FabGuys.com forum: What are your regrets

By *ldbutEnthusiastic OP Man
6 weeks ago

Reading

I was violated with a cucumber yesterday. (full disclosure - self violated)

Today I have a very sore bottom indeed.

What are your regrets? Small regrets or large ones. Regrets of commission or omission.

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By *hyna HutchMan
6 weeks ago

valleys

I've had a few but there again, too few to mention.

(well, someone was going to do it).

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By *hawn1Man
6 weeks ago

gloucester

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By *ldbutEnthusiastic OP Man
6 weeks ago

Reading

lol

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By *erasusMan
6 weeks ago

Glasgow

Should have got past gfs and current wife to peg me!

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
6 weeks ago

In a galaxy far far away

Smoking.

Was the stupidest thing I did, I quit 2 years ago but it was a nightmare to quit and took a few months to accomplish.

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By *ananabrumMan
6 weeks ago

castle bromwich

Wait so long to experiment years of sexy fun missed out on

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By *mizhereMan
6 weeks ago

dorchester tuesday day

Regret the 12 years I pretended to be straight when I returned to cock at 27

No regrets now bar all those cocks I missed out on

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By *axfactorMan
6 weeks ago

annan

Not deleting a couple of pics.

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By *juk99Man
6 weeks ago

Crawley

Not making the most of my time to meet guys while I was working and travelled around the south east. Now at home 24/7 with wife and it’s a fucking nightmare to get away.

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By *moother1Man
6 weeks ago

Port Talbot

Pissing up a perfectly good job through really bad life decision making.

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By *ike21TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Fareham

Not fuck g my sil when the chance arose

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By *ygah49Man
6 weeks ago

Healing

Not staying completely cock only

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By *opalaMan
6 weeks ago

gravesend

Always nervous, could ve had so much fun

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By *hief BrodyMan
6 weeks ago

north hants

Not taking a job at the NPL in Teddington.

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By *laingreedyMan
6 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Not acting on my curiosity sooner

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By *aged_kiraMan
6 weeks ago

Downham Market

There have been a few but I try to think I wouldn't be who I am today without those things I regret....

...oh and trying a urethral tube with that cage really was something to regret 🤣

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By *ilverhandMan
6 weeks ago

Finding a magic spell book and turning my friend into cucumber for a laugh.

Can't find him now though, hope he's ok

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By *atchmo_Jizz!Man
6 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I don’t have any. The past is in the past and you cannot change it so I don’t dwell on it; I seek to learn from it though.

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By *IPMANMan
6 weeks ago

West London

Not getting fucked enough pre AIDS

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By *ary1066Man
6 weeks ago

Preston

"I was violated with a cucumber yesterday. (full disclosure - self violated)

Today I have a very sore bottom indeed.

What are your regrets? Small regrets or large ones. Regrets of commission or omission."

Ordering the salad

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By *eliaTVTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Doncaster

"Smoking.

Was the stupidest thing I did, I quit 2 years ago but it was a nightmare to quit and took a few months to accomplish."

Well done. Don't go back to the cigs. Took me about 3yrs before I could say I didn't want a smoke but it was well worth it.

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By *0yguyMan
6 weeks ago

Cumbria

"I don’t have any. The past is in the past and you cannot change it so I don’t dwell on it; I seek to learn from it though."

Always prepared to learn new things.

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By *eicester-lukeMan
6 weeks ago

leicester

Not getting fucked when i first sucked a cock

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By *udi222Man
6 weeks ago

Harrogate

Not fucking my best mates wife - out of loyalty to him - when she offered. The split up months later & it turned out they were both cheating on each other.

Ignoring my building curiosity for cock for years. Should have accepted one of the offers years ago.

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By *jp HungMan
6 weeks ago

Ferryhill Northeast. /visiting if south

Don't see them as regrets i see them as learning from things.

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
6 weeks ago

In a galaxy far far away

"Smoking.

Was the stupidest thing I did, I quit 2 years ago but it was a nightmare to quit and took a few months to accomplish.

Well done. Don't go back to the cigs. Took me about 3yrs before I could say I didn't want a smoke but it was well worth it.

XX"

Thank you, it was hard to quit.

I still get cravings when I drink, but I'd never smoke again x

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By *ldmanMan
6 weeks ago

Rawcliffe Bridge.

Saying "no" to many guys when I was younger.

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By *ildwestheroMan
6 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Biggest regret is not sexual at all. It was selling my lovely bungalow about 5 years ago. Feeling low and depressed at the time after the covid lockdown. Thought I'd be happier living elsewhere. If anything it has proved worse.

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Not living my dreams in my 20’s

I should of bit the bullet come out the closet and transitioned when I was young enough to start over

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By *-skinMan
6 weeks ago

Weymouth

Had a penpal years ago sound of stuck with her.

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By *arehamMan
6 weeks ago

Titchfield/Fareham

I regret not being true to myself when a teenager. My life would have been so different.

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
6 weeks ago

North East

That i let people walk over me at school if only i had the life experience i have now I’d have finished everyone of them with no second thoughts whatsoever

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By *jh59Man
6 weeks ago

Huddlescote

Regretting and denying my feelings when a teen,had two marriages before I stopped denying my true feelings

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By *ornyme61Man
6 weeks ago

Coventry

"I regret not being true to myself when a teenager. My life would have been so different. "

Similar to the above, I wished I had the confidence to act on some of the opportunities that I had when younger.

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By *ellhunglow001Man
6 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I regret not experimenting more when I was a teenager. Had chances but never went ahead.

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By *rian2Man
6 weeks ago

London west

1. Being too conventional and not giving in to local gay guys hints when in my late teens. One was young tall slim and had the deepest blue eyes.

2. Choosing a wife not my size so cant wear her clothes.

3. Not experiencing cock in the ass sooner.

4. Missing out being a top before prostate treatment emasculated me and made me a bottom.

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By *ammerhant420Man
6 weeks ago

Bromley, Kent

Not buying that bijou little flat in Camden Town for £19.5k, back in 1984, because I thought it was too expensive.

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By *mrmarkMan
6 weeks ago

Tavistock

Turning left into a brick wall instead of right into door.

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By *imassagesharerMan
6 weeks ago

Northampton-East

Not spending the night with Kevin,

Back in 85, living in a hostel in London, comforting a friend after he had cried about his family estrangement - he asked to stay the night in my room, share my 2"6 bed - said he'd keep his underpants on - I had no idea he was gay at the time,

Often wonder whether something might have happened!

Guess always knew I was different but in denial - always drawing men with beards when a teenager, parents never discussed sex and no idea of options - might add lived overseas as a teenager so somewhat an innocent abroad when arrived in London in 85 -

Guess I've always had a fairy godmother protecting me as close to running out of my 9 lives, could so easily have caught something as am sure would have dived in head first

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By *oxleyMan
6 weeks ago

Wetherby

None really.

Happy where I am now - married but gay 🤭

Have a regular

No threat at home.

Sort of stumble along month by month.

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By *ainlandMan
6 weeks ago

Derby-Burton-Nottingham

My biggest regret was not having the money in my twenties to pay for Shirley Bassey tickets for my dad and when I got the money together they had sold out.

I was working for the PO and spent money like water in them days going out, buying clothes and getting laid.

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By *unFitFifty888Man
6 weeks ago

various

Waiting an age to discover my nipples are wired up to my c*ck - they really are

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By *astguy7Man
6 weeks ago

Paddington

Turning down the Harry Potter part in 2001. I'd have paid my mortgage off by now.

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By *untime300Man
6 weeks ago

hertford

Having to move away from small group of older guys when younger

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By *vionxMan
6 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Last December I was staying at the NEC for a Xmas party and stay in a hotel in Resorts world. I was tipsy and desperately want sex and just met up with anyone but he wasn’t the best experience. I wish I just waited and hopefully found someone for all night sex. I only get this chance once a year where I’m away from family and have my own hotel room. Such a waste of a good opportunity.

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By *DC2000Man
6 weeks ago

Coningsby

"Not buying that bijou little flat in Camden Town for £19.5k, back in 1984, because I thought it was too expensive."

Selling a 2 bed flat in Richmond, Surrey, in 1988 for £38k. Really should have kept it....

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By *luskatMan
6 weeks ago

Llangollen

When I was a teenager I had the gay urge. Met a girl,got married,had children etc. Recently got the feelings back but now participate. Many a fine chance passed me by

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6 weeks ago

None.

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By *evanianMan
6 weeks ago

Gogledd Ddwyrain Cymru

I have but a few regrets for I've realised that regret is a futile luxury and an expensive one at that — it costs you every minute you could spend moving forward to a happier future.

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By *ony1166Man
6 weeks ago

Bexley

Parting from a girlfriend who was filthy and loyal. Big tits and like the girls as well. What a mug I was.

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By *edi4Man
6 weeks ago

Barnstaple

walking along a beach and a guy stood up in the dunes, naked and beckoned me over, I bottled it and kept walking.

also, not finding fab before my wife stopped working - she was away a lot - all the fun I could have had

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By *moother1Man
6 weeks ago

Port Talbot

Oh another massive one, giving up my Live Aid ticket to a friend because my boss would not let me off a £1.50ph seasonal job…

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By *elfordsubMan
6 weeks ago

Telford

Too many

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By *ason-DMan
6 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

Between marriages (I am a full blown bisexual and not bi curious), I started late night cruising at a local park.

Most hookups were suck and wank in the bushes. I met a Chinese guy who was just totally compatible in every way! We satisfied each other in many ways at his place. We didn’t exchange phone numbers though.

A week later we bumped into each other again at the same cruising site, again we took it in turns to fuck and suck for ages.

I was still unhappy and not comfortable or confident with my sexuality. I was afraid to come out to my friends and family.

This gorgeous Chinese guy that I had had repeated sex with asked me for my number. I wanted to see him again, but was very afraid of being outed and I gave him the wrong number! I regretted that decision and went back to the cruising site several times, but never met him again.

The sex and the relationship were so strong, that I knew I would have to decide whether to declare myself bisexual or gay.

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By *arrysmiffffMan
6 weeks ago

Colchester/Clacton

Not finding fab guys earlier in my life!

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By *ingslynnMan
6 weeks ago

Grantham

Not starting when i was younger

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By *ustaNormalBlokeMan
6 weeks ago

Strood

"Not starting when i was younger"
same for me. I should’ve listened to my inner urges.

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By *ean1200Man
6 weeks ago

wilmslow

I had no inner urges until about 10 years ago, but now I love all types of cock fun, I cant express to anyone apart from on hear what I like that's my only regret, oh and losing my fabswingers details.

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By *ndy61hMan
6 weeks ago

Plymouth

Regrets!!! I'm just happy to have survived.

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Bedford

Giving my girlfriend both keys to my cock cage. XX

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By *dAnnaTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Sunderland

Had urges as teenager and didn’t act on them until much later. So many missed cocks

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By *haneportsMan
6 weeks ago

portsmouth

"I have but a few regrets for I've realised that regret is a futile luxury and an expensive one at that — it costs you every minute you could spend moving forward to a happier future."

Well said. I've no regrets. We make our decisions on the criteria & how we feel at the time. I look forward to things, New or not.

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By *3243Man
6 weeks ago

EDINBURGH

Regret that the Internet and sites like this weren't around when I was much younger.

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By *eardedfella76Man
6 weeks ago

London Essex

"Oh another massive one, giving up my Live Aid ticket to a friend because my boss would not let me off a £1.50ph seasonal job… "
. No way!!! Fuck this is tragic

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By *jbaggiesMan
6 weeks ago

Oldbury

That as a church lad I didn’t have aex with the girls i dated as a teenager

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By *irralGuy20Man
6 weeks ago

Wirral

"Had urges as teenager and didn’t act on them until much later. So many missed cocks"

This, although swap teenager for late 20's

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By *ature164Man
6 weeks ago

Watford

Like most missed opportunities for cock

Although it was harder to find when I was younger I definitely knew where

But peer pressure stopped me

Wish I had been a cock slut

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By *amme!Man
6 weeks ago

on my travels

"I've had a few but there again, too few to mention.

(well, someone was going to do it). "

Thanks for saving me from doing it!

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By *ichtea284Man
6 weeks ago

Beccles

Not being into cock many years ago when swinging with my ex.

Missing out on the one chance I got to fuck my ex SIL

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By *hubbyman10Man
6 weeks ago

Bloxwich

Not so much regrets just wish I could be more proactive in seeking meets, yes I know its down to me to do something about it but real life always seems to get in the way

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By *ockednikiMan
6 weeks ago

Newhaven

Not enough cock when younger, still not enough now I'm older x

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By *ew0792Man
6 weeks ago

Loughborough

Not going further with things as a teenager ….. had to wait till my late 40s to start meeting guys

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By *ittlefishMan
6 weeks ago

Im here

No regrets, they don't work

No regrets now, they only hurt

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By *hyna HutchMan
6 weeks ago

valleys

"I've had a few but there again, too few to mention.

(well, someone was going to do it).

Thanks for saving me from doing it! "

Happy to help as they say in Asda.

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By *oundmyarse1970Man
6 weeks ago

South norwood

I regret not taking more cocks when I was younger and firmer if we had fab when I was a teen I'd have been such a slut with old men

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By *oodyMan
6 weeks ago

Newcastle

Not acting out on my urges in my 20s then finally taking the plunge in a cinema in Amsterdam which was amazing and really opened up my eyes to the joy of cock - also wish I started to bottom a lot earlier too

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By *gly duck cdTV/TS
6 weeks ago

middlesbrough

Should of come out a lot earlier than 48

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By *elly74Man
6 weeks ago

selby

Not having anal and not suck cock really

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By *hloxbeautMan
6 weeks ago

edinburgh

Not meeting men when i was younger

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By *xtraoneMan
6 weeks ago

Gloucester

Non, je ne regrette rien

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I have so many regrets but then I think honestly I can’t change them so they are what they are and have shaped me to who I am today

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By *obrob1972Man
6 weeks ago

portishead

Posting a pic but went to icloud and wife found my profile…getting Text saying “you might want to delete fabguys pic….nice”

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By *ayleMidsTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Loughbrough

Not realizing who I am and who I feel comfortable being earlier in life. Spent too long fighting the stereotypical when im not

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Marrying my estranged wife , big mistake !

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By *elly_leKTV/TS
6 weeks ago

corby

That I wasn't born decades later so could enjoy the benefits of online shopping, dating sites, and social media when I was in my 20s and looked so hot in a dress and heels!

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By *appylondonMan
6 weeks ago

West London

"Like most missed opportunities for cock

Although it was harder to find when I was younger I definitely knew where

But peer pressure stopped me

Wish I had been a cock slut "

I feel the same. I wish I had given into my gay side in my earlier years and experienced lovely man sex in all its messy glory. Trying to make up for it now.

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By *luesky1000Man
6 weeks ago

Bedworth

Being honest to my wife when we met that I'm bisexual and love to cross dress.

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By *astDevonGuyMan
6 weeks ago

Seaton

Having the cucumber sandwiches

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By *eorgesdadMan
6 weeks ago

Nottingham

I should have encouraged my wife more to cuck me and watch her be fucked by other men

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By *obby_000Man
6 weeks ago

Evesham

"Having the cucumber sandwiches "

Is it bad I want a cucumber sandwich now

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By *hyguy62Man
6 weeks ago

Brentwood

My biggest regret is that I didn’t have as much fun as I could have had when I was younger. I did have a fair amount, but there’s some things I love now that I would like to have experienced more of much earlier lol xx

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By *aster islandMan
6 weeks ago

navan

If 30 years younger I'd pure trans bi now .. pity tho ..

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By *atasscdTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

shouldnt of got married

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By *aster islandMan
6 weeks ago

navan

I didn't ..

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By *mdikdaveMan
6 weeks ago

Canterbury

Had the nerve to get cock earlier in life

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By *itskinMan
6 weeks ago

west midlands

I think a regret is something you haven't done

So my plan is to do everything

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By *etterbiggerMan
6 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

That I fell in love with handsome man. He gave me the best sex of my life. In many ways he was very good. He seemed to have an image of me that just wasn't me.Unfortunately he was insanely jealous and mentally unstable. I got to the point where I couldn't cope anymore which led to a very painful permanent split. I don't know if I regret falling for him. Or that his instability forced us apart. An interesting time of my life. Not to be repeated

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By *aveyboyxxxoMan
6 weeks ago

Warwickshire

Not making it obvious that I was open to gay sex with an old boss of mine . Im 99% sure he was gay and often wanked alone thinking about him . This was many many years ago , and I hadnt yet played with any cock , but I really wanted him naked !

Ive lost contact now and dont even know where he lives , but Id still jump into his bed now .

Ive even looked on here in the hope hes on here but wouldnt have the first idea what his username would be .

So Stephen , originally from Notts , if you on here by some miracle .....im all yours ! X

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By *astDevonGuyMan
6 weeks ago

Seaton

I was 30 recently divorced and in my first proper Gay relationship. He was 47 a handsome, successful businessman, he wanted to retire and for us to live in Tuscany . I was struggling with not a penny to scratch my arse. I clumsily ended the relationship due to pride. Many a small hour of the morning I have wondered “ what if” …..

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By *ose_QuartzTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Berkshire

Choosing an Audi over a GT3

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By *onstant.Man
6 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

Not having cock in my teens.

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By *alking HeadMan
6 weeks ago

Bolton

Not recognizing come ons from men and women. I must have been walking round like Father Dougal in my teens.

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By *spenMan
6 weeks ago

St Leonards on sea

Not fucking my sister in law when i had the opportunity. The big regret in my life.

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By *ndyjohnMan
6 weeks ago

Wirral

I ignored the my obvious gayness through lack of courage thus missing out on years of love and lust

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By *ic15Man
6 weeks ago

wroxham

Sticking a chocolate Twirl up my arse thinking it would be fun to have it melt up there!

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By *ic15Man
6 weeks ago

wroxham

Sticking a chocolate Twirl up my arse thinking it would be fun to have it melt up there!

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By *nakehips40Man
6 weeks ago

Carlisle

Buying a pair of cowboy boots in my younger days, I knew even as I bought them that I would never wear them and I didnt.

They hurt my feet too!!!

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By *eryCuriousGuyMan
6 weeks ago

Tidworth

Spending too many years (since mid 20s) thinking about having fun with guys instead of actually having fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Hiding my true self for so many years

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By *ampell1Man
6 weeks ago

Liverpool

Having fun with to older guys when younger

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By *ary1066Man
6 weeks ago

Preston

"Sticking a chocolate Twirl up my arse thinking it would be fun to have it melt up there!"

Not a George Michael then

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By *enny54321Man
6 weeks ago

snaith

Not going into a girls house I’d walked home from school one day after she had asked me to come in knowing her parents weren’t there

The lad who walked her home the next day did and had a whale of a time.

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By *ough stuffMan
6 weeks ago

Northamptonshire /Fakenham

I was very young, didnt want it and never spoke

up afterwards.

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By *emma xMan
6 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Not acting on my curiosity sooner"
same here

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
6 weeks ago

North East

Not having more confidence in myself when I was younger

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By *eam Bi MatureMan
5 weeks ago

Leamington

Be propositioned for a threesome by an American girl I knew from my biker days for her and her mum. I was working in a pub and the chat turned horny. I was only twenty at the time but going out with the girl I’d eventually marry so loyalty shone through.

I honestly thought they were joking through their inebriation but found out a while later that they weren’t. Bugger.

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By *laything66Man
5 weeks ago

fife

Not following up on my urges till later in life

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By *ristolsbMan
5 weeks ago

Dersingham

"Don't see them as regrets i see them as learning from things. "

Beginning to sound like a life coaching video. There's nothing wrong with regretting something. It needn't imply some paralysing grief.

I regret getting married and becoming involved in toxic happy clappy religion. My life would very likely have gone better without.. so I've learned. That's all regret is.

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
5 weeks ago

North East

"Don't see them as regrets i see them as learning from things.

Beginning to sound like a life coaching video. There's nothing wrong with regretting something. It needn't imply some paralysing grief.

I regret getting married and becoming involved in toxic happy clappy religion. My life would very likely have gone better without.. so I've learned. That's all regret is."

Well said 👏

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By *iscrete-maleMan
5 weeks ago

Retford

I cant say I have many regrets, sexually anyway, but if anything its not actually doing what I really want; booking a hotel room and hosting some fun, in an area im not local to. Its something I know i can do, but it is something I havent committed to doing.

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By *oreskinlpoolMan
5 weeks ago

Liverpool

Played more when was younger and single

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By *hrisWellsMan
5 weeks ago

Shepton

Turning down a 3some with two sisters! I was too d*unk and knew I wouldn't be able to perform

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By *andy XXXMan
5 weeks ago

Staveley

Chicken out with it right there

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By *avidsubbiMan
5 weeks ago

aberdare

I was taught that regrets are something that will wear you down if you keep hold of them...bad things we have all done ..you got to say to self I'm to blame try to right the wrongs and then move on...regrets shame etc should not be stored in your head.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Waiting until in my 40s to suck my first cock.

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By *iono555Man
5 weeks ago

DERBY

That I didn't spend enough time with my grandad when I could have (tbh I wasn't an easy person to be around then), that I messed up so badly with my ex girlfriend, that I've never been able to finish my education (otoh that experience caused me permanent harm.. and I'm completely serious) & that I've never been able to get back at the bastards.

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By *avey-leicsMan
5 weeks ago

Earl Shilton

Had a chance with my mate in my teens but bottled it . It was 25 years later I first tasted cock. Such a waste

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By *eentocam2Man
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

Watching my ex get played with and not joining in.

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By *onnyd26Man
6 days ago

Mitcham

Not getting into kink play sooner stuff like ws and bondage just never saw the appeal till i tried it

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By *ock006Man
6 days ago

near winkleigh

Don’t regret what you do regret things you never done

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By *ature164Man
6 days ago

Watford

That I dint find cock earlier

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By *tandbyme555Man
6 days ago

mitcham

Met a black guy with dreds years ago. He was such a nice guy. Met a few times then lost touch.

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By *nalslut123Man
6 days ago

Near Perth (not in Perth)

I regret having too many relationships when I was younger and being too sensible by turning down a lot of sexual experiences that were available. Honestly, if I knew then what I know now! However, I've made up for some of it and I intend on making up for the rest.

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By *hil96Man
6 days ago

Portsmouth

I regret not being fully intimate with guys until 20 years ago and missing out on a lifetime of cock.

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By *ockFunUpmMan
6 days ago

Upminster

I regret trusting that fart

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By *jh59Man
6 days ago

Huddlescote

Regretting and denying my feelings when a teen,had two marriages before I stopped denying my true feelings

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By *W9DaddyMan
6 days ago

Richmond

Thinking I was unattractive as a young man because I was a ginger.

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By *avid WMan
6 days ago

Birmingham

Not having fun with older men when I was in my 20s.

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By *ockednikiMan
6 days ago

Newhaven

Too many years in denial, constant purges, missed opportunities x

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By *owerplay823Man
6 days ago

Lewes

Spending too long having boring sex

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By *ost and lust fuelledMan
6 days ago

st.helens

"Too many years in denial, constant purges, missed opportunities x"

I utterly empathise

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By *upSamMan
6 days ago

Evesham

It trying cock and sex with other guys sooner

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By *treyu500Man
6 days ago

wickow

"That i let people walk over me at school if only i had the life experience i have now I’d have finished everyone of them with no second thoughts whatsoever

I can resonate with this one. To be fair to ourselves though, your world is much smaller back then. My bullies were mainly my friends. Standing up to them often meant being left out of things which would have left me alone. It seemed like an impossible situation at the time when we are young.

I also avoided physically fighting and only did it as a last resort.

I always thought that was the right approach. But life experience has taught me that some people only understand the language of a bloody nose. My boss is bullying me at the moment, she has done it to others and gotten away with it. So I've been building case against her for weeks which I will unleash this week with HR. I just want to do my job in peace. Fight those bullies !! Life is too short to take crap from people who take their issues out on you.

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By *orthfieldsnickMan
6 days ago

West London

Like a few others, I wish I had tried cock sooner. Even though I’m married and don’t play very often, I’m much happier now I’ve embraced my bi side and I might have made some different life decisions had I done it sooner

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By *ral and analMan
6 days ago

Ossett

Not starting cock fun earlier in life

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By *ogerramjetMan
6 days ago

Porth

Not telling lots of people to fuck off.

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By *xplore moreTV/TS
6 days ago

cockermouth

My regret is that I didn't start dressing when I was younger

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By *oundmyarse1970Man
6 days ago

South norwood

I really wish I'd sucked cock slot sooner than I did

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By *ottomcumslut999Man
6 days ago

Kempston

That I didn’t have gay sex as a teenager with older men. When I look back I worked on a farm with two older guys. I wish I had had sordid sex with them and their friends. 👩‍🦳🌈😘

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By *ateralspaceMan
6 days ago

Enfield

That I didn't have cock fun much sooner than I did.

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By *ulio69Man
6 days ago

Thirsk

"Should have got past gfs and current wife to peg me!"
it’s totally this! My wife’s a slut but I should have told her yrs ago my sub / bi feelings snd I’m sure we would be still playing together even if she was in control! Too late now

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By *ost and lust fuelledMan
6 days ago

st.helens

"My regret is that I didn't start dressing when I was younger "

This also x

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By *otsure03Man
6 days ago

witney

That I didn’t try gay sex younger

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
6 days ago

Bedford

No regrets.

There's been many dark times really bad times when I thought to end it .Its been a bed of roses and times of absolute joy. But things happen that make you who you are, so I take the good the bad and the ugly .No regrets xx

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By *ibblefishMan
6 days ago

louthish

Life is to short for regrets what’s done is done

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By *erasusMan
6 days ago

Glasgow

Being too ‘good’ a boy when I was younger. So many opportunities not taken up, so much sexual fun missed!

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By *ral and analMan
6 days ago

Ossett

"That I didn’t have gay sex as a teenager with older men. When I look back I worked on a farm with two older guys. I wish I had had sordid sex with them and their friends. 👩‍🦳🌈😘"

Yes thats my regret, not getting used in my early years, God I wish I knew then what I know now

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By *robesMan
6 days ago

mirfield west works

Some family members

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By *cunnyAprilTV/TS
6 days ago

Scunthorpe

Starting a relationship with a woman after being arrested for being gay, which resulted in me moving 30 miles from home and losing touch with my friends, she of course left me and our three children so I am effectively stuck here

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By *ard8onMan
6 days ago

Darwen

"That I didn’t have gay sex as a teenager with older men. When I look back I worked on a farm with two older guys. I wish I had had sordid sex with them and their friends. 👩‍🦳🌈😘

Yes thats my regret, not getting used in my early years, God I wish I knew then what I know now"

This is my regret. Missed so many opportunities when I was younger

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By *onna AmourTV/TS
6 days ago

Preston

My regret is that I never started fully dressing years ago , and that I didn't begin my feminisation until recently,

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By *aughtyantoniaTV/TS
6 days ago

Guildford

Yes me too

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By *ral and analMan
6 days ago

Ossett

"That I didn’t have gay sex as a teenager with older men. When I look back I worked on a farm with two older guys. I wish I had had sordid sex with them and their friends. 👩‍🦳🌈😘

Yes thats my regret, not getting used in my early years, God I wish I knew then what I know now

I'm not sure i would have recognised the opportunities, but I sure wish id have accidentally fallen across them! Discovering public loos was my introduction

This is my regret. Missed so many opportunities when I was younger"

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By *ing_donMan
6 days ago

Worksop/Leeds

Not admitting who I was years ago and convincing myself I was into women and marrying one.

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By *immySplashMan
6 days ago

Coventry

Not experiencing university life

Alcohol

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By *ovechix69Man
6 days ago

north Northumberland

Spending so much time on here with no results but it's addictive

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By *ijockMan
6 days ago

Westerhope

after tasting cock in my early teens not admitting I liked sucking cock till I was in my late thirties Trying to make up for it now

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
6 days ago

North East

Not waiting just that extra minute…

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By *eed sucking 39Man
6 days ago

Local

Passing on cock opportunities I turned down when I was younger. Now it’s a nightmare to get any as the world has changed so much.

Life - I’m happy with what I have done, I always say everthing happens for a reason and I’ve learnt that’s true - sometimes you have to wait a while, but it all become clear.

Biggest mistake my last ex. Total head f**k! And really hasn’t aged well either!!

Biggest win was buying my first house at 19. Man money was tight each month, only having heating on at weekends. No holidays. Bangers for cars etc… but has works out well now later in life.

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By *arlos 0511Man
6 days ago

Manchester

Not sucking as many cocks as I would have liked to up to now.

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By *AXGUY2025Man
6 days ago

Cheshire

Existing rather than living.

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By *leaser99Man
6 days ago

london

Finding cock later in life

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By *ave 202599Man
6 days ago

Sittingbourne

Getting married at 21 to my 1st wife and having kids not the I regret my kids was had bi feelings never acted on them untill much later

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By *eed sucking 39Man
6 days ago

Local

"Existing rather than living."

Totally agree

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By *oannacd70TV/TS
6 days ago

worcester

12 years of daily mentally and physical abuse from my 1st wife . Should have listened to my friends and not got involved with her

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