex .

I cant have sex with women so because i always felt bi and the lure of dressing ,tgats what i do .

Do i feel guilty?

Dead right i do ,

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By *astersteve906Man
2 weeks ago

Near Lutterworth

Sexless for over 10 years since she had an operation

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By *orthfieldsnickMan
2 weeks ago

West London

Similar situation here too

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By *jh59Man
2 weeks ago

Hinckley

No sex from summer 2023 then in 2024

She decided that the marriage was over

That was the best decision she ever made

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By *ranger OP Man
2 weeks ago

merseyside

"You’re so lucky - tried to get wife into swinging but she’s to insecure about her fat body - gone off sex too "
i want to fuck another guys wife while he watches.

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By *eorgesdadMan
2 weeks ago

Nottingham

I have mostly married men coming to me for sex due to their frigid wife’s. I satisfy their needs 🤪

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By *ucker4you80Man
2 weeks ago

Chippenham

"Yes I fuck other women but men more easy going

Mines been sexless for 3 years but i have sympathy ,shes going through the menapause,constantly tired,feeling down ,headaches etc .

We dont have that so i understand why but i still need sex .

I cant have sex with women so because i always felt bi and the lure of dressing ,tgats what i do .

Do i feel guilty?

Dead right i do ,"

You don't NEED sex, you want sex, it's just desire, nothing more than that. And, it's certainly not a justification for being unfaithful.

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By *ick1965Man
2 weeks ago

Bangor

"I’ve been in sexless marriage for years now, I definitely prefer sucking cock now. "

Me too. I make the most of every cocksucking opportunity now.

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By *ranger OP Man
2 weeks ago

merseyside

"Yes I fuck other women but men more easy going

Mines been sexless for 3 years but i have sympathy ,shes going through the menapause,constantly tired,feeling down ,headaches etc .

We dont have that so i understand why but i still need sex .

I cant have sex with women so because i always felt bi and the lure of dressing ,tgats what i do .

Do i feel guilty?

Dead right i do ,

You don't NEED sex, you want sex, it's just desire, nothing more than that. And, it's certainly not a justification for being unfaithful. "
you sound like my mrs

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By *easdown_dadbodMan
2 weeks ago

Bath/Bristol

If I'm lucky I get some every 3 to 6 months but conditions have to be perfect...which is hardly ever when you have kids especially this time of year when they're getting sick all the time.

So I tend to seek out some bi fun in waves drop in and out to avoid getting caught.

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By *hubbyGayTraffordMan
2 weeks ago

Stretford

"The same applies in gay relationships too.

That's why God invented saunas"

Exactly .

Absolutely adore my man , but so miss our sex life .

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By *lue555Man
2 weeks ago

harrow

Should consider divorce.

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By *otsure03Man
2 weeks ago

witney

Yes the same need some cock to suck

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
2 weeks ago

London

Polyamory relationship is much better.

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By *ichelle999TV/TS
2 weeks ago

colchester

Hate it been sexless for 15yrs now

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford

Monogamy is such a bonkers notion.

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By *opcock58Man
2 weeks ago

Helston

Same here.got myself a fuck buddy about 6-7 years ago, go see her once or twice a month and that keeps a lid on my frustration. Married 39 years and all good, just no sex ever.

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By *amagedgoodsMan
2 weeks ago

Halstead/ Karsiyaka N. Cyprus

Yes 5 years now after breast cancer

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By *enpleasetomeetyouMan
2 weeks ago

Leeds ,kippax

Is hard being in a sexless marrage but getting fucked by guys help alot

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By *iki CDTV/TS
2 weeks ago

North Tynside

Hence there are loads of gorgeous TVs on here willing to do anything your wife wont

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By *aremanMan
2 weeks ago

Hingham

Never been wed, but it does seem to me that if you marry solely for sex you are misunderstanding the situation...(sure, maybe that's why I've never been wed)

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By *lutttyChristineTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Walsall

My wife went off sex after her menopause. It’s a good thing that I had my secret hobby of Crossdressing and having sex with men otherwise I wouldn’t get any sex at all unless I used a certain type of ladies services or began an illicit affair with another woman. As I love having sex with men and love Cock and cum I am happy with my lot.

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By *ubdevonMan
2 weeks ago

Tiverton

I gave up ages ago, on the odd occasions we did have sex then she would just lie there making it as crap as possible.

Fortunately I don't want to fuck her anymore. But she is a good cook.

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By *ancelot6969Man
2 weeks ago

HINCKLEY

All I can say is thank goodness for Fabguys and chat apps

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By *ustOneBearMan
2 weeks ago

Neath

Prefer married men if I’m honest. Great sex without the worry of it going any further. So your wives’ loss is our gain.

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By *elly74Man
2 weeks ago

selby

Afternoon all

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By *amie2018cMan
2 weeks ago

north cambs

Controversial…but there is such a thing as divorce. We’re only here once .. life’s too short to be miserable

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By *pmedeepMan
2 weeks ago

bolton

ive always had a soft spot for men more than women but ive always had a woman in my life as cover for my sexuality from my family but every woman ive been in a r/ship with has turned out sexless and im in a r/ship with a woman at present and that has gone the same way as the rest of them

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By *ldderMan
2 weeks ago

Oxford and Sevenoaks

I have been for many years

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
2 weeks ago

North East

Not married but been with my missus for years and our sex life is pretty much dead 😞

Boils my piss tbh especially as I have a high sex drive and need to release some tension but unfortunately and more annoying the best I get now is using my right hand

It’s no wonder I’m so fucking uptight and angry all the time….

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By *raig 69Man
2 weeks ago

Peterborough

Sadly I’m the one that seems to struggle having sex, the wife wants me but my cock don’t always rise to the occasion, I love sex hence me being on here as a bttm, I have tried to encourage her to fuck someone else to give her that satisfaction but she won’t (and I would love to watch that)

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By *aryb60Man
2 weeks ago

mossley

Women's loss of sex drive is due to hormonal changes most often. My wife went through it and is enjoying sex again but on a reduced scale. In the meantime I learned to love cock. She doesn't know. It's now a tricky balancing act to get cock and pussy lol.

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By *enardeMan
2 weeks ago

Barnsley

Will not be long before the all knowing brigade start in

Have the conversation

Leave her

Does she know you’re cheating

All the rest

I’m in same boat almost 9 years no sexual stuff at all

You have to be there or have experienced it to know how trapped this guy is

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By *T52funMan
2 weeks ago

North Tyneside

No sex for over 10 years. Always had feelings for guys so glad I decided to act on it. Love being submissive.

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By *i SexploraMan
2 weeks ago

Rossendale

I'm in a Sexless marriage

Had some Great Encounters with guys.

Also visit the Local Male Sauna where Fun is Guaranteed.

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By *ylesfordbiMan
2 weeks ago

Aylesford

Lots of us on here for same reason 😎👍🏻

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By *tocky1Man
2 weeks ago

Romsey

Yes not had any at home for over 20 years that’s why I’m here.

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Stockport

We girls are happy to help

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By *ubmanpaulMan
2 weeks ago

near ripon

Sexless marriage here but I prefer cock any way

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
2 weeks ago

North East

"Will not be long before the all knowing brigade start in

Have the conversation

Leave her

Does she know you’re cheating

All the rest

I’m in same boat almost 9 years no sexual stuff at all

You have to be there or have experienced it to know how trapped this guy is "

Well said 👏

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
2 weeks ago

London

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
2 weeks ago

London

Good to have more boyfriends and partners. Very healthy.

Traditionally, in some parts of China it is customary and good behaviour to have more partners or polyamory. If there is a sexless marriage, there are still others available to help.

In China, the practice of a woman having multiple husbands, known as

polyandry, traditionally existed in remote, mountainous regions.

It is common among Tibetan communities (like in Sichuan, Yunnan, Tibet Autonomous Region) and the Mosuo people (Yunnan/Sichuan border).

Even the Chinese emperors, wealthy Chinese men indulged in polyamory have several wives, partners, concubines, mistresses and bonded partners etc. It is considered good behaviour and respect to our ancestors in procreation of the human species and continue the family line.

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By *opcock58Man
2 weeks ago

Helston

"Good to have more boyfriends and partners. Very healthy.

Traditionally, in some parts of China it is customary and good behaviour to have more partners or polyamory. If there is a sexless marriage, there are still others available to help.

In China, the practice of a woman having multiple husbands, known as

polyandry, traditionally existed in remote, mountainous regions.

It is common among Tibetan communities (like in Sichuan, Yunnan, Tibet Autonomous Region) and the Mosuo people (Yunnan/Sichuan border).

Try telling that to a divorce court 🤣🤣🤣

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By *luvnylonstockingsTV/TS
2 weeks ago

southsea

"Controversial…but there is such a thing as divorce. We’re only here once .. life’s too short to be miserable "

Maybe because beyond the sex we actually love our wives more than we could a guy .

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By *aceyisback2Man
2 weeks ago

Chesterfield

If your wife suddenly after a few years of no sex at all decided she now wants it daily would you come off fabguys.com

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By *oxleyMan
2 weeks ago

Wetherby

Nowt at home for 5 years.

Not bothered, because I prefer a Gent’s touch.

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By *ikepetersMan
2 weeks ago

yeovil

Nothing doing at home for ages....very frustrating

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By *akeitsquirtMan
2 weeks ago

Epping/Romford

I watched a Youtube video from a sex therapist from the US. Apparently there a sexless marriage is when you have sex less than 10 times a year!!!!

I am not certain we have had full sex 10 times in the last decade

We do have a bit of kinky fun though and I love her to bits

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By *ucker4you80Man
2 weeks ago

Chippenham

"If your wife suddenly after a few years of no sex at all decided she now wants it daily would you come off fabguys.com "

This is a brilliant statement! Theoretically, 80% of the fab users would disappear, but I fear it would be next to zero. I wonder how they would justify it then.

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By *aremanMan
2 weeks ago

Hingham

THE SECRET OF EXISTENCE

Higgamus hoggamus

Woman's monogamous

Hoggamus higgamus

Man is polygamous

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By *otmyrealname1Man
2 weeks ago

Haxey area

Yes.

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By *ubjohnMan
2 weeks ago

bedford

"I am sick of being in a sexless marriage, anyone else in same position

Yup almost 5 years here

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By *oxleyMan
2 weeks ago

Wetherby

No sex at home isn’t an issue if you have a chap locally 😇

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By *herbguyMan
2 weeks ago

Sherborne

Not much at home now days . She so boring now. Still looks good but not intrested in sex.

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By *reakawayMan
2 weeks ago

Black country

Yes. I feel the same pain. Sex life in my marriage is poor. Hence Im on here. Seems pretty common. The only thing that gets me through is chatting to guys on here in the same boat as me, which kind of reassures me Im not alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

No sex for two years here, menapause has done for sex.

I now think I prefer cock to pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

No sex for two years here, menapause has done for sex.

I now think I prefer cock to pussy.

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By *r Bill34Man
2 weeks ago

Kildare

Sexless here as she sees her ex hubby for sex instead

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By *reakawayMan
2 weeks ago

Black country

If any married guys free to chat on phone, send me your number

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By *oasyouwishMan
2 weeks ago

benfleet

I am. Full sex over 25 years now. But very occasionally handjob that I have to finish

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By *tephanie9090TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Bishop

Love my OH, but sex in our marriage has been soo infrequent over the last 5 yrs.

OH has always known of my kinkiness and she was always understanding about it.

Since covid, the sex has been less and less.

But, since Stephanie was born sex with her NSA lover has given her a new sex life and its amazing...

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By *orny Bi24Man
2 weeks ago

Hull

Very lacking now

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By *dol1Man
2 weeks ago

North Wexford

It’s been quite a while since I’ve had sex with my wife, I think August was the last time.

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By *ohnny 52TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Middlewich

mine is more interested in her work colleagues no sex for several years

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By *oxleyMan
2 weeks ago

Wetherby

If you are married, but know you are gay - it isn’t an issue.

If the missus stops the sexy times, but she is a good pal, a life partner - then discretely look here….. That is probably why you are here 🤷‍♂️

Stay safe, enjoy proper sex and stay married !!!

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By *ubjohnMan
2 weeks ago

bedford

"If you are married, but know you are gay - it isn’t an issue.

If the missus stops the sexy times, but she is a good pal, a life partner - then discretely look here….. That is probably why you are here 🤷‍♂️

Stay safe, enjoy proper sex and stay married !!!"

Definitely tonight’s top tip 🤩

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By *adame BootsTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Tetbury

Yes and doing something about it.

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By *erbysuckMan
2 weeks ago

derbyshire

It happens a lot xx

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By *ittlelad69Man
2 weeks ago

Chesterfield

In same position fella, been over a year since I’ve had my leg over

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By *hloxbeautMan
2 weeks ago

edinburgh

Yeah i pretty much am which is part of the reason im on here.

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By *nmykneesagainMan
2 weeks ago

salford

2 years since fucked wife, i just suck cock now and she fucks other men

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By *amanthaCDTV/TS
2 weeks ago

FRANCE, no longer in

No sex with wife for past 5 years. 6 months ago she found out about me being a CD and having sex with loads of guys. So now she wants to restart the sex between us because why should I have all the fun! That amazed me as she was the one that stopped the sex.

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By *haneBMan
2 weeks ago

city

Same here. Mid 40s, wife totally gone off sex. Finding it very hard because I really want sex with her, still love her.

Been with a guy once ever but definitely think I need to go there again.

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By *erasusMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

Is it possible we're doing something or not doing something which is producing this issue?

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By *ranger OP Man
2 weeks ago

merseyside

"In same position fella, been over a year since I’ve had my leg over"
3 plus for me

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By *ldderMan
2 weeks ago

Oxford and Sevenoaks

Thats where I like to help a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Not as rough as some in this group, but sex is great when it happens, but that's normally every 2 or 3 months, some of that is down to me, lazy. Easier to have a wank, also on here too much lol. Would love a go with a younger fitter model. Be happy man then. Maybe. ...

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By *igbi61Man
2 weeks ago

wigan

"Yep same here sexless marriage but when she wants it and I say not tonight she goes straight to the who you having an affair with "

How can it be a sexless marriage if she wants it and you say no 🤔.?

That's you not wanting it with her .... Different to OP .

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By *azaMan
2 weeks ago

Walsall

Definitely in the same boat my Mrs went of sex in her mid fifty then I got a bit curious about guys now I prefer cock to pussy

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By *ornyguy911Man
2 weeks ago

harrogate

Yeah can relate married a slut ended up with a nun

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By *ibsonVicMan
2 weeks ago

Coleshill

Yes. Wife not interested at all. Cock is the only option for me.

Fortunately I love cock xxx

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By *ayd100Man
2 weeks ago

bb7

I'm barred but she gets it elsewhere

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By *shleigh1964TV/TS
2 weeks ago

penzance

This is a huge "thing". Nature's irony, women peak younger and fade later, men other way around. Im in similar position now but fk it, tis what it is. I ve been many a married man's wife stand in

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By *icuriousguy55Man
2 weeks ago

St Helier

Same here! How do we put up with it?☺

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By *erasusMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Yeah can relate married a slut ended up with a nun

🤣🤣🤣

It's only Monday but quote of the week!

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By *shleigh1964TV/TS
2 weeks ago

penzance

"Yeah can relate married a slut ended up with a nun

🤣🤣🤣

It's only Monday but quote of the week!"

Funny but true. Mine was up for anything n bi, now definately a nun

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Me too. My wife hates sex. But I

Love men now so her loss

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By *isexynotMan
2 weeks ago

Bracknell

Smooth cocks are so addictive xxx

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By *ummybear69Man
2 weeks ago

North Derbyshire

The frequency of sex has certainly reduced recently but she's always been encouraging for me to follow my bi side so I cannot complain. She rarely initiates sex but rarely refuses either when I'm in the mood.

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By *egginzboyMan
2 weeks ago

Rugeley

My 55 yr old brother has been married for 12 years to his 39 yr old wife

She decided 2 yrs ago that she'd switch to a boneless bucket and go without sex

My brother was proper pissed off and couldnt understand why

He said she used to bang like a shithouse door in the wind now nothing !

So he downloaded a well known "shagging" app and uses travelodges during the day to meet up n fuck females

Hes shown me pictures on their profiles he's me some real stunners and their seems to be plenty of younger women who prefer older men on the app

Hes been on there 12 months now and in that time he has fucked 15 really nice women aged between 18 and 26

He said most were single or had a b/f that didnt know and 2 were married

So there is hope !

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By *arried68Man
2 weeks ago

ilford

Wow sounds amazing - can you say what the app is

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By *egginzboyMan
2 weeks ago

Rugeley

Im sure its the one that Starts with a T

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By *ucker4you80Man
2 weeks ago

Chippenham

"My 55 yr old brother has been married for 12 years to his 39 yr old wife

She decided 2 yrs ago that she'd switch to a boneless bucket and go without sex

My brother was proper pissed off and couldnt understand why

He said she used to bang like a shithouse door in the wind now nothing !

So he downloaded a well known "shagging" app and uses travelodges during the day to meet up n fuck females

Hes shown me pictures on their profiles he's me some real stunners and their seems to be plenty of younger women who prefer older men on the app

Hes been on there 12 months now and in that time he has fucked 15 really nice women aged between 18 and 26

He said most were single or had a b/f that didnt know and 2 were married

So there is hope !

Hope for what exactly? Infidelity, manipulation, deceit, guilt, betrayal? Nice. Maybe your 'brother' is a happy man now, but at what price.

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By *tephanie9090TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Bishop

"Smooth cocks are so addictive xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"My 55 yr old brother has been married for 12 years to his 39 yr old wife

She decided 2 yrs ago that she'd switch to a boneless bucket and go without sex

My brother was proper pissed off and couldnt understand why

He said she used to bang like a shithouse door in the wind now nothing !

So he downloaded a well known "shagging" app and uses travelodges during the day to meet up n fuck females

Hes shown me pictures on their profiles he's me some real stunners and their seems to be plenty of younger women who prefer older men on the app

Hes been on there 12 months now and in that time he has fucked 15 really nice women aged between 18 and 26

He said most were single or had a b/f that didnt know and 2 were married

So there is hope !

What’s the app 😜

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By *IPMANMan
2 weeks ago

LONDON WEST

I never ask a tricks marital status, it's totally irrelevant to the proceedings, not my concern and I am not in the game for the relief of distressed heterosexuals

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By *egginzboyMan
2 weeks ago

Rugeley

"My 55 yr old brother has been married for 12 years to his 39 yr old wife

She decided 2 yrs ago that she'd switch to a boneless bucket and go without sex

My brother was proper pissed off and couldnt understand why

He said she used to bang like a shithouse door in the wind now nothing !

So he downloaded a well known "shagging" app and uses travelodges during the day to meet up n fuck females

Hes shown me pictures on their profiles he's me some real stunners and their seems to be plenty of younger women who prefer older men on the app

Hes been on there 12 months now and in that time he has fucked 15 really nice women aged between 18 and 26

He said most were single or had a b/f that didnt know and 2 were married

So there is hope !

Hope for what exactly? Infidelity, manipulation, deceit, guilt, betrayal? Nice. Maybe your 'brother' is a happy man now, but at what price. "

My Brother waited 12 months thinking his wife would start wanting sex again

But she wont even sleep in the same bed as him and she has gone all religous and fridgid shes told him shes not bothered if he gets it elsewhere as long as she doesnt see it

You're only here once & you're a long time dead

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By *IPMANMan
2 weeks ago

LONDON WEST

D I V O R C E.... as the song goes

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By *atexlover50Man
2 weeks ago

Barton upon humber

I left my wife when I was 42. Sex life was shit plus other things. Now I happy with my new partner. She is just as kinky as me. If you are not happy then do something about it or stay stuck in the life you don't like.

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By *orny_banburyMan
2 weeks ago

Banbury

I don’t wish to stir up a hornets nest, but this is the saddest thread I’ve ever read.

There’s definite parallels to the men’s mental health crisis, somewhere along the line here.

Let me start by saying, all of us deserve for sex to be a right, not a privilege.

But there has to be more effort made.

The underlying tone behind many of the comments above is resentment.

Resentment that ‘she doesn’t want sex anymore’.

Why is that though?

Menopause?

Life pressure and stress levels?

Are you still attractive to her physically?

Have you let yourself go?

Are you both working to stay connected emotionally?

Do you do anything to actually excite her?

There are plenty of men on fabguys that have a great sex life with their wife, and play with guys too (some would call them greedy!)

But there’s a lot that are only here because wifey doesn’t put out anymore. So it seems the easier option to find other guys that are, potentially, in a similar situation and are chasing some sexual relief.

But if that’s all driven by resentment, that’s not a healthy place to be.

By all means, suck, wank and sit on as many cocks as you want to - but just check in with yourself that you’re not actually part of the problem with the sexless marriage.

(Plot twist, you probably are, to some degree)

It’s easy to say ‘she’s gone frigid’.

It’s harder to question why that might be.

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By *odie.LegsMan
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

100% correct some men need to take a look at themselves,have they kept fit and active,Do they still dress nice nice,Do they put the effort in to be romantic if they thing its about a quick fumble in the bed well that's why women turn off.

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By *usicmanxxxMan
2 weeks ago

skem

Sexless here

Fucked wife about 3 years ago

Menopause stopped her mojo

So I meet guys

Needs must

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By *tillSissyMan
2 weeks ago

Bulwell

Yeah, like a lot of people here my partner went off it - so now I spend my time looking for horny men. It's why I have no problem meeting with discrete married guys - we're in the same boat, I just want to help them cum.

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By *uvcok400Man
2 weeks ago

Caerphilly county

Totally sexless marriage ,thats why i bum guys xx

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Also in a sexless marriage

Don’t even bother asking for it now as constant rejection hurts

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By *en1920Man
2 weeks ago

christchurch Dorset

I am but my husband is my soul mate but we haven’t had sex for ten years

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By *opman55Man
2 weeks ago

I know exactly where your coming from with this post mines been nearly if not a year, no kissing, touching sex no nothing it’s as if the shop has well and truly closed down. We were close to arranging a threesome as I told her it was ultimate fantasy after she hit caught cheating so we looked on the swingers site for a mate but due to the let downs it never happened. We did have a social with a lad an I let her go have a solo meet I loved that reclaimed her when she returned and she knew I loved it but a few months went by and it was as if everything stopped she wasn’t bothered about going on the site again no more messages to any lads not even getting close at home. She is definitely not cheating again before anyone suggests it’s as if the menopause has caught up with her and I can’t seem to help it’s killing me as I have an enormous sex drive and need to cum many times daily

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By *erfieMan
2 weeks ago

mansfield woodhouse

About 10+ years since I fucked the wife she just isn’t interested , she was happy to let me climb on and get it over with whilst she just laid there un til I’d finished.

Not for me had a divorce in the past don’t want another too expensive so put up with the situation and meet guys for relief

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By *seekfunMan
2 weeks ago

stevenage

I could have wrote last comment

I know how u feel mate

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

The wife hardly ever wants it anymore, which brought me here

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By *umblebeesMan
2 weeks ago

plymouth

Not a sexless marriage but a sexless relationship, boyfriend hasn't been interested in anything sexual for a few years (as a result of therapy) and it's gotten to the point where I dont expect it to change anymore.

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By *endy CMan
2 weeks ago

Huntingdon

Guys, women rarely 'go off' sex, they suffer the Menopause..look it up!

Some of their hormones which drive the system decline or disappear.

If they are the ones driving the sex instinct, there you go! No sex drive. There is no fault its just chemicals!!!

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By *enardeMan
2 weeks ago

Barnsley

I was there first time

If you are young enough can afford a 60/40 split in her favour and CSA then leave get a new start

I’m now 62 can’t financially afford the divorce

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By *arried KentMan
2 weeks ago

Rochester

Yes I am

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By *ax_glasscotMan
2 weeks ago

glasgow

Mine has gradually became that.

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By *urrey_hjTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Kingston Upon Thames

"I am sick of being in a sexless marriage, anyone else in same position

From the replies below it seems like lots of guys are on here for the same reason.

Men are so much more promiscuous and easy to pick up for sex.

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By *erasusMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Guys, women rarely 'go off' sex, they suffer the Menopause..look it up!

Some of their hormones which drive the system decline or disappear.

If they are the ones driving the sex instinct, there you go! No sex drive. There is no fault its just chemicals!!!"

True but it doesn’t usually mean a complete shutdown, just that it’s much less impulsive/lustful

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By *yldeoneMan
2 weeks ago

Fylde coast

Menopause has got a lot to answer for...used to get it quite regular until it kicked in...

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By *traight.lad45Man
2 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

We've all been in this situation

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By *arried68Man
2 weeks ago

ilford

Same here altho given me incentive to fuck other men females

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By *arried68Man
2 weeks ago

ilford

True but you want someone proactive esp after fixking them for more than 10 years

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By *ub-guyMan
2 weeks ago

Dublin Meath

Here now mid 30s and it's a disaster, don't see any signs of things picking up...so like most ended up here looking for that bit of relief...only so long you can go playing solo.

But yes definitely easier with men in the same boat to meet up, main problem is somewhere to play as usual issues hosting

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By *lackbootzMan
2 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"… Nature's irony, women peak younger and fade later, men other way around…"

That’s actually completely wrong in biological terms. Men hit their peak sexual drive and physical function in their 20s and early 30s as this coincides with peak testosterone levels. Women hit their plateau later 30s into 40s.

(You’ll need another excuse.)

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By *ustOneBearMan
2 weeks ago

Neath

"We've all been in this situation "

Nope! Not at all.

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By *ihcknallMan
2 weeks ago

Nottingham

I’m married no sex

I just need hard cock mmmmm

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By *mitz2Man
2 weeks ago

Leicester

Unfortunately it's me that can't provide for her

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By *IPMANMan
2 weeks ago

LONDON WEST

I am in a sexless gay relationship. Just go elsewhere....

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By *ralBiguy63Man
2 weeks ago

manchester

I am the same

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By *arried68Man
2 weeks ago

ilford

How come - chat you get hard o see needs bigger ?

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By *artin1963Man
2 weeks ago

London

I am going elsewhere. Feels like a great journey.

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By *kbod7Man
2 weeks ago

hampshire

Mrs stopped sexy time a few years ago , which is why I’m on here , I now explore my bi side , love cock and even had a couple of mmm 3somes !! So not all bad

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By *kwankerukukMan
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

No sex for 2yrs,so enjoying exploring bi side and must admit i find men turn me on more than she did

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By *actilePigMan
2 weeks ago

LINCOLN

"I am sick of being in a sexless marriage, anyone else in same position

What did your wife say when you sat down and had an open and honest conversation about how you feel?

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By *dfunMan
2 weeks ago

west Sussex

No sexy for nearly a year

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By *ldderMan
2 weeks ago

Oxford and Sevenoaks

Have been for many years

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford

Seems the married world in Britain is littered with sexless marriages. Marriage is such an old-fashioned notion. Humans aren't meant to be monogamous.

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By *ackmeoviMan
2 weeks ago

wales

Yep no sex for 10 years anyone wanna take me in hand?!

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By *crsubguyMan
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Don’t get me wrong, I love my kids. But hacks. Children totally and utterly destroyed our sex life

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By *outhendman1972Man
2 weeks ago

Southend-on-Sea

Has no man on here heard of HRT??? Been around years! Hormone Replacement Therapy. Kick that bitches arse down to her doctors get her sorted on it! Or you basically financing a grown arse human being clothing her feeding her and keeping a roof over her head and getting bugger all back for it! Got enough that shit with the illegals lol

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