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"I’m sure you’ve heard 1000 times “Always thought he was gay” What makes people say this ? Unless they act like Antony Cotton or John Inman How can women make these assumptions " Erroneous female intuition, the only sure way to tell is to catch the guy in the act! 😉 | |||
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"I think yiu could tell when hes suckin on your cock or hanging out he tight arse " This 👍 | |||
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"I think yiu could tell when hes suckin on your cock or hanging out he tight arse This 👍" He might be bi. A sex act is not an indicator that someone is gay. | |||
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"I think yiu could tell when hes suckin on your cock or hanging out he tight arse This 👍 He might be bi. A sex act is not an indicator that someone is gay. " I think it was a tongue in cheek(s) comment. Other than using an electronic “Gay detector” available from those places that used to sell “X-Ray Specs” there is no definitive way of spotting if someone is Gay. | |||
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 There's always margin for error of course 🔭 I've had mighty surprises either side if the yes 'he is/no he can't be' line🤷🏽♂️🫢 | |||
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Men are easy to read. It's women that I have difficulty with! | |||
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"Just walk up to them. Show him one of my ass pics and ask, would you fuck this ass? If he says yes theres your answer lol" 😆 nice try bit no cigar. I'd be a "no" on your arse, but im gay, so your theory falls down. | |||
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"Just walk up to them. Show him one of my ass pics and ask, would you fuck this ass? If he says yes theres your answer lol 😆 nice try bit no cigar. I'd be a "no" on your arse, but im gay, so your theory falls down." Sssuuurrrreeee you wouldn't | |||
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"I’m sure you’ve heard 1000 times “Always thought he was gay” What makes people say this ? Unless they act like Antony Cotton or John Inman , go up to him and kiss him If he closes his eyes , he’s gay If he closes yours , he’s straight How can women make these assumptions " | |||
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"Just walk up to them. Show him one of my ass pics and ask, would you fuck this ass? If he says yes theres your answer lol" Sounds more like he's into equine animals than other men | |||
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"You can smell cum when he farts?" The cloud of glitter is a dead giveaway too.... | |||
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"Usually you can tell by them fancying men 🤷♂️" Bi guys fancy men. Straight guys who dont know theyre bi fancy men. So no, fancying men isnt a giveaway that someone is gay. Obsessed with labels on this site! | |||
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"Usually you can tell by them fancying men 🤷♂️ Bi guys fancy men. Straight guys who dont know theyre bi fancy men. So no, fancying men isnt a giveaway that someone is gay. Obsessed with labels on this site!" I always find being obsessed with labels a sure sign ...🤔 | |||
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"Usually you can tell by them fancying men 🤷♂️ Bi guys fancy men. Straight guys who dont know theyre bi fancy men. So no, fancying men isnt a giveaway that someone is gay. Obsessed with labels on this site!" Usually gay men fancy men so I am still correct. Not that it's in anyway important | |||
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"… It’s just heard women say often lately I’m sure he’s gay or always thought he was Just be looking or hearing a guy ! Not stood naked in a shower next to group of other naked men Is it just women being bitchy… " Is this written in code..? 😶 | |||
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"Usually you can tell by them fancying men 🤷♂️ Bi guys fancy men. Straight guys who dont know theyre bi fancy men. So no, fancying men isnt a giveaway that someone is gay. Obsessed with labels on this site! Usually gay men fancy men so I am still correct. Not that it's in anyway important " Difference is gay men only fancy men, bisexual and straight guys that are in denial also fancy women, some don't even fancy men, they just like doing certain sexual acts with men. As for the original question, sometimes you just know, call it instinct, as for women picking up on signs, I think they can, my step mum had me sussed out by the time I was 17 and when I was younger I found it very easy to befriend girls/women and I was always the shoulder to cry on when they were having relationship problems, coincidence or were they able to sense that I was no risk to them? I have to add I was closeted back then. | |||
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"Usually you can tell by them fancying men 🤷♂️ Bi guys fancy men. Straight guys who dont know theyre bi fancy men. So no, fancying men isnt a giveaway that someone is gay. Obsessed with labels on this site! Usually gay men fancy men so I am still correct. Not that it's in anyway important Difference is gay men only fancy men, bisexual and straight guys that are in denial also fancy women, some don't even fancy men, they just like doing certain sexual acts with men. As for the original question, sometimes you just know, call it instinct, as for women picking up on signs, I think they can, my step mum had me sussed out by the time I was 17 and when I was younger I found it very easy to befriend girls/women and I was always the shoulder to cry on when they were having relationship problems, coincidence or were they able to sense that I was no risk to them? I have to add I was closeted back then. " Another sweeping generalisation. Some gay men do actually fancy women but dont want have sex with them. Some gay men dont fancy other men and have no inclination to have sex with one. The obsession to put people into categories depending on where they shove their cock and tar everyone with one brush from a very narrow point of view is quite alarming. About time we simply see each other as human, with preferences and a personality. | |||
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"In my experience, I'd say women are pretty poor at spotting gay men .." Certainly a lot of wives that are married to the cumbuckets on here | |||
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"In my experience, I'd say women are pretty poor at spotting gay men .. Certainly a lot of wives that are married to the cumbuckets on here" A perfectly valid point made perfectly well. | |||
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"In my experience, I'd say women are pretty poor at spotting gay men .. Certainly a lot of wives that are married to the cumbuckets on here" This made me laff as that's exactly what I was thinking...😂😂 | |||
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"In my experience, I'd say women are pretty poor at spotting gay men .. Certainly a lot of wives that are married to the cumbuckets on here This made me laff as that's exactly what I was thinking...😂😂" G3 is the Forum’s voice of conscience. | |||
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"In my experience, I'd say women are pretty poor at spotting gay men .. Certainly a lot of wives that are married to the cumbuckets on here" Exactly. Do they know that when hubby says he's going for a quiet walk its to a cruising area? Does wifey know that whilst she's at work, at bingo of visiting her sister, hubby dresses up in women's clothes and make-up and called himself luscious Linda? A lot of wives never do. | |||
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"I am not gay, i dont act gay but i do like a cock deep in my mouth." Labels are only helpful if they help. If they’re not helpful don’t use them. | |||
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"Define what Gay is. Is it a desire to have a relationship and everything that goes with it? Is it just not being straight? I define as a Gay Man. I like masculinity, in my life, I’ve SCUBA dived I’ve Parachuted and other risky stuff. Some men just have sex with men. I’m just a guy that likes guys. I never fancy a man who is a friend. Most men who are attracted to men do not fit the stereotype. " I identify as gay simply because it sounds a friendlier and less clinical term than homosexual. Certainly don't appear gay or lead a perceived gay life style e.g. terrible taste in fashion, soft-furnishings etc Also been into normal masculine things all my life. 12 years in the army when it was very homophobic but still enjoyed it and had some discreet fun. About 30 years playing rugby as a forward. Okay a lot of 'hugging' in the scrums and tomfoolery in the showers but not exactly a 'gay sport'. I am attracted to certain men but not others. I enjoy sex with men and have no interest in women, pseudo women or effeminate men. Still struggle to tell if a guy is gay/bi or not. | |||
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"I think many men turn bi in their late 40s its if they have the bottle to carry out their hiden acts. Thats what happened to me and i love sucking and wanking now " You probably have a good point there regarding being bi. I had a 2 year secret affair with another guy when we were both in our 40s. He was married with 4 kids but his sex life had completely dried up. A bricklayer by trade. I was the first man he had sex with though he said he'd been attracted to men from an early age but suppressed his desires because he thought it wrong and unmanly. | |||
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"I’d say if you see a guy jumping over a puddle, it’s a strong indication he’s gay ~ and probably bottom too. Puddle-jumpers … definitely keep your eye on them " Lol i never see puddles, i always end up walking straight into them and getting my feet wet! | |||
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"I’m sure you’ve heard 1000 times “Always thought he was gay” What makes people say this ? Unless they act like Antony Cotton or John Inman How can women make these assumptions Erroneous female intuition, the only sure way to tell is to catch the guy in the act! 😉" Why do you assume only women say that? Catching a guy in the act isn’t definitive, he could be bi. | |||
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"Why do people always think they have the right to know anyone's sexuality ? Why are straights obsessed with who plays which role in a gay relationship ? I would never dream of asking straights whether they eat each others arses or fuck using cucumbers On a need to know basis, it's nobody's fucking business" Permit me to be a tad pedantic, but is it not the 'fucking business' of they who partake in such coital liaisons? 😁 | |||
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"I’d say if you see a guy jumping over a puddle, it’s a strong indication he’s gay ~ and probably bottom too. Puddle-jumpers … definitely keep your eye on them " That theory can be kicked straight out of the window where I am concerned. As a youngster a puddle was an invitation for me to jump into it. Have always walked through puddles if I have the appropriate footwear. Otherwise would walk around it rather than jump over it. And yes I am 100% gay  | |||
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"I don’t think there is any definitive signs. I’ve met some very masc guys who you would not consider as gay but turn out to be." There's definitely signs lol, for most guys. Mine were so subtle or I did such a good job hiding them , that nobody close to me ever noticed - which is hindsight was a bad thing for me personally. I was at an Christmas family thing the other day and my brother in laws youngest sister was there with her boyfriend. The chap has mannerisms that I picked up on in about 10 seconds flat. It is a bit of a stereotype (the mannerisms) but I would shocked if he wasn't at least bi. Aside from that he's a typical guy of that age. Loves football, all the general guy banter at the table. he's only 20 and figuring stuff out. I wouldn't dream of bringing the topic up with him and freaking him out. My gaydar is fine tuned though from years of playing the guessing game myself. I'm not sure if anyone else that was there would have noticed. | |||
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